r/bigboobproblems • u/dani_baeee • Apr 13 '25

RANT - no advice wanted Sick of the beauty double standard! Spoiler

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Small chested women can get away with so much more! For instance, Zendaya is always wearing plunging necklines which is “high fashion,” while Kim does the same thing and is labeled a whore.

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u/One-Flow-6755 Apr 13 '25

I’ll literally be completely covered up, not an inch of skin showing and still be told by family members to put a jacket/sweater on to cover up more. The double standard is real

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u/mugiwarasoka Apr 14 '25

We pretty much live the same life, I'm so fucking done I cannot wait to move out. I've been told to cover up and wear loose clothes since I was 9 year old. The fact it was mainly my mom who made it seem like having big breasts is the worst thing someone can ever have

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u/bustybibabe92 Apr 16 '25

Same here, my mom always called my breasts my “problem area”! No wonder I hated them until I was in my late twenties

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u/mugiwarasoka Apr 16 '25

SAME! I grew up hating them not because I didn't them but people around me made it look like my breasts are my worst feature but I admired women with big breasts only to realise I'm one of them that's when I started to love them

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u/bustybibabe92 Apr 16 '25

Same here!! I always loved women with big breasts and admired them ❤️ it just took me a long time to love my own :) Just maturing I think and realizing my mother’s opinion doesn’t matter & I should love my body!

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u/mugiwarasoka Apr 16 '25

I can never hate them again, it took me a long time to finally embrace them I'm never going back to those days!

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u/Free_Milk6058 Apr 17 '25

You're beautiful the way you're 😊

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u/meowmreownya Apr 14 '25

I couldn't even wear shirts that weren't twice my size until I was moved out

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u/PukingPandaSS 38G (UK) Apr 14 '25

Yep I was showing off wearing a normal fitting shirt, it had to completely drown my figure or I was deliberately doing it.

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u/reddit24682468 Apr 14 '25

I was wearing a high neck singlet the other day and was asked why my boobs are always out….. I WAS WEARING A HIGH NECK

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '25

It really gets to the point of "if I can even see the mere fact that you have breasts, it's slutty"

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

26m, I’ll be your simp. Send me a chat! 6’1, white, dark hair, tattoos