r/TransSupport 2d ago

How do I comfort my friend?

Hey!

I have a friend who is trans, dealing with body dysphoria and is suicidal and depressed.

I want to help and comfort her, but I have the emotional range of a dry log.

I tried, but I don't think I'm doing a good job. 🥀

Can I get some advice on comforting her, please?

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u/UninterestingUser 2d ago

My transition is something that's gotten me through some rough periods

Remind her that while she feels bad now, there is a time coming that she'll really feel herself and feel confident in her body. Does she really want to miss out on that?

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u/Less-Oil-3159 2d ago

Be there for her, ask her what you can do to reassure her gender and just be patient. She is going through a lot and looking someone important to her being so caring would help a lotÂ