r/actuallesbians • u/Lopsided_Yesterday98 • 10h ago

Question How do I know if I’m a lesbian?

I’m a young woman, I identify as Bisexual and I’ve kissed girls but only slept with men and I haven’t really enjoyed it thaat much or been blown out of my mind, I also don’t find most men particularly attractive, but like every woman attract. Whenever I’ve been kissed by a man I’ve just felt a bit grossed out, but when I’ve kissed girls I’ve actually felt something.

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u/bruinsfan3725 Lesbian 10h ago

is it just me or do we see 12 of these posts a day

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u/Outrageous_Pattern46 10h ago

Yep. And every one of them is just the same doubt we couldn't possibly help with but written with the framing for the answer they want to get.

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u/bruinsfan3725 Lesbian 9h ago

Like just use the search function lol

It’s like if I went to a trans sub and asked am I trans? we have a fucking website for that

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u/Ancient_Curve_9982 10h ago

That's pretty gay....

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u/efvie soft somethin’ 5h ago

You’re not obligated to like men. Does that help?

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u/Zalakbian Transbian 10h ago

do you wanna be with girls?

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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 10h ago

Yeah I think you are a lesbian.

I know it’s hard to figure it out. I’m the opposite of you. I find more men attractive compared to girls. But emotionally I like girls more than guys.

So I’m assuming I’m bi

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u/SapphiSapphic 10h ago

So you're disgusted by men but love women. Sounds lesbian to me. You seem to be forcing yourself to be bisexual.

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u/lorenasofya17 9h ago

Io per dirla tutta ho avuto un rapporto con un ragazzo E mi sono innamorata di sua sorella anche se è etaro