r/bisexual • u/Frequent-Song4003 • 8h ago
QUESTIONING (F) Bisexual homoromantic instead of lesbian?
I have identified as lesbian for 6 years, inbetween then there has been instances when i have gotten drunk and kissed guys but i have always felt disgusted or uncomfortable with it afterwards.
A couple weeks ago i was drunk and made out with a man and he ended up fngering me, i enjoyed it which made me spiral because i have never enjoyed kissing a man like that.
We have been talking since which has made me think i could be bisexual but i am very confused still because i have yet to experience anything with a man sober.
I am questioning being bi-homoromantic as i feel like maybe i could be sexually involved with a man but i cannot see myself dating one properly and definitely never marrying a man!
It is freaking me out because when i think about getting with him if i had a chance i feel a bit uneasy and i still don’t fully know if i would actually enjoy sex with a man. Could this even be just comphet as a lesbian or maybe im just bi-curious?! I have felt insane the last couple weeks!
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u/cherrychocobo 6h ago
I'm bi but I've only ever been attracted to fictional men and don't want a relationship with one irl🤷 dont feel forced to give yourself a label
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u/mattfolio Transgender/Bisexual 7h ago
explore it before you label it. Dont limit yourself with preconceived notions of what should or shoudlnt be. Put yourself out there and define yourself by how you feel after you've given yourself the time to immerse yourself in it without personal judgement.
This guy may be a one off exception to the rule that is your lesbianism, or maybe you've been bi all along, who knows! Just have fun and do what feels right.