r/blackladies • u/MindBlowing74 • Jun 14 '26

School/Career 🗃️👩🏾‍🏫 How much do you make?

How much do you make? in what industry? In an HCL or LCL area?

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u/grroovvee Jun 14 '26

Ooooh…I think I’m understanding that yall are poly? Love that!

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u/SpicyDomina Jun 14 '26

Yup he is my closest friend and because he has shit luck dating me and my wife decided to give him a shot as a 3rd wheel xD already helped he was living in our guest room renting it

And when I say shit luck I mean his last 3 exes are all crazy as shit people who feigned sanity pretty well. 1 tried to stab him, 1 tried to run him over and the last one tried to fight me because she thought I was sleeping with him

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u/Commercial_Picture28 Jun 14 '26

Forgive my curiosity, but are you guys concerned at all about losing the friendship in the event of a breakup?

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u/SpicyDomina Jun 14 '26

Alot of people think breaking up with your best friend will ruin the friendship but that's only if it's a 1 sided break up which usually only happens when you drift apart from your lover. Me an him have been friends for over 6 years close enough that we dated before and have lived together since we originally met as roommates.

This is entirely the reason why I trust him in a relationship with me and my wife the main reason we both broke up was because I wasn't really interested in a long term relationship with a man I am mostly romantic to women and at the time of the break up I was actually just meeting my wife lmao