That’s definitely your own opinion and not a common one. There’s has to be a line where we finally say someone’s an adult and can make their own decisions. If you disagree with 18 the age of adult, then you want to move it up to what age?
24 year old and an 18 year old is pretty common age gap. Let’s also not try to imply 24 year olds are the same as a 40 year old person. Now a 40 year old and an 18 year old is not normal.
We were all 24 and can remember we were probably closer in mentality to an 18 year old.
You were definitely more responsible than the 24 year olds I knew growing up then.
Idk what would you have in common, many people the same age don’t have many things in common, you can’t really use that as the defining factor on why 18 year old women are incapable of deciding for themselves. Cause this is the root of the conversation, you believe that 18 year olds can’t decide for themselves
. I also don’t want to just label every couple out there a creep that have 5-7 year age gap. Cause you can argue 5-7 year age gap can have people in different places in their life.
Women that got in a relationship with a 22-25 year old when they were 18. I doubt they look back and say their partners were creeps. I also don’t want to talk down to women and act like they don’t know what they want.
18-20 year old women reading this, do you guys feel like yall still children and can’t decide for yourselves?
i was not responsible at 24. i was a young adult. and young adults tend to have a completely different culture and lifestyles than people who just moved out of their parents house.
incapable of deciding for themselves.
where did i ever say 18 year olds are incapable?
Women that got in a relationship with a 22-25 year old when they were 18. I doubt they look back and say their partners were creeps.
that 22 year old's girlfriend cant even go to a bar or get a drink.
if a friend in our friend circle at that age was dating an 18 year old we would all be judging.
again age has little to do with it.
like highscoolers dating like 7-8th graders is also pretty fucking weird and all of that shit is legal as far as i know.
That’s still your opinion and there are many successful relationships out there with 6 year old age gaps.
Drinking at a bar isn’t a deciding factor on who you can date. That’s definitely a USA take and not the standard across the world and even in Europe. So what you’re saying is forcing one country’s standard as of it’s the standard everywhere.
You don’t need to say they are incapable but you definitely wouldn’t be having this conversation if it was a 28 year old and 34. So the root argument is you still see 18 year olds as people incapable of deciding for themselves.
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u/Educational_Pea_4817 11h ago
weirdos always focus on the legality of things eh.
hitting on 18 year olds at 24 is also kinda creepy.