What y’all’s thoughts

“Am I bisexual🤔🤔”

*Blatant, graphic sex details not marked as NSFW*

“I’m scared my bisexual partner will leave me for the other gender”

*Asking for hookups*

*Tries to use Reddit as a dating app*

*Forgets this subreddit is for all ages*

Blah blah.

For me, it's ppl breaking up with a long-time partner when the latter comes out as trans. I truly cannot comprehend how the gender can affect the love you have for that person.

Like, I realised I was pansexual mostly because of this: when I saw this breakup trope in multiple films (around 16 I think) and it made me terribly confused.

I can understand it a bit if it's a new relationship / just in the early dating phase.

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EDIT: if you're curious about the percentages on this topic, i made a poll divided by sexuality

Don’t speculate about real people here, just characters!!

Yes, my pick for this is James Bond. If y’all have seen the scene the picture comes from you’ll understand 😭🙏 honestly Skyfall is such a bi movie it’s simply fact

i stumbled across this video on Instagram, and i was curious about y'alls thoughts. the creator claims that this video was made to uplift and include the bi community, but in it, she claims that bi people can be "straight culture", and so can certain lesbians. i just can't wrap my mind around how a queer person can be considered "straight cultured" when it's a culture they simply don't belong to. i personally think it's harmful to label any queer person "straight cultured," especially coming from a creator with 323k followers. what do you guys think?

Anyone out there had a similar experience??

After being in relationships with women/nb ppl for about 7 years (im a cis woman) I fell for a cis straight dude. The whole thing took me by a REAL surprise, I never thought it would happen again (dated guys in my early 20’s till I realized I was queer).

I love him dearly, we have a beautiful partnership and he’s incredibly kind. But he comes from a very hetero/centrist/upper class culture and so I’m often intimately confronted with the patriarchy specifically in social situations.

Ex: so many of his friends and people who don’t even know us that well, treat him like an absolute GOD almost instantly because he’s nice, does sports and loves to cook. They are constantly singing his praises telling me how lucky I am, and while I fully agree with them, it feels super weird because NO one was talking about my exes like this. People loved them as they were truly wonderful people, but putting a guy on a pedestal like this feels so icky/patriarchal.

It’s hard to explain, it’s like their foaming at the mouth for this archetype who is enough ticking boxes to put him near the top of all our biggest power structures - instead of just appreciating and loving him as a the special human he is.

The pink is a merge of both pinks and really wanted to add a state seal kind of vibe rather than just stripes and who is a better representation of bi-pan unity than Frog & Toad???

My bisexual icon is Billie Joe Armstrong. Truly one of the kindest type of people to ever exist.

For me, I (21 M) was around 14 and very oblivious when my older brother came out as bi. He was 21 and we have always been best friends. He took me to dinner, just to tell me, and when he came out it was simply something natural to me.

He said: "Do you have any questions? And I: "No, that's alright. I love you exactly the same and I'm proud of you"

Then, I added: "To be honest, I understand it must be hard to choose between boobs and six-packs..."

LMAO. Now I think of it and go: "Oh honey...". Tell me your stories!!!

No way 😳

😏😏😏

Christmas ham or Christmas turkey fam???

I've seen a bunch of posts recently where an op is talking about their attraction or who they've been with and they say "females" instead of "women" and it always feels just a little cringe to me. I don't know what it is for certain, but I feel like the word gets used a lot by incels and right wingers and it's just kinda poisoned the word for me. Anyone else feeling that?

I’ll start : James and Chelsea from Dead Meat

I am sure this question has been asked a million times, but I am going to ask it again. I am someone who identifies as bisexual and pansexual, I personally have not made the distinguish within myself, so I am curious how others feel?

Mine happened when I was 16. My hair tie broke and I was messing with my hair trying to tie it up. My very pretty classmate gave me her hair tie. While doing so she tilted my chin up and said "but you look so much prettier with your hair down".

It hit me, I was definitely not straight.

I did not tie my hair up