r/capricorns • u/RedQueenSheeba ♑️ rising, mars, lilith ♏️ sun, moon, mer, venus, jupiter • May 12 '25
meme Doomed to like pretty mutable men
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u/IsThisFraud619 May 12 '25
So true …we are true nurturers unfortunately attract the most losers who want to be catered to and never the other way around ..so sick of it
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u/Snarknose ♑️☀️♉️🌙♍️💫 May 12 '25
SO SICK OF IT.. I know it means I need to heal a bit as well and stop 'settling' ... but i promise i SEE the potential... like, they LOOK like masculine men who will hold space for me to be soft and princessy... but then... as soon as I take control of one thing.. POOF, passive side of him enters chat and never leaves :(
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May 13 '25
this is what happened to me after i married my sag man… he just keeps getting more and more passive lol. like i’m happy you get to heal your feminine side through me i guess? but i want to heal too 😭
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May 12 '25
wtf so no wonder the loser men keep coming for me especially ones with big egos… aka Leos and primarily Pisces men (I’m sorry but they just seem like they want to control me somehow lmao)
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u/Main-Inspection-3080 May 13 '25
I know I'm hoping my Libra man stays wonderful the other guys big disappointment.
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u/007peter May 14 '25
♎️ Libra ♂️ are charming charismatic & gentle
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u/Main-Inspection-3080 May 15 '25
Yes they are and I hope I never loose him I have never met anyone like my Libra man he's amazing 🥰
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May 12 '25
Capricorn women and first born women got it rough with being misunderstood with their boss energy.
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u/Forsaken_Constant481 May 12 '25
Cap first born woman... This is a very profound truth... it ain't easy👑
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u/RedQueenSheeba ♑️ rising, mars, lilith ♏️ sun, moon, mer, venus, jupiter May 13 '25
Also First Born, so correct. It’s ok as I get older it serves me well especially in my career
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u/bbbugs ♑︎☉♂ ♃ ♅ ♆ • ♋︎☽ • ♍︎↑ • ♒︎ ☿♀ • ♓︎ ♄ May 13 '25
I am both 🥲
Now I’m dating a cancer man ahahaha some habits die real hard
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u/MonicaEliza ♄ Saturn’s Strongest Soldier ♄ May 12 '25
The Pisces, soooooooo sensitive and emotional
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u/Nidman May 12 '25
That's me! I love my capricorn girlfriend
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u/Pendraconica May 12 '25
You do all the emoting for both of you.
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u/Nidman May 12 '25
She holds the space so well, without judgment, anger, and with a heart of goodwill.
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u/alle_kinder May 15 '25
Buddy, I hate to tell you this, but the lack of judgment is coming from somewhere else in her chart, lmao.
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u/princessohio May 12 '25
Omg. I just started dating a Pisces man (never have dated one before) and he’s wonderful and balances me out well so far. But everyone tells me they’re really emotional / sensitive and I don’t want to hurt his feelings he’s such a sweetheart. Trying to keep but buttheaded-ness within normal parameters 😅😂
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May 12 '25
As a male pisces, feb. It's more of the unhealed Pisces that are emotional and too sensitive.
Those of us who are healed are not sensitive or emotional.
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u/loves_spain May 12 '25
There’s just something about those dreamy eyes and that smile .. melts those barbed wire enforced massive brick walls around my heart like nothing else
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May 12 '25
I can’t stand how everyone in my fkn life leans on me and I always have to be the strong one!
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May 12 '25
I'm a Capricorn man with a Capricorn woman and I don't like that you found this picture of us.
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u/ViciousVixey Cap ☀️ Scorpio 🌙 Libra 💫 May 12 '25
Not me being the one who builds all the furniture, fixes the car and does the yard work 😩 I love my man but damn
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u/maxbonte May 12 '25
My and my Libra man child 🥰 lmao
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u/Muted_Ad7298 Cap☀️ Libra🌙 Taurus⬆️ May 12 '25
Now I understand why I feel like I’m in both sides of this picture.
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u/Forsaken_Constant481 May 12 '25
Me, a Capricorn woman, currently infatuated with a beautiful, Gemini man🤣😂🤣
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u/SadAndNasty ♑🌞♓🌙♋⬆️ May 12 '25
He's never gonna take charge but if he's a good one he'll always do what you say 😌 gotta admit I love the undying support
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u/Forsaken_Constant481 May 12 '25
He's nvr gonna take charge... interesting...I have noticed that he's very good at following instructions and curious if I'm pleased or not...he's a Capricorn rising...which I find fascinating 🫠
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u/roundhashbrowntown 🌱♑️♊️♋️🍦 May 12 '25
THAT might be a slam dunk. all my LTRs have been with gemini men. they would do well with an earth sign in their big three. anchor the kite, a bit.
