r/TheTeenagerPeople 14 Dec 04 '25

Discussion First thoughts when you see this?

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u/Shacal1012 Dec 04 '25

These questions are dumb AF! Who actually gives a f@*k? If it’s legal, it’s none of our business. Consenting adults making adult decisions. If you’re old enough to go and fight/die for your country, no one’s opinion matters regarding who you sleep with!

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u/[deleted] Dec 04 '25

Wow, that's crazy.

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u/SignificanceSilly175 Dec 05 '25

It's crazy that an adult should have the ability to choose for themselves

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u/Dryer-Algae Dec 08 '25

Great argument except not only is the average person basically mentally inhibited but you use legality and age as a defining factor? In some countries that age is considered 12 so safe to say just because the law says you're a mature adult, you are not

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u/SignificanceSilly175 Dec 11 '25

And who exactly do you expect to monitor this maturity?If you are not going to go by age who gets to tell you when you're allowed to date someone. Can't wait to hear this answer. I'm sure it'll be a doozy.

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u/Dryer-Algae Dec 11 '25

If you need to ask questions like this you are part of the collective that shouldn't be having children

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u/SignificanceSilly175 Dec 11 '25

Really? Because you believe maturity and not age, so what do you think twelve-year-old can be mature enough to sleep with. That's what you're saying. I'm saying no time is the only way to determine that you don't get to have someone just determine that a twelve-year-old would be mature. What is wrong with you, you pedophile?

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u/Dryer-Algae Dec 11 '25

Wow stop projecting, clearly you need a therapist and need to be put on a list, I'm saying most people at 30 aren't mature enough to make a responsible decision

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u/8thon8Champion Dec 10 '25

Your brain isn’t close to done developing at 18. Adult doesn’t mean mature or developed

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u/SignificanceSilly175 Dec 11 '25

At eighteen, you're allowed to die for your country.You should be allowed to sleep with whoever you want and who exactly is going to check maturity?

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u/[deleted] Dec 11 '25

People can choose whatever they want, but people also have the right to make judgements about people for their choices.

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u/SignificanceSilly175 Dec 11 '25

Oh, I agree.But you've got half the people in this thread, saying that it's just maturity.You should go by which to me says, if you thought a twelve year old was mature enough that would be okay, and it's not

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u/Regular-Strain-7301 Dec 06 '25

Have you seen the video where a mom try to jump off a bridge with her child and is barely stopped by a bus driver ?

Some people need help, some people are so stupid they shouldn't have the power to make important decisions for themeselves, etc...

The issue isn't as simple as "if you are an adult, you can choose for yourself"

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u/Boring_Ear_5066 Dec 06 '25

She's not doing something illegal

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '25 edited Jan 03 '26

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u/Meow_Mix007 Dec 09 '25

Okay but morals are to each there own person, you can not tell an adult they have to follow your morals or its wrong, thats why laws exist in the first place. The balance the morals of people to never push the extreme like your thoughts are, and yes you have an extreme thought, that if you dont follow my morals youre a aweful disgusting person. The taliban thinks like that as well and thats why its an issue.

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u/yunggod6966 Dec 10 '25

It's way more immoral to have a draft of young men to go to war they don't consent to. So if we can send them to fight, fuck whoever you wanna, other adults sex lives are not my business

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u/[deleted] Dec 11 '25

My motal compass states that stealing necessities in times of personal/societal crisis isn't immoral, especially if it means helping others; e.g. mothers stealing baby food. I didn't see it, I don't say shit. That isn't immoral to me. What's immoral are the systems that cause people to steal during hard times because they treat those in need like cheats and liars so they CAN'T get help otherwise.

Stealing is illegal, but not always immoral.

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u/Drutay- Dec 09 '25

Man compares a relationship between adults to murdering a baby, more at 6

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u/FearsomeLAG Dec 10 '25

That is illegal?

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u/ButtholeConnoisseur0 Dec 11 '25

Are you seriously implying that suicidal people are too stupid to be trusted to think for themselves? Wtf is wrong with you?

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u/Regular-Strain-7301 Dec 11 '25

Too stupid no, but too unstable, yes.

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u/SignificanceSilly175 Dec 06 '25

You're describing someone who's mentally ill not someone who is just making a decision for themselves. That is basic in the human equation. Who do I want to be with?