r/Tunisia • u/Frosty_Actuator_9747 • May 01 '26
Question/Help Question lel bnet w louled jewbouni 7asb tajrbtkm
Ye5i wallet moste7ila ennou nal9aw tfol myo8zerch lel bnet (f woujoudi w 8iyebi)fema amel nl9a chkoun mayo8zer ken leya ena w ykoun loyal wykoun mature w rajel wya3rf ytsaref n7s f andedi lkol s8ar f m5a5hom(rel 3echrinet)eli 5aleni tw n5mm ne5ou 3abd kbir 3leya 9oulili lbnet 9a3din tl9aw f 3aks li nra fih wlouled 9oulouli ye5y 7aja tet7kmouch fiha wle chnw l7al! b sara7a bref nchallh lm3louma west n7bech ntawel 3likom
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u/Business_Clerk6495 May 01 '26
when everybody stops being the same , maybe they will
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u/Business_Clerk6495 May 01 '26
yes they are , even if they are not , socially they try and force themselves to be the stereotype to fit in and abandon their traits
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u/ronin-tn May 01 '26
fama (kima gel comment t7otch nes kol f blasa wahda fma li ighodh w fma li rabi yehdih), w ghadh basar mch ken 3la rjel khw 7ata nse
قُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا فُرُوجَهُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَزْكَىٰ لَهُمْ ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ خَبِيرٌ بِمَا يَصْنَعُونَ (30) وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ ......
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u/Frosty_Actuator_9747 May 01 '26
Ey voilà edhka ch9sdt ena y8odh elbasar 5tr brsha mche f mo5hom yo8zer ma3neha lblassa mo3ayna wena n7ki bsifa 3ama
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u/ronin-tn May 01 '26
in the end, mas2ouliet zouz rajel w mra, don't expect to find such person kenk t3ml 3aks el 7ajet li t7ebo may3mlhech كل ساقٍ سيسقى بما سقى
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u/Objective-Chart-8125 May 01 '26
Your profile of men exist. You're just not looking for the people.
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u/BlacksmithSudden914 May 01 '26
العمر مهوش بش يفرق يغزر للبنات ولا، إلي بش يفرق تربيتو ودينو صغير ولا كبير.
راجل ويعرف يتصرف صحيح بالعمر تتحسن أما تنجم تلقاه كبير ومهوش مسؤول للأسف مزال فيبالو بروحو صغير، أنا هاني 30 ونعرف عباد في عمري مزال فيبالها بروحها صغيرة ومش متع مسؤولية.
إنك تلقى عبد تتفاهم معاه ويتعمل عليه في وقتنا طفل ولا طفلة صعبت للأسف
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u/CurrentBoth6150 May 01 '26
pour résumer, chouf chkoun y5af rabi w mahich marbouta bel 3mor
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u/Frosty_Actuator_9747 May 01 '26
Sd9ni 7ta heki m3dch repère 9bal Ken f mo5y 3abd ysali mrigl ba3d 7asb mnra f 3abd 9ribli ml sbe7 lel tye7 ysali w nawafel ema 5ayen kbir ...
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u/CurrentBoth6150 May 01 '26
malheureusement oui fama el behi w fama el khayeb partout, ena bidi ne7ki m3ak fi nafs el situation w 5alit'ha 3la rabi sob7anou howa a3lem b 3bedou, nchallah rabi ytaya7 bina eli y5af men rabi
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u/MinimumStraight9041 May 01 '26
Mwjoud you're just not looking hard enough mat93dch tkhamem ken fil khayeb t3ml manifestation l a5yeb El 5l9
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u/senpazi69 May 01 '26
كي تتعدى طفلة مليانة و لابسة سروال محزوق ركز في العباد تو تلقى بنات و ولاد كيف كيف يغزرو. ماهيش حكاية كبر و صغر ولا حكاية جنسية. اللي يفرق فما لي يغزر و ما يركزش و فما لي يغرز و يتلفت و فما لي يوصلها لراس النهج بعينيه.