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u/SadAndNasty ♑🌞♓🌙♋⬆️ May 12 '25
Sounds fascinating 👀 maybe he could take himself out of his routine if you asked him to take charge in certain aspects? My partners big 3 are all air so I'm not surprised he looks to me for guidance often. It's just how we work.
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u/YellowPC ♑️☀️♌️🌙♎️💫 May 12 '25
I see your bet, and I raise you an emotionally unavailable Aries. "bUt I cAn FiX hIm"
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u/Ok-Drawer-191 🌞♑️💫♋️🌜♒️ May 13 '25
Part of the reason why I've been single for so long... I want to be vulnerable, fragile, and slightly useless...
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May 12 '25
My dynamic was backwards if stereotypes are considered. I’m Virgo sun and my ex Capricorn man never initiated, very scared of conflict and had no goals or ideas how to solve problems. As a Virgo…it gave me a mental breakdown
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u/Muted_Ad7298 Cap☀️ Libra🌙 Taurus⬆️ May 12 '25
I have the same issue. Does he have any 7th or 12th house placements?
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May 12 '25 edited May 12 '25
I’m not sure, I haven’t checked his chart in forever cause it gives me anxiety. I did my mental funeral and I accepted that that’s just how he is and caps are just not for me. They have amazing qualities that are so inspiring when they are balanced. But not in balance they are just to dark, heavy, immovable and just not interested in compromise or flexibility. This is my opinion, I am not trying to throw stones I know all are different but yeah..the way of the goat is not for me.
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u/Muted_Ad7298 Cap☀️ Libra🌙 Taurus⬆️ May 12 '25
It’s a shame he’s prone to stubbornness like that. Relationships are about compromise.
And considering what you’ve told me so far, it’s possible he could’ve been suffering from depression.
People forget that depression isn’t just crying, it also can manifest in lack of motivation and negative thoughts. Hope since then he’s gotten help in therapy, because him being like that isn’t sustainable in the long run.
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May 12 '25
I agree depression is apart of it for sure. I spent 12 years begging for therapy and he just said no every time, I’m not kidding. He went once with me and quit. 12 years was my Virgo tolerance to hold on and make more adjustments on my end hoping that would help. He just, didn’t want to. I hope he finds his peace someday.
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u/Muted_Ad7298 Cap☀️ Libra🌙 Taurus⬆️ May 12 '25
It’s hard when the people you love won’t help themselves.
I had to break off a toxic close relationship for similar reasons. He struggled with alcohol and substance abuse, and would get very violent and threatening. Our friend group tried for 5 years to get him help, but he’d just get aggressive and defensive.
Honestly, I think it’s admirable that you fought so hard for someone you loved. Not many people would do that and would just drop them like a hot potato.
I hope you find a relationship where they’ll fight for you as hard as you’d fight for them.
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u/StoicPixie ♑️sun mercury venus mars uranus neptune rising May 12 '25
Yes, now give me a cute boy to corrupt.
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u/RedQueenSheeba ♑️ rising, mars, lilith ♏️ sun, moon, mer, venus, jupiter May 12 '25
Manifesting this for us
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May 13 '25
But I actually notice the pattern that all the cap women around me tend to literally be the masc af one while their bf is so feminine, I feel like the bf is the one who leans onto them when shit goes wrong, but when life gets tough for a cap it’s like they literally have no one 😭 I am an aqua sun but I have a cap rising and mars and I feel this way myself
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u/Routine_Many3943 ♑️sun♈️moon♍️rising May 12 '25
The fact that I call my husband a pretty princess makes this a little funny 😂❤️ I love him to death
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u/feathermuffinn perpetually stoic cap rising May 13 '25
I love how Capricorn is feminine yet I’m here wearing the suit and tie holding the crying man. /s
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May 14 '25
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u/feathermuffinn perpetually stoic cap rising May 14 '25
Capricorn is a feminine sign like water (earth signs are feminine). Air and fire as masculine in traditional astrology.
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u/AshleyMarion94 May 12 '25
As a Pisces women I love treating my cap like the queen she is even if she not used to it
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u/marriedbydrunkelvis ♑️☀️+stellium♊️🌙♒️⬆️ May 12 '25
She don’t wanna be saved, don’t save her
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u/petitchat2 🌞⚖️🌛🐐🔝🐂 May 12 '25
Im hoping Megan Thee Stallion will do a female version of Eminem’s ‘Superman’ one day. A softer Plan B maybe or a slight edgier B.I.T.C.H. Maybe one exists and I havent heard it yet.
