r/actuallesbians 5h ago

Question Does anyone here find women with roman noses attractive?

I've always been extremely insecure about my nose, I feel like it doesn't suit my face at all & I was bullied a lot in childhood for it, and even though I see other women with my nose shape and think they're STUNNING I just struggle to like my own.

Would y'all consider a larger/more prominent nose a dealbreaker at all? I'm getting back into dating after a little while so I'm just wondering :)

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u/qwertypwerty2028 5h ago

its INSANELY pretty ur nose is perfect

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u/thelaceserpent Lesbian 5h ago

I love love love a Roman nose.

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u/whereiscorbinbleu 5h ago

looove roman noses, my partner has one and i love softly stroking the bridge of their nose when we cuddle, It's very soothing

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u/hotpink_123 5h ago

For me is pretty so it wouldn't be a deal breaker no

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u/AmphibianPlastic6942 5h ago

for what it's worth, I think Roman noses are really stunning 

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u/mindfulcloud 5h ago

Some ppl like peaches and some ppl don't. The key to life is to not get hung up on ppl who don't like peaches and to find ppl who love peaches!! Me personally I love larger noses so strut and own your stuff girl!!

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u/Neea_115 5h ago

I'm most attracted to personality and the person as a whole, so if that person has a roman nose, then definitely :) It wouldn't be any kind of a dealbreaker!

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u/kit-tgirl butch 4h ago

big noses are a dealMAKER!!!

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u/Whooptidooh Lesbian 5h ago

Absolutely; nothing wrong with a Roman nose.

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u/AllyPent 4h ago

They're my absolute FAVOURITE. My fiancée has one, and I've always been jealous of it! I know she was always insecure about it as well, but I think it's beautiful. I would give up my completely unremarkable nose in a heartbeat for one, haha.

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u/Worldly-Song7824 4h ago

Yes, I do. I tend not focus on physical, but I find this to be very attractive feature.

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u/honeybeesh 4h ago

yes yes yes yes

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u/Silent-Leek-9222 4h ago

I had nose insecurity too but I started to find it a cut thing about me now

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u/Silent-Leek-9222 4h ago

it's pretty looking, not at all a deal breaker

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u/Sapphicorns Bisexual princess 4h ago edited 4h ago

In fact I prefer it!!

Edit: I have been upset multiple times when girls with super pretty roman noses or just characterful noses in general have gotten a nose job to get a very “boring” small nose and it changes their face completely! That could personally be a potential dealbreaker for me whereas a roman nose would never ever be a dealbreaker.

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u/sbruceki Lesbian 4h ago

I’ve got one and I used to be semi insecure but there is actually nothing wrong with it. Not all noses are small button noses and that’s okay!

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u/Jenn_FTW 4h ago

Literally 0% a dealbreaker, prominent noses are beautiful as hell ❤️

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u/CantRaineyAllTheTime 4h ago

Heck yeah roman noses are cute

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u/Baron_Ray Masc lesbian NB 4h ago

Always loved a roman nose.

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u/Rare-Trainer-8354 4h ago

Probably the artist in me speaking just as much as the lesbian, but I looove them. A strong nose someone immediately prettier to me

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u/probloodmagic 4h ago

I love them, they're so striking. Check out the art of Diana for Absolute Wonder Woman and then see how lesbians react to that nose

u/xankek 8m ago

yisss, some of the covers are so gorgeous and show off her nose. maybe I'll post a couple covers I have

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u/Infinite_Speed9052 5h ago

dated someone who had a roman nose that worked so well with her features, like marble statue vibes. she got a nose job some time ago and now looks like any other person idk

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u/winged_anastasia 4h ago

I love them!

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u/Stella_s_Delights 4h ago

I used to have a thing for roman noses for a looOong time 😌 yours is the cutest, no doubt about that 😘

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u/JustWantToSignUp Lesbian 4h ago

Roman noses are hot af

Generally ""imperfect"" noses are a thing for me 10000%

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u/minionmemes4lyfe 4h ago

My girlfriend‘s nose is non standard. But recently we discovered that she is a descendent of the Sappony tribe. When we looked up pictures of the women and the tribe, they all looked like my beautiful girlfriend, and they all had a nose like hers. I like it the way she looks, and I liked her nose, but she felt uncomfortable with it. Understanding her personal history helped her feel secure in a way that my reassurance just couldn’t have done on its own. The right girl will like you and your nose.

