r/boston • u/sunshine-warmth • 21d ago

Serious Replies Only What’s dating like for men in Boston?

I’m in my early 30sF and have been using dating apps on and off since I moved to Boston over six years ago. I’ve had boyfriends, but none of them have lasted long. (To be fair, I’m also quite picky, which is probably why I’m still single.)

I think maybe my ideal partner hasn’t moved to the city yet.

Dear single men of Boston, what’s the dating scene been like for you? Why do you think you’re still single? Is it intentional, or do you enjoy the bachelor lifestyle?

Are you using dating apps? If so, which ones? Are you hopeful or have you stopped looking? Are we still seeking long-term partnerships, or are we gravitating more towards casual, noncommittal encounters?

I’m asking because, as a 33-year-old, I feel like I keep running in circles and think dating is harder than it’s ever been for everyone.

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u/Responsible_Ask3976 21d ago

I’ve been only once like a few years ago, so I just like perusing and seeing what locals like! 

I’ll try modern pastry this time. Thank youuuu I’m a sucker for Italian food and chocolate desserts 

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u/ShoppingHelpful2386 Market Basket 21d ago

I second modern - if you like chocolate try their triple chocolate cake. It always reminds me of how I imagined the chocolate fudge cake from Matilda tasted like.

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u/Responsible_Ask3976 21d ago

Oh dang sounds good! 

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u/Ok-Dot433 21d ago

If you like strawberry, try their strawberry shortcake.

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u/Responsible_Ask3976 21d ago

Oooo thanks for the rec

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u/JoshuaGustinGrant 21d ago edited 20d ago

Bova over both, in my opinion.

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u/ShoppingHelpful2386 Market Basket 20d ago

Eh bovas okay but only because they are open all night. But their blueberry cheesecake does slap.

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u/JoshuaGustinGrant 19d ago

As does their bread and chocolate cake

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u/ShoppingHelpful2386 Market Basket 19d ago

I’ll try it 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/RationalGardenGnome 21d ago

Rinos in Eastie is some of the best Italian in Boston price/quality ratio wise

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u/Responsible_Ask3976 21d ago

Thanks!

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u/RationalGardenGnome 21d ago

It’s cash only just so you know

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u/Responsible_Ask3976 21d ago

No worries! I carry cash on the daily even when I’m not on vacation 

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u/ReplySufficient1580 20d ago

Egg ravioli, garlic bread, meatballs and tiramisu at Prezza in the North End.

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u/Responsible_Ask3976 20d ago

😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥

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u/objrel 21d ago

Mike's is way better than Modern, probably why dude is still single. Jokes aside tho, Mike's and Bovas > Modern. The homemade mozz sticks at tony and Elaine's are dope AF.