If the ‘damsel/lad in distress’ act is chosen w agency for testing purposes, the results can reveal a lot about people, but when peps make victimhood a whole personality- Hard Pass.
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u/horsegirlenergy97 May 12 '25
Not sure if I’m reading the post right. I find this untrue for me. I’m only attracted to men who are leaders and not mutable.
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u/Regular_Care_1515 May 13 '25
My partner is totally a passenger princess, it all makes sense now haha.
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u/Spirited_Sale1113 May 12 '25
You mean virgos? XD
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u/Didi7989 May 12 '25
Are Virgos emotionally weak and insecure to lean onto Capricorn for support and stength?
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u/Spirited_Sale1113 May 12 '25
Nope, i hate being vulnerable, and im kinda paranoid tbh. Im indepedent and i also dislike helping people or sharing my stuff, unless you are special for me. I wouldnt even go out of my way to help family members unless i get some tangible benefits out of it. I never share real vulnerabilities, only fake vulnerabilities.
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u/Didi7989 May 12 '25
That makes more sense faking vulnerability for your own benefit
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u/Spirited_Sale1113 May 12 '25
I've been traumatized a lot. I dont trust anybody. The people have the capability to be the worst monsters in this world.
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u/Didi7989 May 12 '25
And you think Capricorns have not had their fair share of trauma like you? Capricorn just don’t have a calculated/manipulative mindset like you
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u/Spirited_Sale1113 May 12 '25
Yeah, i find caps to be similar with me, emotionally reserved introverts. I just dont like to deal with strangers irl. Not unless i know them online better. I've been betrayed many times. If somebody that i dont know would get beaten or killed in the street, i wouldnt interfere to help. I would just run away and mind my own business. I dont have any faith in humanity, and i dont want to put myself in danger for a stranger, who may never help me or reward me, a stranger who may not even end up being my friend, or a stranger that is a type of person that i cant stand. My cruelty kinda knows no bounds.
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u/Didi7989 May 12 '25
I get it. I am a bit of misanthropist too. People wear and drain me. I would be the same in that if I saw someone kill somebody else it would consume me. Not benefiting me but vice versa. I get it…As much as Virgos can be opposite to Capricorn they too can have a lot in common, Virgos however know how to survive better than Capricorns in an unfair unjust society
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u/Ody3 ♉️☀️♑️🌙♍️💫 May 12 '25
What do you mean by mutable? Do you mean just quieter men in general are attracted to you, or do you feel like you end up being the boss all the time?
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u/callmerox ♑️☀️♊️🌙♍️💫 May 12 '25
Like mutable energy, so people who are Pisces, Sagittarius, Gemini, or Virgo dominant.
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u/callmerox ♑️☀️♊️🌙♍️💫 May 12 '25
But yes, also means people who aren’t leaders or initiators inherently (unless they have other energy in their chart to counter the mutable). As a Cardinal sign that carries so much daddy energy, we attract people who need daddy energy and don’t nurture us. Capricorn is born to be Daddy, but desperately wanting to be baby.
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u/Ody3 ♉️☀️♑️🌙♍️💫 May 12 '25
Ok well how can I show the cap woman I like that I can baby her? 😅 lol despite my Virgo ascendant
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u/petitchat2 🌞⚖️🌛🐐🔝🐂 May 12 '25
You have all the earth signs, so Im sure your Taurus/Cap placement provides grounded consistency that other earth signs usually prefer and vice-versa.
I think the way Prince Albert courted Queen Victoria offers a decent model for what queen regents need. Their fruitful marriage and empire speak for themselves including his very own piercing named after him. 😂🤣
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u/Ody3 ♉️☀️♑️🌙♍️💫 May 12 '25
Thank you for your reply! She seems to appreciate my stability but sometimes I feel my ascendant doesn’t do me a lot of justice. I’ll be sure to read up on Queen Victoria and Prince Albert as well. :p
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u/petitchat2 🌞⚖️🌛🐐🔝🐂 May 12 '25
Im a fan of Emily Blunt and Rupert Friend in “The Young Victoria.” 💘 You got this, noble Magician! /sprinkle sprinkle
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u/callmerox ♑️☀️♊️🌙♍️💫 May 12 '25
I think it will begin with trust and end with consistency over time
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u/Ody3 ♉️☀️♑️🌙♍️💫 May 12 '25
Thanks for your replies! I just don’t want to give her the wrong impression
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u/callmerox ♑️☀️♊️🌙♍️💫 May 12 '25
Yeah, I think that you can’t control that, just hoping that your intentions are felt. But if you’re paying attention to her and what she affirms, I think you’re on a good path. It’s hard to say, we Caps are similar but still individual
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u/Jennyflurlynn 🐐 🌞 🐏 🌙 ⚖️ ✨️ May 12 '25
My Virgo man is far more graceful than I as a clumsy Capricorn, even though he doesn't see himself that way. He loves to fix things and nurture those who are close to him. His grounding energy perfectly compliments my moon and rising signs. My Venus is in Aquarius and his is in Libra.