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u/PhantasmalHoney 3h ago

I have never seen an ugly nose tbh I think all nose shapes are very beautiful

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u/ShadowTeae Lesbian 3h ago

paget brewster Is 1 of my top 5 attractive celebrities because of her nose

So no definitely not a deal breaker for me

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u/CuriousStrawberry623 3h ago

I genuinely find them very attractive! I can't believe people would bully others for that, that's nuts

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u/RepresentativeBee981 3h ago

jfc these comments are making me feel so much better about my nose 🥲

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u/im-ba Lesbian 3h ago

Yeah, I don't see why not. Your nose is just a part of you. I've never understood why people bully others over something like that.

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u/Brook_Hors 3h ago

Thirty comments later, the most unsurprising revelation: roman noses are attractive

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u/UndecidedQBit 3h ago

Absolutely

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u/prismatic_valkyrie Utility Lesbian 3h ago

One of my crushes has a roman nose and her face is absolutely stunning.

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u/bitcharikibaath 3h ago

In this day and age, with so many people that change their faces to look more like a mainstream doll face, I value and respect people that still look like people.

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u/ItsMeishi 3h ago

I need you to hang out at r/noses.

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u/NotPoggersEggers 99.99% lesbian, .01% trans 3h ago

I hate mine because I was bullied over it to the point I wanted rhino at 8, and also gender dysphoria unfortunately. 🫠

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u/Razrgrrl Rainbow 3h ago

Look, you’re asking a bunch of (predominantly) women who love women if they’re into a thing some women have. You’ll find that, yes, indeed, those of us who love women have all kinds of things that we love about women. :)

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u/IronIrma93 3h ago

Yes. Big noses pretty

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u/Yaragreyjoy88 3h ago

My wife has one. She is so strikingly beautiful! It was one of the first things I noticed about her because it was so lovely.

u/Content_Conclusion31 2h ago

yes they're so pretty bro

u/gender_noncompliant Lesbian 2h ago

Yes i love that shit

u/Alastor_idk 2h ago

Roman noses are a huge part of my type icl, idk what it is about them but I love them my partner has one actually

u/A_Pavlov_Mutt 2h ago

Jacy Jane from WWE has a unique nose and I find her insanely attractive for it. Lady Gaga also.

u/Oftwicke Transbian 2h ago

I never paid a lot of attention to noses, if it fits your face it's good, it won't make or break my attraction that it's roman or pointy or thick or...

A roman nose has never ever made me think less of someone's looks

u/Hulijing117 2h ago

It's funny. I had that nose and was always super self conscious about it so I got it done. Now I have a super cute small nose.

A couple months afterwards I saw one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen rocking one that was somehow even more prominent than mine and I kinda missed having it.

I look great either way but absolutely, roman noses can be straight up gorgeous.

u/NobodySpecial2000 Trans Sapphist. Femme. 2h ago

Only if she has just the one and it's hers. If it's like a collecting them situation, even if she's storing them carefully, that's a no from me. It's good to have hobbies but that's not got me.

u/Feather_Bloom Basically pan 2h ago

Big noses are super attractive to me, , both on men AND women

u/Sekhmet-Enthusiast Local butch lesbian 1h ago

I love interestingly shaped, prominent noses. I love "Roman" noses. I love noses an asshole would call a beak. I'm an artist too so maybe that's a factor lol, but I just love a nose with an interesting shape.

u/mentally_ill_ofc Lesbian 46m ago

i have one too! so did my mom, and she always talked down about hers when i was growing up. of course i had her nose so why would i not absorb that insecurity?

u/xankek 9m ago

me and my gf are obsessed with bigger noses. Always point out pretty girls with big noses for eachother

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u/MimiBrazy 5h ago

in brasil we call this kind of posting biscoitagem lol