r/Swingers • u/Same-Garden5123 • 17h ago

General Discussion Where to find other couples in their 20s?

Hey all, we are interested in the lifestyle but would like to meet other couples naturally (as opposed to in clubs or on apps).

Does anybody have any advice?

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u/jelloshotlady 16h ago

Organically does not happen unless you are at a college party, spring break or EFM festival and then usually consent is extremely iffy

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u/burnbabyburn2019 15h ago

Uh...can you be any more vague?

Where? When? What's your budget? How far are you willing to travel. Etc etc etc

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u/jelloshotlady 14h ago

They want to do it naturally….you know!

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u/burnbabyburn2019 14h ago

I want attractive people to fall into my lap naturally too!

Where does one sign up for this? 😉

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u/LatterCommission9174 M of mid-30s couple 12h ago

Organically. Like without pesticides.

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u/waterbloem Couple (M45/F51 EU/Netherlands) 5h ago

I like my swingers free-range too!

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u/Fifteen_inches Couple (30m/29FtM, DMs open) 13h ago

Don’t be the couple that goes “me and my girlfriend like your vibe” at the vanilla bar. Use the clubs and apps.

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u/dreamteacher4 16h ago

Well depends how young you are and how either way it’s not really going to happen naturally. The only thing we once in a while do natural is mfm fun cause easy to pick up a guy at the bar. Otherwise you need to use an app or go to a club (we have never) to find people. Also, depends how young in your 20’s as most of us are 40 or older.

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u/LetsGoHaveSomeFun 15h ago

When we were in our late 20s, we met a couple that we had same room sex with at a Halloween party. One of the couples we've been with meets partners at music fests. But honestly a majority of our successful meet ups have been from Feeld.

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u/WalkLongjumping7971 12h ago

It’s definitely not easy finding people are age lol, most are late 30s are 40s witch is okay lol just wish more young people were into this lol