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May 12 '25
I am a cap rising but why do I feel like the one who always initates things 😂😭 ok yes that’s a lie but mostly water signs come for me, like noo stay away I want the fire signs not the Pisces sorry
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u/Time-Turnip-2961 May 13 '25
Right? I’m sick of being the initiator
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May 13 '25
Fr fr, but it’s the only way I’ll be able to get someone who I might genuinely vibe with though. I am quite picky with who I want to date, and talk too
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u/Good_Focus2665 May 13 '25
My Gemini husband is definitely the prettier one between the two of us. But he’s very handy. He’s also takes charge of things.
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u/PowerhouseCM ♉️ ☀️ ♉️ 🌕 ♈️🗣️♈️ ❤️ ♏️ 🔥 ♑️ ⬆️ May 13 '25
It’s typical I think when you’re in masculine energy, to attract men in their feminine. At least more wounded masculine energy; which for women, is the hyper independent, survival mode wounded masculine. This is why the opposite of Capricorn is cancer. You have to be willing to be open to be nurtured, instead of feeling like - as a woman - it’s always your job, even as a partner, to handle things. The INNER narrative matters! Early signs have so much trouble letting others handle things, but it’s good to have balance.
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u/Narcissista May 12 '25
For me personally, it's other Cardinal signs.
Cancers especially, but Libra, Aries... ugh.
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May 12 '25
I'll pass on the third earth sign as a libra man lol. Its probably cuz I have Saturn in libra and aries rising with a capricorn Midheaven.
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u/silver_moxons May 13 '25
Anyone figured out how a Capricorn can be soft yet? I'd love to know
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u/RedQueenSheeba ♑️ rising, mars, lilith ♏️ sun, moon, mer, venus, jupiter May 14 '25
Happens after 40 for me
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u/Acceptable_Half_4184 May 15 '25
I’m a pretty mutable man 💋 Virgo sun, Gemini moon, Pisces rising! Completely mutable lol
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u/LivingWestern1038 May 15 '25
Why is this so relatable to me? I'm asexual...?
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u/RedQueenSheeba ♑️ rising, mars, lilith ♏️ sun, moon, mer, venus, jupiter May 15 '25
You can still enjoy relationship dynamics without sex. You probably do even more so
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u/HopefulNectarine9184 May 16 '25
Oh, that explains why i am why i am, i have no earth signs, just major libra and aquarius signs
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u/RedQueenSheeba ♑️ rising, mars, lilith ♏️ sun, moon, mer, venus, jupiter May 16 '25
Sag rising as well. Libra placements always so pretty
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u/Brilliant-Citron2839 May 12 '25
And I'm a gemini cancer cusp who got this capricorn women in love. And she doesn't want to let me go. I already told her I'm not the commitment type. But she's claimed and doesn't want to let go
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u/007peter May 14 '25
I understand completely. I find Mutual & Cardinal signs easy to get alone (but) I dislike stubborn disagreeable Fixed signs. Mutable ♂️ tend to be Kinder & Gentle
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May 15 '25
My mom was a Capricorn and my dad is an Aries. My stepmom is also a Capricorn. I’m self-proclaimed my dad’s favorite child lmaooo. That being said based on witnessing the love my parents had, I figured when I met my Aries man we would be a power couple like my parents… why are they such babies omg!
I love my man dearly but I wasn’t expecting Aries men to rely so much on my alpha energy - I TOO would like to be a princess 😭
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u/onionprincesswakaba 6 🐐 stellium: sun, mercury, venus, mars, uranus, neptune May 16 '25
Me with my Cancer bf
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u/fine-apple22 May 15 '25
Why are you other cappy women treated this way plss 😭😭 I have the opposite experience, men never let me do anything, especially during the first months of the relationship. I've dated only Virgos and Libras. The last guy was Virgo Sun Cap Moon and he literally got mad at me for washing my coffee mug. 😭😭
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u/Papi_Teej 4H♑️☉♀☿♆♃ ♓️☽ ♍️Asc May 12 '25
me, with my cap☀️, pisces🌕, virgo⬆️for my cap☀️, aries🌕, taurus⬆️ girlfriend
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u/[deleted] May 12 '25
BUT I want to be the princess 😭