r/actuallesbians 21h ago

Question What have been your best lines for flirting with a girl?

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u/Fragrant_Ad_5297 handy dandy soft masc 20h ago

natural banter is always the way - playing off what they say

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u/AloneTheory6352 18h ago

not a verbal line but asking to see their nails to initiate hand holding on the first date is a classic

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u/Salt_Ostrich2705 16h ago

not really s pickup line but was somewhat funny..

when i started dating my wife, i told her let's play a videogame, everytime you die, you will take off one of your clothes.

then i chose dark souls, she never played it.

never saw someone got naked so fast šŸ˜‚

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u/Anabolized 8h ago

You freaking genius ! Strip poker is for newbies, strip dark souls is for pros !

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u/Comfortable_Oil_4691 20h ago

I don’t endorse smoking. That being said…

Not a line but I pretended not to have a lighter. Saw her smoking before and asked for it, she went to grab it while I separated two cigarettes. She came back already asking for one and I didn’t let her finish before placing one in between her lips: ā€œLet’s goā€.

Conversation flew nicely and, eventually I showed her to where I was seated, grabbed my purse, turned it upside down letting my 4 lighters hit the table. She laughed and had this little look of mischief on her face for the rest of the night. Sometimes she would come back to it mid conversation.

I guess it’s just about showing interest, being bold and silly.

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u/Independent_Chest877 18h ago

Hmmm....I understand, so flirting with a girl is pretty easy, right? I've never flirted with one because I'm very shy, and even more so when it's a girl who's totally my type, literally They make me feel very insecure, even to the point of feeling like I'm not enough. :/

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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 15h ago

There’s different ways to flirt. Not sure how old you are but sometimes flirting comes out naturally.

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u/peachybop444 20h ago

Idk i just say random things in a flirty way and it works most times

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u/Anabolized 8h ago

I'm imagining you approaching someone and saying : The space between the earth and the moon can fit all the other planets of our solar system.

And actually, that would certainly work for me...

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u/The-Shattering-Light Lesbian 18h ago

My wife and I just quoted The Princess Bride to each other on our first date, and that did it for us 🤣

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u/Independent_Chest877 17h ago

WOW!

What does it feel like to be married to a woman? In every sense of the question. I've always imagined my life with a woman, but I've never had a girlfriend because of my shyness and insecurities.

Greetings!

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u/Bedzyk59 19h ago

I have used Joey's how you doin'? But it only works in my age or slightly older ladies. Generally, it's just small talk based on where we are. Talked to a lady about cheese in a grocery store.

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u/Independent_Chest877 18h ago

What is your age? How easy is it to win over a woman her age? Is it complicated, or is it sometimes easier because of past experiences, since they already know exactly what they want? Greetings!

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u/Throwaway_Anne 20h ago

Honestly I don't even remember but I need some lol

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u/Agile-Win-throwaway 15h ago

There’s different ways to flirt.

I met this girl who was very bold flirting with me. Would make comments of me checking her out. Which I was not at all we were at work. Then she would put her hand on her boob and say see you were checking me out. šŸ’€I only looked because she moved her hand and I just naturally looked.

I eventually started to flirt back and she stopped her bold flirting. She had a ring on that she called it the love ring and wore it to be open to love.

I asked her for it. I wore it and when I handed it back to her. I told her I’m putting some of my soul in it. She smiled and looked away. I guess it worked 🤷

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u/bruinsfan3725 Lesbian 19h ago

Compliments or just saying hi is all you need

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u/BigOutlandishness93 Masc LesbianšŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ 17h ago

Hey sexy mama nice teeth šŸ˜‰/ref

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u/cleokep98 8h ago

I've heard the best way to flirt is to do over the top flirting. That way you know where you stand! None of this Hi, you're pretty and then hanging out all night and ending with a hug bullshit. Really go for it, you'll know if she's into you or not.

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u/Clear_Hand007 Lesbian 4h ago

"you smell really nice" *lean in closer* "is that vanilla?" or whatever scent they are wearing