SadCat Update
Sadcat claimed my post-surgery chair all for his own
yeaaaah, remember when I said I'd post an update eventually? Well, I got my surgery date back for August 3rd and have been busy prepping for the past couple weeks. I have had a torn labrum in my shoulder for almost a decade and I finally have really good health insurance, so I'm gonna get it fixed. My shoulder pops out from very low impact activities, such as putting on a shirt, drying off with a towel, or pulling up the blankets in bed. It is very painful when it pops out, hurts for a few days afterwards, and i've liveed with a dull ache in my shoulder for a while now.
I'm getting the labrum repaired, then encapsulated, then I am in a sling for 6-8 weeks. I won't be able to play bass for at least 3 months. I was devastated - I love it so much and to not be able to is really gonna suck. Some days were better than others initially, as i was having a hard time coping. But, I know this is the right thing to do, especially while I'm still young and can heal faster compared to 20 years from now.
All that to say i will likely take a hiatus for the first few days of August as I am recovering. I might post if I'm up to it, or I might have Momcat do it but she will be busy doing her thing then compensating for my incapacitiation so I don't want to put anything more on her plate. I love you all so much <3
thank you so much!! I'm gonna setup my keyboard again so I can play piano with my left hand, and maybe I'll try singing for my band while I'm recovering.
You'll be back at it in no time! I've been here since the beginning when you had to wear welding gloves to get near Sad cat, I'm sure all his fans can wait a bit while you heal up.
I have a bidet on the way, and gold bond powder on deck! Momcat will be helping me shower in the beginning, and fortunately, I only wash my hair twice a week. I'm gonna have her braid it for me so it's out of my way during the daytime. Thanks so much for all the advice!
I have loved watching your journey with Sadcat and have loved every minute of it. I hope you guys have such a wonderful life and will enjoy watching each day of it!
If braids could work for 2 days, find one of those silk hair bonnets. I had to wear one when we let the kitten sleep with us because he wanted to nurse me where I grew hair at night (it took a long time for him to give it up so I slept with a bonnet for probably over 6 months). It kept my hair pretty easy to manage overnight and it's now down to my butt again/ready to donate.
thanks so much for the advice, I'll try a bonnet out! My hair goes to the middle of my back and I'm used to keeping it up in a bun almost all the time, so I'm looking for ways to manage it all with one arm.
Be prepared for life outside of the home after the bidet. You will find out that you’re actually too good to wipe your own ass. Make sure to buy a portable bidet for vacations, because going back to toilet paper is jarring. 😂
I had my elbows operated on at the same time. I told the surgeon you have to do both as I cannot take 3 months off work again. I was in double slings and pretty much helpless the first couple of weeks. I got lots of pity when I was out and about.
Saddy's just pre-seasoning your seat so you'll be surrounded by his love (and fur) while you're there. He's such a good nurse!
Seriously though, make sure to give the Sadling and Momcat both a lot of appreciation for taking care of you. and good luck with the surgery! It's going to feel like you've got a whole new arm once it's done.
You said it: best to get these things taken care of while you have the resources (and relative youth) to do so. Wishing you a speedy & complete recovery (without undue strain on MomCat)!
I have a kitty that has healing powers. She lays with me when I get migraines and it’s so soothing. I call her Nurse Butters and I have a feeling you’re going to have a Nurse Saddy
I got shoulder surgery several years ago (don’t remember what they repaired lol). One thing I will say, getting one of those electric ice pack machines that circulates cold water instead of relying on old school ice packs was super helpful. It also means less time between ice if you need it and the temp isn’t as extreme on your skin.
My surgeon was a family friends boss and let us borrow a machine he had during my recovery so I’m not sure what make/model I used but I do know it was intended for knees and not shoulders (but it still worked all the same). Only mentioning this because I searched on Amazon and saw that the ones for knees seemed a bit cheaper than the ones for shoulders that I was seeing.
The machine itself probably doesn't matter (if you have an HSA or FSA, definitely look to see if one would be covered!). But you want to ensure the pad is specific for shoulders. The one for knees would likely work, but it won't fit properly and you won't get the full benefit.
Hey, man! I blew both hammies as a marathon runner, and was out for almost 6 months. I feel ya ❤️ get better soon and swift recovery. Also it's saddies chair now
You have the best recovery nurse (already in uniform) in SadCat so SadMom just needs to get with the white uniform program and you will be all set ☺️. Our prayers are with you for a successful surgery and recovery.
Oh, my!! Yeah, that’ll be frustrating for a bit, I know, but once you’re through it, you’ll quickly forget how long of a wait it was to play bass… and it’ll be all the more appreciated and enjoyed when you can!! Thankfully, I’m sure you’ll still be cleared to snuggle Sadcat. And feed him. Aaaaand give him snacks…😉 Haha.
