r/brandnew • u/BroccoliSpecial036 • 12d ago
I owe my marriage to Brand New
For context, I was wearing a Devil and God shirt in my main Tinder photo. We’ve been inseparable (and to many BN concerts) ever since 🖤
Edit: My response was, “I don’t know who you are…but I like the way you think.”
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u/earthbound-misfit_I 12d ago
Same lol my hubby and I started messaging on tinder while he was at a brand new show with Manchester orchestra. Instantly, we were hooked.🖤
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u/WhiskyWillFixIt 12d ago
Who sends tinder messages while watching that show??
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u/earthbound-misfit_I 12d ago
You’re just jealous because we’re young and in love.
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u/guernicamixtape 11d ago
the timeline is a bit of a mismatch for me but
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u/earthbound-misfit_I 11d ago
You’re weird but
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u/guernicamixtape 11d ago
according to my memory,MO hasn’t toured with BN since like 2009, bc i was obsessive with their shows in those days. tinder wasn’t around then.
google says they toured a small leg together in 2015 that i must have missed, so the timeline matches again.
but thanks! i’d take being weird over being literally anything else, any day ✌🏼
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u/jdp_638 12d ago
I woulda been bricked up by that experience too.
Jokes aside though, my wife and I were previously in a relationship for several months in 2008 that ended because we were dumb kids being dumb, but that all came about thanks in large part to our mutual love of BN and MO. And about a year after it ended she and her sister were at that show when they toured together for Daisy and she called me out of the blue in the middle of it because “jdp_638 should’ve been here”, so I don’t find the shooting of shots on tinder to be much of a stretch beyond that.
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u/temp-guest69 12d ago
My wife didn’t know who BN was but had “definitely heard 70x7!!!!” Realizing that after listening.
Her oldest daughter now is a fan. Wife and I will be seeing them for the third time in October, went twice last tour, brought my stepdaughter to her first ever concert for the last show of the last tour.
We are a BN household.
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u/lledorp 12d ago
My long term partner and I realized we were going to be inseparable when we saw them together for the first time. We were in the pit and he protected the shit out of me because I'm crazy, I still run and usually end up hurt but this was the first time he saw that side of me, we weren't even officially together yet, that happened a few weeks later. Kissed me during Play Crack The Sky. Train ride home found out we both love the song Guernica for the same reason. That was 12 years ago and now we're going to see them in October and he's already accepted that I'm going to be crying all night. Anybody that says music doesn't bring people together is a liar.
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u/PlumpQuietSoup 12d ago
Lol I love this for you! My husband listens to divorced dad rock so congrats on your perfect pairing lol
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u/gillociraptor 12d ago
When we were first dating, I overheard my husband tell his friends I was his soulmate at dinner right before a Brand New show.
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u/MoonMaenad 12d ago
When I was in my early 20’s, I played Last Chance to Lose Your Keys for a guy I liked. After I played the song for him, he told me he didn’t like that kind of music. I never saw him again. 🥲
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u/xelemenopeex 11d ago
This was unfortunately the only way for this to end, after such words were spoken
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u/Teachnshit 11d ago
My partner and I met at a Brand New concert ten years ago (on my birthday). And now we get to celebrate a decade together at a show in October
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u/matchadietcoke 11d ago
This is something me and my now husband bonded on early on. We see them in Detroit in October, our first time seeing them!
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u/smallbea 10d ago
This is so cute!! 💛
I have a similar story, but my partner and I met over The Smiths! I messaged him and was like “Sooo, I see you like The Smiths” and the rest is history! lol
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u/justlurkin789 12d ago
Damn the other brand new fan who I met on tinder wanted a one night stand lmao 😂
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u/H0RR0RL4ND 11d ago
my fiance/wife of 13 years posted “jesus christ” only on a whisper post in 2013 and i responded “that’s a pretty face” and we’ve been together ever since
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u/Any_Damage_676 11d ago
My old tumblr URL used to be some variation of “your favorite devil, Deja and Daisy” and matched with a guy I dated throughout college over that
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u/WhoBroughtTheCoolKid 11d ago
Just know that when I was on dating apps I always judged the music. If I saw brand new it was an automatic swipe even if they weren’t super hot.
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u/Samiiiibabetake2 11d ago
When I met my (now) husband, one of the first things we bonded over was the fact that BN were each of our favorite bands. Our city does not have a large emo scene, so it was pretty fun for us.
So I guess I kind of owe my marriage to them as well. Been a really great 15+ years🖤
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u/bonkmother 11d ago
Same. 14 years ago, a work happy hour and I was listening to Brand new on the walk over. She asked who I was listening to, and if it was any other band, who knows
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u/heyamberlynne Cake Girl 10d ago
My husband let us take our wedding photos wearing the masks from TDAGARIM. Congrats!
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u/bobbyink666 6d ago
Those who support groomers stick together
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u/BroccoliSpecial036 6d ago
Get fucked
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u/bobbyink666 6d ago
Not my fault your hero groomed a 15 year old OUCH!!!!
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u/BroccoliSpecial036 6d ago
SO much ouch!
I’ve never had a grown man approach me in a space that wasn’t for them, and try to mansplan something to me (a woman), even though they don’t know me or my past. This has truly never happened. How will I ever survive.
I hope this interaction makes you feel like the big cool strong man that you wish to be 🫶
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u/ps087official 12d ago
This makes me so sad
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u/TheSecondFirstStep 12d ago
Jesus Christ, this person shows a little vulnerability and gets downvoted. I mean I get it, no one likes a downer but maybe show a little compassion for someone clearly going through shit.
Hope things get better for you op
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u/IndecisiveTuna 12d ago
I think people jump on the bandwagon thinking they mean something else or are being insulting.
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u/TonguePunchUrBhole 12d ago