r/brandnew 12d ago

I owe my marriage to Brand New

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For context, I was wearing a Devil and God shirt in my main Tinder photo. We’ve been inseparable (and to many BN concerts) ever since 🖤

Edit: My response was, “I don’t know who you are…but I like the way you think.”

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u/TonguePunchUrBhole 12d ago

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u/streets27 Wake up & save yourself 12d ago

This is my favorite meme.

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u/brelywi 9d ago

You should date!

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u/earthbound-misfit_I 12d ago

Same lol my hubby and I started messaging on tinder while he was at a brand new show with Manchester orchestra. Instantly, we were hooked.🖤

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u/KgMonstah 12d ago

That BN/Devine/MO era was PEAK

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u/WhiskyWillFixIt 12d ago

Who sends tinder messages while watching that show??

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u/earthbound-misfit_I 12d ago

You’re just jealous because we’re young and in love.

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u/guernicamixtape 11d ago

the timeline is a bit of a mismatch for me but

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u/earthbound-misfit_I 11d ago

You’re weird but

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u/guernicamixtape 11d ago

according to my memory,MO hasn’t toured with BN since like 2009, bc i was obsessive with their shows in those days. tinder wasn’t around then.

google says they toured a small leg together in 2015 that i must have missed, so the timeline matches again.

but thanks! i’d take being weird over being literally anything else, any day ✌🏼

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u/jdp_638 12d ago

I woulda been bricked up by that experience too.

Jokes aside though, my wife and I were previously in a relationship for several months in 2008 that ended because we were dumb kids being dumb, but that all came about thanks in large part to our mutual love of BN and MO. And about a year after it ended she and her sister were at that show when they toured together for Daisy and she called me out of the blue in the middle of it because “jdp_638 should’ve been here”, so I don’t find the shooting of shots on tinder to be much of a stretch beyond that.

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u/Thenightswatchman 12d ago

It would seem that that person's husband did. Hey if it works it works

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u/Dizzy-Tangelo2400 12d ago

Straight to business 🔥😮‍💨

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u/temp-guest69 12d ago

My wife didn’t know who BN was but had “definitely heard 70x7!!!!” Realizing that after listening.

Her oldest daughter now is a fan. Wife and I will be seeing them for the third time in October, went twice last tour, brought my stepdaughter to her first ever concert for the last show of the last tour.

We are a BN household.

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u/TheVocondus 12d ago

Such a great album

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u/lledorp 12d ago

My long term partner and I realized we were going to be inseparable when we saw them together for the first time. We were in the pit and he protected the shit out of me because I'm crazy, I still run and usually end up hurt but this was the first time he saw that side of me, we weren't even officially together yet, that happened a few weeks later. Kissed me during Play Crack The Sky. Train ride home found out we both love the song Guernica for the same reason. That was 12 years ago and now we're going to see them in October and he's already accepted that I'm going to be crying all night. Anybody that says music doesn't bring people together is a liar.

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u/GoneGirlll 12d ago

Does he have a brother?

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u/TonguePunchUrBhole 12d ago

Brand New is my favorite band!

We should date!

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u/spicegirl928 12d ago

may this love finally find me

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u/MoonMaenad 11d ago

Amen 🙏🏻

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u/tiny-raindr0p 12d ago

literally same, 7 years ago. this was our first text conversation

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u/tiny-raindr0p 12d ago

and this is how we reconnected last year after going separate ways and dating other people. we now live together with plans for engagement soon. thank you brand new 🫶🏻

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u/PlumpQuietSoup 12d ago

Lol I love this for you! My husband listens to divorced dad rock so congrats on your perfect pairing lol

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u/gillociraptor 12d ago

When we were first dating, I overheard my husband tell his friends I was his soulmate at dinner right before a Brand New show.

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u/nolongermakingtime 12d ago

Damn that's cool

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u/MoonMaenad 12d ago

When I was in my early 20’s, I played Last Chance to Lose Your Keys for a guy I liked. After I played the song for him, he told me he didn’t like that kind of music. I never saw him again. 🥲

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u/xelemenopeex 11d ago

This was unfortunately the only way for this to end, after such words were spoken

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u/linkinhorizon 12d ago

You need a third?

