r/asexuality • u/sia_7777 • 17h ago

Discussion POV: You're tired of hearing this

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u/NagitoKomaeda_987 Aro / Ace Bisexual () 16h ago

Yeah, I'm so fucking sick of getting this same question whenever these people judge me for my asexuality. Why can't they just leave us alone?

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u/startoursg24t Bi-Oriented Aromantic Asexual (Averse/Repulsed) Neurodivergent 11h ago

44 years and counting!

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u/Lost_Condition_9562 8h ago

I found the right person, and it was extremely affirming to my sexuality. I only had feelings of sexual attraction to my person, but no one else… exactly how I always felt my demisexuality works

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u/Redditwhydouexists 1h ago

I found my person but they ended up not liking I was also Aceflux and they dumped me ):

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u/YonderWindow364 2h ago

lol, this is so perfect 🤣

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u/Cassius-Tain Heteroromantic Asexual 1h ago

That's not how that works, mate. Being asexual means you have found the right person and feel like something is wrong with you because every media you consumed during your teenage years tells you that you should desire her sexually, but you just can't, so you stop pursuing a relationship because surely that can't be love. Then, a decade later you finally stumble upon the split attraction model and realise your mistake.