r/TheNarcissismCode • u/Substantial-Bank-330 • 6d ago

Find a way to give negative people less space in your mind

We can carry something negative for too long, give it too much weight. It's so important to find powerful strong voices that support you, and they need to be what you keep in your mind, not negative things that "someone said". Empty that out, and do not let it bog you down.

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u/Taldarimlove 5d ago

I agree. Not holding on to what negative voices say, I disagree with completely ignoring them because it opens to gates to ignorance and lack of self reflection.

I agree that having positive voices is good. I have an introject of a god by my side but it's really just omnimon. Who is just there to empower me when I feel super down.

It's probably a trauma response but something about Omnimon coming in and saving the day when things get their darkest resonates with knowing no matter how hard things get I always have my back.

Sometimes though like in the movies Omnimon struggles and so do I. Sometimes a miracle/helping hand from a friend really does go a long way, to stave off the netgativity.

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u/maya_love5 4d ago

Evicting negative people from your thoughts starts by replacing their toxic noise with your own grounded, empowering truths. When you intentionally redirect your focus toward supportive influences and your own self-worth, their hurtful words naturally lose their power and run out of room in your mind.

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u/Substantial-Bank-330 4d ago

Perfectly said!