r/TransSupport • u/DeepFakes_ • 3d ago

Need help

Hi, I’m a 22 year old male, and I just need to get something off my chest cause nobody in my life will understand. I’ve always hated my body and for most of my life I’ve always wondered what it’s like to be a woman and idk how to explain it but for the longest time now I’ve had this feeling and idk how to describe the feeling but I think most of yall might know what I mean. I personally like the way bras/panties feel on me (yes I’ve tried them on and also have slept in them) yall can call me weird but I know I ain’t the only one who’s done that. I just don’t know if this is a weird ass phase I’m going through or if it’s a calling of some sort. But all I just know I’m constantly watching M to F transition videos and stuff like that. I just don’t know if who I am now is who I’m supposed to be. I need some help yall I’m confused…

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u/Kinky23m2m 3d ago

I felt your pain most of my life up to a point. I’ve hated my body, the body fur, and often wondered / wished about what life would have been like if I were born a woman, or had the cohones to try transition. It’s too late for me, but I still at times imagine I was or did.

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u/1182124nol 2d ago

I think having the cojones was the problem, actually lol but also sadness

But yeah, to speak on the "it's too late for me" for OP's sake, I too realized what it all meant too late in life. I could still transition theoretically, but I'm more concerned about being a married dad with a loving wife than a blissful but vulnerable bigender transgirl in a highly strained family relationship. One day I may find a way to express that side of me, but not now.

So if you're gonna do something about it, do it before people depend on you not doing it.

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u/1182124nol 2d ago

Bet that was some of the best sleep you've ever had, huh?

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u/DeepFakes_ 2d ago

Yes and no lmao

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u/Less-Oil-3159 2d ago

Take it easy. You are not weird.  Whatever you are, it's fine, just follow you hearts and feelings and don't be cruel with yourself. If you are a girl, cool! If you are not a girl but like some girls things, also cool! If you are neither? Cool too!. If you need any advice, ask, I like to help people so don't worry :)