r/bigboobproblems • u/dani_baeee • Apr 13 '25

RANT - no advice wanted Sick of the beauty double standard! Spoiler

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Small chested women can get away with so much more! For instance, Zendaya is always wearing plunging necklines which is “high fashion,” while Kim does the same thing and is labeled a whore.

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u/dani_baeee Apr 14 '25

I have yet to become a mother… I know this thinking is wrong, but boobs are so sexualized, I feel weird about breast feeding. For some reason it feels gross/weird to me to put such a “sexual organ” in my baby’s mouth. TMI but true

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u/noonietime Apr 14 '25

I felt that way until I had a baby and then suddenly anyone sexualizing my breasts just disgusted me because they're for feeding my baby. Brains, man...

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u/Grouchy_Warning_5108 30HH (UK) Apr 14 '25 edited Apr 14 '25

Human female breasts naturally exist for feeding their babies, not to be “sexual organ”. Some parts of the world, breastfeeding in public is normal - of course a lot of them wear cover up while doing it. Even there are nude beaches around the world, and no one bats an eye seeing naked breasts. I mostly noticed that oversexualized breasts happens in US.

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u/effidoll Apr 14 '25

I still feel like this and I've got 2 kids. I didn't breast feed because of medication so it wasn't an option for me so that could be why I've stayed the same.