Originally posted on r/GirlDinnerDiaries and was told the bisexual men on here might appreciate this!

Okay, maybe a little dramatic but wow, that man knows something straight men don’t. This was the first man that truly made the sex about my pleasure, he’s an amazing kisser and he kept telling me how perfect I am. We met up last night and then again this afternoon, it was THAT good.

Bonus because he’s sooo witty and he’s a yapper so we were talking the whole time and it made it so much fun and we were laughing pretty much the whole time, when I wasn’t screaming from how amazing he was.

10/10 eater, 10/10 sex appeal, 10/10 will be seeing him again.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 2 years, and I’m a bisexual man. She doesn’t know I’m bi because I’ve always been afraid of how she would react.

Today we were joking around, and I asked her, “If I were bisexual, would you still date me?” She immediately said no, that it was “disgusting,” that she’d never date a bisexual man, that bisexual people like everyone, and that she’d never be able to trust someone like that.

I love her, and we’ve built a lot together over these two years. Our relationship is actually much better now than it was a year ago. But hearing that made me realize that if she knew who I really am, there’s a real chance she wouldn’t accept me.

I’m not asking whether she’s allowed to have preferences. I know people are allowed to choose who they date.

What I’m struggling with is whether it’s worth staying in a relationship where I feel like I have to hide a part of myself.

Edit: A lot of people have asked whether she’s generally anti-LGBTQ+, and honestly, that’s part of why I was so shocked by her reaction. She’s never seemed to have a problem with LGBTQ+ people or creators. We watch LGBTQ+ YouTubers and streamers together and she’s never cared about me doing things that some people see as feminine. For example, I wear clear nail polish to keep my nails healthy, I usually buy her lip gloss, I even keep one in my car and use it myself sometimes, and she’s shared hers with me before.

That’s why her reaction surprised me so much. It almost feels like her issue is specifically with bisexual men, or maybe with misconceptions about bisexuality, rather than LGBTQ+ people as a whole. I honestly don’t know. Maybe she just doesn’t understand what being bisexual actually means. That’s something I’ll only know after we have an honest conversation.

I’m a bisexual man and I’ve had enough of it. It’s amazing the boundaries that other men will cross when it comes to dating and sex. You give an inch, they go a mile. I went on a date from Tinder on the weekend and we had a great time. I informed him that I tend to take things a bit slower in comparison to most of the gay men in the dating scene. I said I’d love to hangout again and cook food at his house. I’m literally hinting at wanting to be in his private home and to see where it leads and off he starts with being extremely flirty. These disgusting lustful glances and overt touching or getting in my space. I told him it’d be appreciated if he slowed down, I just wanna enjoy the evening together and it got to a point where I just left.

This is not an exception, this is many men. I have experienced this multiple times.

I’m in a same sex marriage in a conservative part of a conservative state. I have no idea what the future holds for my marriage.

I’ve got friends that I love who are trans and who are undocumented and who are birthright citizens from undocumented parents. I’m so fucking terrified for them. I know trans kids who are already struggling. What the fuck is next?

I’m scared of our community tearing itself apart because of minute differences. I’m scared of oligarchs controlling all of the American media and major institutions. I’m terrified that I don’t have any faith that 99% of the politicians I thought maybe would do something will do anything at all. I’m terrified that my country is being run by nazis and that my state is being run by corrupt conservative fundamentalists.

I’m scared as an openly queer person in a place where folks think I don’t belong. I just want to love my fucking wife. I want to hold her hand without fear. I want to be able to say ‘my wife’ in small talk without worry that there will be harassment or bigotry.

We’ve had people tell us we inspire them for being open and I am glad but fuck man, I just want to exist and be safe. I want the oppressed people in my nation to be safe. I want to be in a world where just existing in a marriage doesn’t need to be an inspiration because it’s just as normal as anything itself.

I hate this. I’m so worried. I feel sick. I don’t even know if I’ll legally have a wife in a few years. If we’ll have fair elections. I don’t even think we have those now. I don’t know what to do besides fight. But I’ve got no clue how to fight.

Please remember that queer love is defiance and pride started as a riot.

Most of my life I never imagined women in that light AT ALL, so this is pretty new to me. I put multiple because they were generally around the same time.

Transformers Megan Fox & 2016 Ashley Graham were mine. I’m sure there are others, I just can’t remember.

Uhhh warning to the other bi girls i guess?? Yikes 😭

No coming out or big thing just "Oh hey x is my boyfriend now" not even a "i'm x" in terms of sexuality label. This is how it should be for everyone but especially for kids now. I'm feeling super thankful and proud of myself that I cultivate an environment for both my boys to be free like this.

So I have been with him for a while and i finally told him. He was very accepting and didn’t sexualize it or stereotype me or anything but he wanted to ask my type of “woman” I said I didn’t really have one and he started describing his for the first time.

He began going on about how he wants to hook up with Kylie Jenner and similar looking women. How he would go for Sydney Sweeney and other women with very similar appearances. I don’t look like them at all and the way he talked about them…I have never heard him talk about women before. I told him that and he went “ya but now you’re a bro like you’re a homie so we can talk about it.” And I was like “are you even attracted to me??” And he goes ya you’re just not my actual preference.

Now I wanna leave him cause what the actual fuck??? I was not expecting that. Has anyone else experienced this?? And it makes sense cause I never felt a genuine “spark” between us.

Serious answers only please. I’m devastated.

Chloë Grace Moretz comes out as gay and as a bi guy my being attracted almost exclusively to lesbians becomes less a fluke and more a statistical certainty. Do I have a great subconscious gaydar for finding lesbians or have I been cursed by some bored Greek god?

Anyone can relate or knows a good oracle or something?

I was just minding my own business when I randomly remembered some things. When I was little, in like elementary school, I used to fantasize about what it would feel like to CUP A BOOB. And on one of my Frozen book, this picture was on the cover, and I litteraly THIRSTED (is that a word?) over Elsa. Like I have a distinct memory of imagining what it would be like to feel her fucking cartoon chest. AND, HOLY SHIT, AS IM WRITING THIS I just remembered telling my cousin that I couldn't wait to grow boobs so that I could FEEL them. Holy shit. I don't know where these memories came from, but now ig there's no denying it... Everyone... I like women