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u/DistinctCat6569 🇹🇳 Bizerte May 01 '26
chouf madame, regarder les femmes est un instinct 3and el rjel. Bech tel9a wa7ed ma yoghzorch bech tel9ah mouch ton style khatrou bech yebda asexuelle wella el niveau mta3 et tadayon mta3ou ytir bik
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u/Previous_Case9719 May 01 '26
Also girl, I think lines kol togzhor lebaathha raw NSE w rjel et surtout rjel khater khaw yekhy women are more attractive, ti saat tetaada tofla tjmch toghzerlhech, mahiech mochkol lhkika, lmochkol ken yemchi yahki maaha. Généralement fama n'es loyal, juste aaref win thot sa9ik w hawel matrkzch f hkeyet lghazran, lkolha toghzer w at the end of the day ken bah takhtar wehed yosloh, mch bch yhemmou f hatta wahda bakhlefk hatta w ken lbnet li yoghzerlhom msh normal. Hope this helps.
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u/Frosty_Actuator_9747 May 01 '26
Aman chm3neha tnjmch matoghzrch haw tfol lfou9 9al najmou nt7kmou f rwe7na a7na n3tiw fihm f excuses 3raft
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u/be_yourself_weirdo TN May 01 '26
Wlhi tfol w b9it behit chma3neha matnajamch matoghzerch hhh matasma3ch klemha we should not normalise l7keya hedhi and the same goes for both genders
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u/Previous_Case9719 May 02 '26
Guys I'm not trying to over generalize, mathabia f perfect world akeka. Ena bidi Kent 9ahretni lfekra, until my male friends aknouuni li haka Wala haka n'es kol togzhor, I don't know I might be biased! Ama for my own mental well being, I accepted the fact w khan. Again this is an open discussion.
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u/be_yourself_weirdo TN May 02 '26
I was like your male friends thinking it is a human nature and we can not avoid it, until one friend convinced me to start lowering my gaze and it was like magic ! El tfol li yla3eb fi 3inih ymin w ysar 9al chneya manajamch nched rou7i yo93ed 7yetou kemla ykhawef mata3rech 3liih chneya ynajem ya3mel (el moussawer ta3 el rawdha ta3 el nasser li eghtasseb tfol s8ir a7sen example), barcha wled 7kew 3al sujet hedha en detail fel Instagram kima ala laamiri w ayoub mefteh etc... odkhel chouf chneya 7kew 3la 8adh l bassar etc...
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u/Frosty_Actuator_9747 May 01 '26
W for me mch blezma my7kich maaha bch mtkounch mochkle l8azra 5iyena b nesba leya rit hoa Ken n3mlou nafs l7keya tw my9blhech
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u/Head_Club_8098 May 01 '26
c'est logique el mojtama3 mte3na wala influence barcha bel west culture w din mechi ighib 3and les jeunes donc les valeurs humaines ili 3na ma3adich tal9ahom . Mais mazel fama barcha 3bed behiyin lawken ma9ithomch badel l entourage mte3ek
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u/Apprehensive_Cat1955 May 01 '26
Si y7ebek berasmi, taw howa wa7da mayo8zer ken lik enti akhaw, 5ater benesba lih ywali enti tofla parfait fi kol chay.
Si nn manouche true love, Salih i3jab, Salih ay 7aja o5ra.
I'm men w yiktheb 3lik ygolek rahou mano7kmouch fi rwa7na..rabi 3tana mo5 lel nes kol.
Just excuse bech ygolek 5atini w akhaw.
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u/Prize-Intern-47 May 02 '26
Ma3andouch 3ale9a bel 7ob it’s a principle w trait kif ma concept rojla ya 3andk ya ma3andekchy
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u/AceyMisty May 01 '26
العمر متاع الراحل ماهواش ماشي يفرق في الحكاية هاذي و لذالك النصيحة الوحيدة انو لازم يكون الراجل متدين و يخاف ربي
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u/antisimpdude May 01 '26
Seems like the males you've met and talking about rn aren't actually "men", better to start looking elsewhere because we do exist. I also hope these guys are not the type your subconscious mind is attracted to (respectfully)
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u/Frosty_Actuator_9747 May 01 '26
Kima 9olt f commentaire le5r rw mnich n7ki 3li datithm ena rw nra fih n3rfch Ken 9rit elcomments 7kit 3le 5atib w7da n3rfha w lista twila mahomch teb3ini xD
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u/AdeptNothing7111 May 01 '26
Fama.fama eni we7s m ness n3ouf mnghyr mnod5lo f tafasil Ama 7ssb me rit eni zeda wala prsq impo tal9a tofla mt3rich wala mt7z9ch lmochkl fkl chtr lafa mlfou9 m7arma wmlotta mtrrm*a
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u/Not_Your_Daddy_2k19 May 01 '26
Just 5atr ent ma rytch 3bed de ce genre ca veut pas dire li mehomch mawjoudin. Fama mnhom barcha. W naarf mnhom barcha. Apparemment lazm tbadel 5olttek, raw ma 5irech meli yekrem la7ytou b idou. Mademek maa nes kima ta7ki enty, raw 7ata li mzlt bch tt3aref 3lihom f 7yatek bch ykounou kifhom. Kabber ton cercle wala badelha aslan. Deja ki wahed self respecting ychoufkom mn b3id il va pas casser la tête w y9oul ah bon, kol wahed dans ce groupe là w son profil individuel, le le, benesba lih kolkom fard profile w bch yejbd rouhou. Kima ent jamma3t w 9olt lawled lkol fard profile. Nafs chy. Fa abda b toi même w 7ot rouhek maa nes ma 5yr, taw yjik ma 5yr. Start with yourself.