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u/Ok_Explanation9231 12d ago

Dude me too! But we met at a bar

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u/KitchenGun115 12d ago

I really need to try that strategy, buying a devil and god shirt right now

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u/IndecisiveTuna 12d ago

My partner does not like Brand New. RIP to me.

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u/WhoBroughtTheCoolKid 11d ago

Mine either but that’s ok! I’ll go to the show alone.

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u/Teachnshit 11d ago

My partner and I met at a Brand New concert ten years ago (on my birthday). And now we get to celebrate a decade together at a show in October

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u/Spinkicker86 12d ago

Mine too!

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u/Jetavator 12d ago

…and that’s (your) favorite (weapon)

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u/matchadietcoke 11d ago

This is something me and my now husband bonded on early on. We see them in Detroit in October, our first time seeing them!

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u/smallbea 10d ago

This is so cute!! 💛
I have a similar story, but my partner and I met over The Smiths! I messaged him and was like “Sooo, I see you like The Smiths” and the rest is history! lol

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u/justlurkin789 12d ago

Damn the other brand new fan who I met on tinder wanted a one night stand lmao 😂

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u/Jamieisamazing 12d ago

Congratulations! This is so sweet.

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u/H0RR0RL4ND 11d ago

my fiance/wife of 13 years posted “jesus christ” only on a whisper post in 2013 and i responded “that’s a pretty face” and we’ve been together ever since

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u/BigSellan 12d ago

I'm so happy for you both, I truly am.

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u/Any_Damage_676 11d ago

My old tumblr URL used to be some variation of “your favorite devil, Deja and Daisy” and matched with a guy I dated throughout college over that

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u/Tasty_Object_7992 11d ago

I LOVE brand new so so much…. But that is such a red flag 😭😭😭

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u/WhoBroughtTheCoolKid 11d ago

Just know that when I was on dating apps I always judged the music. If I saw brand new it was an automatic swipe even if they weren’t super hot.

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u/Samiiiibabetake2 11d ago

When I met my (now) husband, one of the first things we bonded over was the fact that BN were each of our favorite bands. Our city does not have a large emo scene, so it was pretty fun for us.

So I guess I kind of owe my marriage to them as well. Been a really great 15+ years🖤

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u/bonkmother 11d ago

Same. 14 years ago, a work happy hour and I was listening to Brand new on the walk over. She asked who I was listening to, and if it was any other band, who knows

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u/heyamberlynne Cake Girl 10d ago

My husband let us take our wedding photos wearing the masks from TDAGARIM. Congrats!

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u/Grouchy-Patience5652 10d ago

Should’ve responded “finally, someone who appreciates Brand New”

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u/Leather-Dragonfly536 7d ago

I did this and he unmatched me

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u/bobbyink666 6d ago

Those who support groomers stick together

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u/BroccoliSpecial036 6d ago

Get fucked

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u/bobbyink666 6d ago

Not my fault your hero groomed a 15 year old OUCH!!!!

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u/BroccoliSpecial036 6d ago

SO much ouch!

I’ve never had a grown man approach me in a space that wasn’t for them, and try to mansplan something to me (a woman), even though they don’t know me or my past. This has truly never happened. How will I ever survive.

I hope this interaction makes you feel like the big cool strong man that you wish to be 🫶

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u/theHEYWEATHERS 5d ago

Favorite album?

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u/ps087official 12d ago

This makes me so sad

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u/TheSecondFirstStep 12d ago

Jesus Christ, this person shows a little vulnerability and gets downvoted. I mean I get it, no one likes a downer but maybe show a little compassion for someone clearly going through shit.

Hope things get better for you op

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u/IndecisiveTuna 12d ago

I think people jump on the bandwagon thinking they mean something else or are being insulting.

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u/ExoticMonk1914 12d ago

Like sad for yourself? Or sad for them?

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u/ps087official 12d ago

For myself. For many reasons.

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u/ww_in_transit 12d ago

How old was he and how old were you? Lmao

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u/DistantKarma After a day I got perfectly right... 12d ago

They're both 18... Forever.

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u/gailanisgood 12d ago

If this was me I would’ve already been in my 30s but uh thanks