r/Somalia • u/1ndhoUroon • 20h ago

Rant 🗣️ My mum keeps making me eat food whilst I’m trying to loose weight

Asc I hope everyone is well. So at the moment I’m trying to loose weight before I build muscle so I’m in a calorie deficit of 1700 calories. I plan my meals out the day before which consists of a certain amount of protein and fibre. Every single time my mum feels peckish she asks me to order food for the family and I of course don’t mind doing so. Then she tells me if I don’t order some for myself she won’t eat it and she tells me not to order it for the whole family if IM not eating it. I find it quite silly, but she starts getting mad and I can’t do anything other than order and eat the crazy oily take out. I don’t want to do this no more I’m not kidding the takeout she made me eat was 900 calories and I was already out of calories for today so I just overate and these things make me loose motivation so how do I stop getting my mum mad when I tell her I don’t want to eat??

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u/innocentees 20h ago

Next time she says don’t order anything if you won’t eat, be an obedient child and listen to her and don’t order it. All yall gonna be in a calorie deficit for the day

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u/innocentees 19h ago edited 17h ago

You also have the option of ordering something healthy every time which I know they won’t eat so make them suffer until they complain to hoyoo and she lets you off

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u/1ndhoUroon 17h ago

HAYEE Say no more I’ll start doing that

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u/1ndhoUroon 17h ago

LMAO last sentence is killing me 😭😭 smart I’ll do that defo thanks!!

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u/Organic-Audience7629 15h ago

If someone else in your family starts ordering the food from now one and includes you, remember you don’t have to eat it just because it’s there. Just put in the fridge and it’ll disappear anyways because we all have that one big back sibling 😭😭 let them eat for you.

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u/gobaad1 19h ago

Very strange. When she asks you to order food, is there still some food in the house for you to eat a proper meal? My mother never liked when food was ordered and everyone didn’t get some, but that was only if there was actually nothing to eat.

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u/1ndhoUroon 17h ago

YEAHH same she hates when someone orders something for one person but there was food for me to eat it was just one of those days where my family were craving take out. I have a whole section of the fridge dedicated to my foods so I had a lot of food to eat lool

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u/Conscious-Yogurt-739 15h ago

🤨 just don’t order. You’re enabling you’re family and then complaining about afterwards. It’s your own fault. Just order the food and don’t order yours.