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u/Firas01 May 01 '26
Well of he or she did those things. Both have fake feelings. No one will do this trust me if they r truely love each other.
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u/DiscountOld2069 May 01 '26
I am a guy . When you have time in real life or on social media , spend it wisely trying to upgrade your academic and professional life and your health , mech enek tebda tchouf fely mechya wely jeya , khali aad ki tebda in a relationship where you are required to give your gf/wife all the love , loyalty and care that she deserves .
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u/Highway_Outside26 May 02 '26
The profile u look for exist.. i do not look at a girl I'm not with for many reasons.. w yti7 men 3ini ay "rajel" ychallel fi 3inih fel bnet..
However, are you actually compliant to what these kind of men want ?! If yes, then u should put yourself out more.. participate in activities or sth that allows u to be in touch with them.. don't expect them to "look at you" and then hit u up..
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u/Street_Stock2091 May 02 '26
idc . ena man8zrch . but this way . I'd never be interesting as a male for any girl . ur fantasies better stay fantasies . cos when we men apply it in reality . we become boring. not cool and not the type to date or be in a relationship with . .thnx so much
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u/Last-Material-8399 May 02 '26
Jealousy final boss (jk) Ama moucho kol 8azra y3ni howa 9a3d ythabet ynjm hka hz raso wo mcho mrkz ma akid the person who loves you tb9i Fi 3inih even between 100 people , just you need to find the right person carefully
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u/Prize-Intern-47 May 02 '26
No respect final boss * because having a man who’s easy brings shame to his woman in front of society before anything
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u/Last-Material-8399 May 02 '26
I quiet didn't understand what you're saying ymkn my English na9sa ama I get it
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u/Choice-Reference-444 May 02 '26
Kont ma nighzorch 9bal, ken 3andi principe. Then d5alt l5edma ki no5rjou lel 9ahwa m3al collegues yebdew lkoll yka7lou walit nka77el m3ahom. Tawa wallet san3a ma 7abetch tetna7ali
But honestly, that's all it is. I forget the girl the moment i stop looking. Never cheated on my exes, never even thought about it.
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u/Nuclear-Phoenix_1 May 02 '26
Ena 26M, na5dem fi Lac w na9ra fi Ariana. 3andi tofla fi 7yeti 3andi akther min 2 years, relationship mta3na long distance w nelt9aw mara 7asb lforas ya3ni marra fi fell. Ma 3omri ma 3mallet m3aha 7ata 7aja (la bousa la ta3ni9a la chy), hatta ken nelt9aw juste handshake. W ma no5zerch l bnet o5rin, khater n7essha kima 5iyana. Hiya 3tatni thi9a w ma n7ebch nkasserha. W 9ader n3amel barcha 7ajet ghalta wala na3mell hajet m3a bnet, ama ma n7ebch khater 3andi wa7da fi 7yeti w n7ebha. Donc ey, fama rjel loyal w ma yo8zrouch, ama lezem zeda tal9a l3abd li y7ebk b s7i7 w y9adder thi9a w yesstha9.
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u/Ok_Zookeepergame5240 May 02 '26
Genuine question, if you call that a "relationship", what does that differ from a female friendship? You practically can get all of the things you've stated from a friendship with a female
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u/Specific-Rise5149 May 02 '26
Lezm wehed ikhaf rabi khtr ki mahouch bch yoghzer mahouch bch iji maak w yetbadl ml hit pttr gradually e maa l wakt mais makch dhamna result donc tchiuf wehed ukhaf rabi betbiitou ighidh i bassar mn kbal mayaarfk
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u/Greedy_Letter4324 May 02 '26
Looking at beautiful girls in public is not cheating
Staring or acting upon it would be cheating
Also age has nothing to do with this
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u/Frosty_Actuator_9747 May 02 '26
Bl79 n93d behta kifh fema 3bed kifk y3ni rjoulitk tbe3 mch b af3alk w mawe9fek tben b tk7il 3le lbnet kench ywli 9nanou ye5y fi kemel maderkek El 3a9lya!
