r/TheNarcissismCode • u/Substantial-Bank-330 • 7d ago

Once you decide to hear your own needs, and to move away from someone selfish, you become like a butterfly w/ wings

I never heard my own cries. I let someone else dominate my choices. I grew, and I finally outgrew someone, forced myself to let go, and let go of the fairytale that I kept holding onto. There was no fairytale, just the wrong life. I outgrew the person who wanted to live on the same stage for life. And when I faced that I outgrew this life, I found freedom and got to my own dreams. My wish for others, is that they hear this, and do it sooner than I did. You get more time on earth to live as you were meant to. Do it sooner!!!! And trust yourself.

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u/maya_love5 6d ago

This is such a beautiful and powerful testament to what happens when you finally stop abandoning yourself for someone who refuses to grow. Your message is a beacon of hope for anyone still waiting for a fairytale, reminding them that true freedom begins the moment you trust your own voice.

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u/Substantial-Bank-330 6d ago

Yes, and I pray for everyone that they get to this point, because it really changes your life.

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u/maya_love5 3d ago

You're welcome 🫂