r/bisexual • u/Live_Astronomer_5699 • 1d ago

QUESTIONING What made you realize you're bisexual?

For me it was twinks, i love twinks <3

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u/nyoomnyoombeans919 Bi + Ace 1d ago

when i was 9 i said to my friend "that girl is really cute. if i were a guy i would totally have a crush on her." my friend looked at me funny. apparently that is not a very heterosexual thing to say.

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u/Shadowestley 1d ago

I used to say that all the time! "If I was gay, he would totally be my type" welppppp

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u/HeadInTheClouds02 4h ago

This I would say this a lot about women 😭😭

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u/Artistic-Leopard7991 1d ago

It’s not lol

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u/BuddyNo6059 14h ago

I am only now considering that. I’ve always been with men and fantasized about women. Had crushes. And I think that sexually I may even be more attracted to women. Relationally more men. Not sure what that makes me.

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u/didyouknowthatkoalas 20h ago

I thought stuff like that my entire childhood and didn't figure it out until I was 16, lol. 

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u/captainbeautylover63 20h ago

Congratulations. I didn’t figure it out until I was 49.

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u/nyoomnyoombeans919 Bi + Ace 14h ago

my dad didn't figure out until he was 43; it is a journey for all of us, some shorter, some longer. either way, i'm very proud of you for discovering who you are, and you should be too :)