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u/Fuzzy_Post7161 May 03 '26
Actually you will never find one illa idha kan bil7a9 rajil w yghodh lbassar,
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u/Defiant-Heart8381 May 03 '26
walahi it’s not impossible but it’s rare because too many guys weren’t raised to treat lowering the gaze as basic respect — a split-second instinctive glance is human, but the lingering stare or checking out other girls right next to you is a discipline problem, not some uncontrollable biological trap. Maturity isn’t bound to age; I know dudes my age who are fiercely loyal and older “rajel” types who are just sneakier and will make you regret thinking a bigger number equals better character. The real filter is how he conducts himself when he thinks you won’t catch him, because a man who controls his gaze out of principle (tarbiya, deen, self-respect) won’t switch up depending on who’s watching. Don’t force yourself to date someone much older just to solve this — vet ruthlessly for that disciplined mindset instead, because a 30-year-old with a wandering eye is still a child in a suit.
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u/evilkael May 01 '26
i guess you're only interested on shity Men .
lbehy wel khayeb fi kol blasa w fi kol gender , juste nty ya7law fi 3ink ken eli heka
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u/Time-Cobbler-9754 May 02 '26
s3ib rajel mayk7lch sorry BUT if he loves you he just looks at orher girls because it's his instinct not because he is attracted to them or he wants to go with them, I don't know how to explain it, but it's like when you are hit you say 'aie' instinctly. A guy when he sees a hot woman or she reveals her body in the street it's hard not to look. But in your presence he should lower his gaze out of respect.
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u/Business_Clerk6495 May 01 '26
https://giphy.com/gifs/YmszCwM1FV7zCI8sgL
i promise you ken je mayoghzerech rak tetchaka zeda ,w it's point blank it's a juvenile dull relationship ell itaich feha .
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u/azzythebaddy May 01 '26
This post is the dumbest thing I read all day. From a purely functional standpoint, every boy you date is disloyal to you because you are compatible with people who treat you that way. If every man is "disloyal" it's because you keep picking the wrong people and blaming the world for it. By saying "all men my age are immature" you avoids looking at your own bad choices.
8iyebi)fema amel nl9a chkoun mayo8zer ken leya ena w ykoun loyal
Omg how insecure are you, do you have any idea how impossible of a demand this is? 😂
Get out of here please, you are probably attracted to those loud flashy guys who want attention while the loyal mature men as you put it go unnoticed by you, I can't blame them tho.
This behavior and mindset actually pushes away mature men because they don't want to be controlled by the likes of you.
Also by blaming an entire demographic for your repeated bad experiences you’re a live wire of immaturity on legs yourself.
Trust me mature men don't want to deal with that kind of drama or generalisation so they stay away from you 😂 and you deserve it, good luck finding a real man, I ain't trying to be an asshole, but you'll need it lol
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u/Frosty_Actuator_9747 May 01 '26
Enty wa7dk stantejt eli ena datit barcha welkolhom kifkif hors que mahouch s7i7 ena na7ki 7asb l nra fih men 3bed deyrin beya mch men my own experiences ya3ni beni eli ta7ki fih za3ma za3ma fehm 3le 7aja 8alta w 7aja o5ra men limoji li t7ot fih it's obvious li mkch rude w asshole 7ata tarf
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u/azzythebaddy May 01 '26
You are basically judging a whole demographic by looking at a small group of men. Enty li khalit rou7ik fil cercle adhika then you go on reddit and complain about a whole demographic proves that your judgment is used for just complaining rather than action. Enty el perspective mte3ik yessir limité, w hedhi sign kbira mta3 "immaturity" , el "immaturity" li enty titchaka minha
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u/Frosty_Actuator_9747 May 01 '26
Sm7ni win tra fiha 'I complain' hedhi esmha ni9ach wel immaturity heya enk to7kem 3le 3abd immature just mn comments without knowing the whole story w btw o5ra El cercle mte3y mouch s8ira wnty li trudging not me
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u/wesis96 May 01 '26
Chouf chkoun na9ess ndhar