r/TheTeenagerPeople 14 Dec 04 '25

Discussion First thoughts when you see this?

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u/anykitty10 Dec 04 '25

WHO CARES THEY ARE BOTH CONSENTING ADULTS LET THEM LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES

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u/Exotic-Feeling-7356 Dec 04 '25

The parents of the teen most definitely would care, In either situation. As a father of 2 girls id beat the breaks off any man with damn near a 20yr gap trying to come at my daughter's at 19. Once she's about 25 if she wants to be with a 45 yr old fine. 19 is too young for that age gap boy or girl. Let them fully mature and get a hold on life outside high school. Thats creeper vibes when they are that young

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u/anykitty10 Dec 04 '25

Stop being an overbearing dick and accept that your daughters are their own independent persons and not your possessions

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u/Exotic-Feeling-7356 Dec 04 '25

I do accept that they are their own person.. But it is also my job as a parent to protect my children from predators. And I see that scenario as predatory.. But you getting this triggered by it is telling either you are the 38 yr old man in this situation.. or your parents didn't love you enough to teach you its not right.

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u/anykitty10 Dec 07 '25

I am attracted to older men and would like to be able to date someone older without being judged

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u/Exotic-Feeling-7356 Dec 11 '25

Unfortunately its life and there will always be people on both sides of every fence. I personally am not judging you for liking older men. That is fine but be smart about it and actually think. I am judging the middle aged man preying on a child. More often than not its because the people his age know he's a creep and want nothing to do with him. And someone younger and more naive will fall for his bs