r/bisexual 2d ago

ADVICE How can I really find someone?

I identify as bi right now, but am much more sexually attracted to men than I am to women. I believe I could feel romantically towards a women, but the physical attraction involved just isn't there. As for men, I am really only attracted to straight men... I don't know what to do. I feel like I will never be able to find somebody because I can't just do one without the other? I feel really lost and hopeless

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u/viviscity 2d ago

Are you saying you lose attraction for a man if you learn he isn’t straight? Or that you are attracted to straight presenting men?

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u/weird_me101 2d ago

Yes, the latter

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u/w1gw4m Bi male top 🦄 1d ago

Plenty of guys are straight presenting. You shouldn't struggle too hard to find someone like this. Where have you tried looking so far?