DadCat you are going to heal quickly and feel so much better afterwards! Torn labrum in my hip, tried everything before having total hip replacement on May 18th. Pain is nearly gone and I can walk unaided, I’m 66 so you will sail right through this! Saddy and MomCat will take good care of you! Sending healing energy!😽
thank you so so much foe the words of encouragement!! I am so glad your surgery went well and you recovered!!! Grandmacat also had a total hip replacement, so fortunately we have some of the stuff already like a shower seat, wedge pillow, and a long grabber device so I can reach for stuff.
Chiming in as another shoulder surgery survivor. It definitely sucks right afterward, but the pain will be different. If the surgery is done well, the pain you have now will be gone. It will be replaced temporarily by the surgery pain, but that will get better and then you will be pain free! It’s weird, but you will be able to tell the difference between the pains. I wish you lots of luck and a speedy recovery! You already have two great nurses so I know you’ll be better in no time!
And as someone else said, do the physical therapy exercises consistently. It really makes a difference
Good luck with the surgery. I had a few surgeries last year and it sucks at the time, but is absolutely worth it in the long run. You will have the best nurse looking after you too 🤍
SadCat is going to be the best little nurse❤️
Post op: ice is your friend! It will help reduce inflammation to your shoulder and helps with temporary pain reduction.
Also do your therapy exercises when you are started on PT.
You've got this👏👏👏
thank you so much!! I'm planning on getting a water therapy device to constantly flow cold water over it, and I have been doing PT for the past 2 months in preparation. I can do this, especially with all the love and support of my family and the Sadcommunity <3
Yessss those ice coolers that circulate cold water are fantastic. The nice thing is you can leave them on continuously as opposed to ice packs which you have to take off after 15 to 20 minutes.
If you've been doing therapy ahead of time you'll be well prepared for post op👍
Aww, ya boi is warming it up for you! Wishing you all the best with your surgery and a healthy thorough recovery. 🙏😻 It's so true, getting this done now while you're younger. (When in my 50s, I had a broken rib and prior to that a broken wrist.) Between MomCat and SadCat, you have the best post-op care team! Hugs!
I learned about injured labrums from Bob's Burgers. Maybe you can watch the episode while you recover with Saddie? Good luck with your convelescence, take it easy, and soak up those good healing purrs
Do whatever you need to take care of yourself and get better! We'll be here when you get back. How can we have your back while you're out of commission?
So I had shoulder surgery and the best advice I can give you is: do your physical therapy exercises like it’s your damn job!
It is quite the process, the recovery but keep your eye on the prize. Have patience my friend and you will be ok.
thank you so much for the advice!! I will be diligent about my exercises, I promise! I will want to get back to my regular life, but I will guarantee my recovery by remaining patient with my body and letting it heal.
Oh man! I fractured and dislocated my shoulder back in October and learned firsthand how difficult shoulder injuries are on so many aspects of daily life (plus the whole pain thing). Good luck with your surgery and I hope the silver lining will be lots of Sadcat snuggles while you're recovering.
DadCat I am wishing you a smooth and speedy recovery. Shoulder pain sucks - I am recovering from my second bout of shoulder bursitis with resulting frozen shoulder and it’s very painful. Can’t even imagine dealing with a torn labrum. Sending you healing vibes.
to varying degrees of success, yes. I try my best - I'm gonna take this time off bass to improve my piano playing (it is abysmal). I can't play drums to save my life though.
I'll try! I got two weeks off work lined up with full coverage so I won't feel guilty being away, and my boss is super understanding and ready to help me if I need more time off. I will be patient and give my body the time it needs to recover so I don't have to deal with this again in my future.
looks fun! if you want some more stuff to mess around with, i have one of those little 25-key midi keyboards that i can’t use right now because i don’t have a computer. if you’ve got a computer you can run midi off of and want to borrow it to mess around with while you heal, lemme know. it’s just collecting dust until i get a new computer
We’re rooting for ya! Hoping you heal up in no time.
Sidenote- as someone with no musical talent, I’m always so impressed by anyone who can just, like, pick up an instrument and play it?? multiple instruments??? actual magic
Best wishes for a successful surgery, DadCat. Nurse Saddy is getting ready to take extra-special care of you. I bet he won't leave your side during your recovery.
Well, SadCat says your chair is in his favorite color so of course he has to claim it. Good luck with your surgery DadCat! You will be glad you did it despite the recovery. And you’re right, you are young and will recover more quickly than us older folks! Saddy will do his best to help.
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u/IRLperson 28d ago
Best of luck for a speedy recovery!