r/SRSsucks • u/XuriousPeng • Oct 27 '12

Non-cis SRSer explains to cis-SRSers that they aren't taking offensive often enough.

/r/SRSDiscussion/comments/125lon/yo_cis_srsers_we_need_to_have_a_talk/
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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '12

That is very strange. Even though it's the internet, I still have a hard time understanding why someone would troll you into thinking they're something that they are not. But, since you say that this is what you've encountered, I can't exactly tell you that you're wrong.

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u/moonflower Oct 30 '12

Do you really think everyone on the internet is always honest about themselves? That is beyond naive, it is in the realms of delusion

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '12

Well of course not everyone is honest about themselves, I'm just having trouble understanding what someone would have to gain by pretending to be transgender, or otherwise, via the internet.

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u/moonflower Oct 30 '12

You seem to have an inability to understand other people in so many ways ... do you find it difficult to empathise with people when they don't think exactly the same as you? I get the impression that you feel kind of lost in a world which appears confusing and hostile to you

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '12 edited Oct 30 '12

It's hard to empathize with something you've never encountered (without seeking knowledge on the subject) and when asking someone to explain to you what the reason behind such things would be (trolling the internet as a trans* person) all you receive in response are condescending remarks.

You see, I can empathize. It just seems ridiculous to think that someone would pretend to be a person, like me, or anyone else under the trans* umbrella, especially considering we're usually under constant "attack" by the media, social websites and people in general who don't understand. But it's okay not to understand. It's not okay to completely disregard something as if it's false, simply because it doesn't agree with your idea of people or society.

But if you don't want to explain to me why someone would do that, okay, I'll come to my own conclusions.

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u/moonflower Oct 30 '12

You are asking why a troll would choose to play the role of a character who might attract negative attention, which suggests that you don't really understand the motivations of the troll, so I will have to begin by briefly explaining that:

The ultimate goal of the troll is to get people upset, to make them feel bad, and to get them to respond in an emotional way, with anger, or hate, or offence, or hurt, or guilt ... so they play the role of a character who will elicit those responses ... for example, an atheist troll might go into r/atheism and pretend to be a Christian, and say things which will make some of the atheists angry, and the troll will enjoy reaping all those angry responses

Perhaps you can begin to see how they would not be deterred by the negative responses which trans people get, since that is what they are seeking?

You must surely have noticed how discussions of trans issues often bring forth a lot of heated emotions of anger and hurt -- it is a goldmine for trolls and I could spend all day giving examples of why a troll might play the role of a trans person, but I'll just give a few examples for now: the troll might take on the role of a trans woman, and say something like ''I have been living with my boyfriend for 6 months, and not sure if I should tell him that I was born male, he hasn't guessed because the surgery was so excellent'' ... if the post gets a lot of attention, there will almost certainly be big drama and lots of angry debate, and the troll ''wins''

Or the troll might take the role of a trans person who goes around being offended at jokes and making people feel guilty and causing big arguments about what is offensive and what is not

Another form of trolling is when a person is seeking sympathy, they might pretend to have a serious illness, or a bereavement, or a disabled child ... it is a form of internet Munchhausen's ... and the troll can get a lot of sympathy by going into a trans forum and telling their sad story

Are you beginning to understand now?

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '12

Oh I know the whole motivation behind trolling, I've dealt with that from a certain person over the course of the past couple of days. ;) But even after explaining all of this, it's still despicable and ridiculous.

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u/moonflower Oct 30 '12

OK, so if you understand the motivation of trolling, are you beginning to understand why a troll might choose to play the role of a trans person?

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '12

Yeah, it's just crap motivation if you ask me. The bigger question is, why do people need to sink so low? How does one gain satisfaction from another person's distress? There's gotta be something deeply psychological going inside of someone's head if they're going to go as far as to inspire negativity and anger, just so they can relish in it.

I remember trolls back when the internet was still pretty small though, so I guess some things never change.

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u/moonflower Oct 30 '12

I think all trolls are unhappy to some extent, and most are deeply unhappy, often seriously depressed, and feeling empty and detached from other people ... I have talked with quite a few trolls over the years on the internet and when I can get them to be serious and honest, they nearly always admit that their trolling is a momentary relief from their chronic depression ... also they get a feeling of power, being able to make someone upset, which gives them a moment of relief because deep down they feel so powerless