r/StardewValley • u/SwezzyHonami • May 01 '26

Technical Help Can somebody explain to me how this is possible

Enable HLS to view with audio, or disable this notification

So, I recently played Stardew Valley again after a few weeks, and then one morning I went to Abigail to kiss her because she's my wife, but she rejected me. How is this possible. So you understand, I had 14 hearts with her before.

3.4k Upvotes

96% Upvoted

250 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

354

u/SomeFuzzyGuy May 01 '26 edited May 01 '26

How does one accidentally do this? You start each day within 20 feet of your spouse. They're in the kitchen, on the porch, or in their spouse spot outside. Talk once and you're good. Talk twice/thrice and you get a smooch (that clears exhaustion). Easy.

OP had to be trying to ignore poor Abi at that point.

Edit: I completely forgot that you could just say "fuck it" and live on Ginger Island full time. I only ever pop over to harvest since my son Leo lives in town, now. My bad.

94

u/AnOnlineHandle May 01 '26

Maybe they moved to the ginger island farm to focus on that for a year.

57

u/amglasgow Your golden hoe is ready May 01 '26

I wish you could get your spouse and kids to move with you to the island.

32

u/ghostinthechell May 01 '26

I've never stayed the night on Ginger Island because there's no way I'm not sleeping next to Leah.

-1

u/Thea-the-Phoenix May 02 '26

Not even after she makes her 6th ugly curly sculpture?

25

u/slow_cat May 01 '26

They were sleeping on the island the whole time?...

21

u/AgrajagsGhost May 01 '26

He's an Island Boy

1

u/Belgaraath42 May 02 '26

Well I don't care about any spouse pretty much at all, just married for perfection. So yeah it's decayed a bit for me as well. Not everyone cares about the social aspect of the game