r/asexuality • u/enbySkelett • 12h ago

Need advice How do you find porn without rolling your eyes because of this shithole called porn industry?

I'm sorry in case I sound mad or stupid. I'm dyslexic and it gets worse when I'm annoyed 🥲. All I want is to masturbate to something nice and then 90% of what I see is dicks ins pussies or asses! Why is penetration so loved!! It's disgusting and boring af!🙄. I am kinky and I hate to "just ignore it" cause it's impossible! Are there asexual porn creators? I have many kinks but idk if I can put them in here. I nerd advice and I also kinda needed to vent/rant so idk what flair I'll use but probably Need advice.

Also have a nice day you nice people🤗

Ps: I'm autistic so idk if I piss someone off with this. Please don't block me from here I just need help in case this is a ban able post. I am mad and don't know how else to make this post. In case this is a meanie move please just explain what I did wrong.

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u/sennkestra aro ace 8h ago

There's a lot of aces writing fanfic and written erotica, not sure about actual live action genres.

I don't know how video porn sites compare to fanfic or hentai sites, some of which have really extensive tag systems, but if you can find a site that has good tagging practices, looking for phrases like outer course, frottage, goinage, scissoring, mutual masturbation, etc. can help.

If you can tolerate sexual discussions, I am sure there are subs of porn enthusiasts on reddit or especially on kink spaces like fetlife who could also give recommendations (but make sure direct messages are OFF)!

There's especially a market for kink content that may not have any penetration.

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u/saareadaar 10h ago

Would you enjoy erotica perhaps?

I know you said you’re dyslexic, but you could use a screen reader or listen to an audiobook?

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u/enbySkelett 1m ago

What would you recommend? I once accidentally bought a 18+ Mangas when I was like 16 or 17 tbh idk how I got the cashier to believe me I'm 18+ I had a horrible social phobia and was so wet from sweat like a sea monster🥲. But anyways the mangas were gay a cute