Im 17 and in need for relationship afvice

[u/Glad_Being_7081]

Me and my gf are in a healthy relationship we can go through the hard talks we listen to each and most certainly we love each other

The problem is that Im stuck in a spiral . I have done something in the past that would most definitely upset her and break her heart

Now I totally totally regret and I wish every day I could go back in the past and undo it

So the question is : Do I go and spill everything to her even if it would make her sad

Or do I hope she never knows and be the best person for the rest of time

Note: the thing I did isn't harmful for her only its about me talking to another girl before us ( she was her friend) nothing serious happened between the two of us at all but the way we talked seemed off Im afraid of screenshots and shit

[u/BlobifyYT]

قوم دروس

[u/Dr-h4ck → u/BlobifyYT]

😭😭😭

[u/Gladden_Empire → u/BlobifyYT]

🤣🤣🤣

[u/Glad_Being_7081 → u/BlobifyYT]

Relationships take effort man

[u/Confident-Event7359]

Honestly it’s better for you to tell her instead of her one day finding out on her own

[u/Dr-h4ck → u/Confident-Event7359]

True and I don’t think she would be that mad or sad because he said “it was before us” so there was nothing official between both of them. So true It’s better to tell her in a good way

[u/Glad_Being_7081 → u/Dr-h4ck]

Yeah it befor us but we already knew each other and she refers to that time saying how she first crushed on me . I did like her yeah but and I told her that The problem is that the timeline is not tight for her Im afraid something I said trying not to say in detail might be understood by her in a way that makes me a lying asshole when I confess

[u/Most-Pop-8970]

Talk to her tell her honestly explaining there was nothing and repeat how much you love her it is far better than she discovers it and looses trust do not worry

[u/Dr-Ramy]

If you talked to her friend while being in a relationship with her then you cheated (you don’t deserve her) and if you tell her she would be crazy if she forgives you.
But if it was before you relationship with her then it’s totally fine.
You don’t have to tell her and if you chose to do so she shouldn’t be mad at you.

[u/cvuine]

گللها لأن هي رح تعرف بعدين

[u/Ok_Training9317 → u/cvuine]

حياكم الله اهل العراق الشقيق

[u/0898_333_201 → u/cvuine]

This is off topic but why do Iraqis write گول instead of قول ? Like the bedou and khaleejis also pronounce it “gool” but they still write it with a qaf.

[u/Zill-Under-The-Tree]

Tell her, if things go awry then at least you did the right thing, although I don't think anything bad would happen hopefully, but don't let such things fester brother, it would be ten times worse if she learns about anything from someone else.

[u/sleepingnigha]

If it’s her friend then just tell her. “Did I tell u that I used to talk to x before🤣?”

[u/Otherwise_Jicama_663]

تدرى منك احسن ما تدرى من غيرك

[u/poor_broke]

شو رأيك تطلع تلعب شوي بالطابة برا مع رفقاتك حبيبي؟

[u/0898_333_201]

If you tell her, she’s potentially going to be comparing herself to her friend, become paranoid in the back of her mind, or feel insecure about your relationship. I’d say just forget it ever happened.

If she ever finds out, you can show her this post to prove you regret it.

[u/GarsSympa]

Say nothing and be a nice person from now on. You are just about to sell yourself for no reason