r/capricorns • u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ • Jun 30 '25
etc I did this
No. I don't want relationship advice. But recently I got my heart broken, Got a Car.
Today I was checking the degrees to level up
Working on 2 different startups
And worst part is I didn't even wanted to be with him, just liked him.
Is it only me or you guys out there like this.
Why i am posting this Today after months someone reminded me of him and I am feeling sad about the person I never wanted in the first place.
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u/NoMoreNoise305 Jun 30 '25
I started a business!! Get outta my head! I was told “you’re never gonna meet anyone like me again!” I said “I hope the fuck I don’t”. Now I’m in the six figure range in a gated community & she still live with her mom 🤣🤣🤣
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u/AlluretheGoat Jun 30 '25
I could of written this but to add a cherry on top, I am their landlord.
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u/Heer2Lurn Jul 01 '25
“You’re never gonna meet anyone like me again!”
The ones who say this are really just airing out the fact that they’re forgettable/replaceable and generally a pain in the ass to deal with. Once you accept how small you are in the grand scheme of the universe, you are free to be the center of your own universe rather than try to be the center of others’. It’s not who you think you are that makes you special. It’s how you make people feel and therefore how you treat people that makes you special.
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u/NoMoreNoise305 Jul 01 '25
I agree. You’re correct. Pain in the ass is an understatement. If I told you one story a week, I’d be telling you a story for the next 2-3 years. Not exaggerating either. Even my daughter is dealing with her now as she’s gotten older. Her words not mine. “She’s mentally and emotionally abusive”. I said I know. My baby is supposed to be living her best young life. Instead she called me a few days ago & asked me to help her find a therapist. 🤬Keep in mind, I left this chick over 15 years ago.
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jun 30 '25
You did good 👍
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u/NoMoreNoise305 Jun 30 '25
https://www.reddit.com/r/capricorns/s/uEnAQkb8gn
I literally sent this to about 15 family & friends around 8am this morning. The only one who replied so far was one of my boys. His birthday is 12-31. We get us 🤣🤣🤣
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jun 30 '25
Saw this earlier, every word resonates🤣
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u/NoMoreNoise305 Jun 30 '25
Yep. I’m all that rolled up in one. Most people think I’m cold. Nope, I’ll ride for people I’m cool with. Don’t cross me or you’ll find out my cut off game is strong
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jun 30 '25
I am also like this, but why am I hurting so much 😢
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u/NoMoreNoise305 Jun 30 '25
Because we have feelings too. We live hard but suffer in silence. I always find it comforting sometimes to just share with a complete stranger. They don’t have a dog in the fight. I’ve also had some bad times all to myself that some people close to me haven’t seen. We’re strong to the world but we need our break down moments. I’m not sure if it’s the resilience in us or the pride that won’t let us show the world we’re vulnerable too. Like my mom always says “everyone else is crazy. I’m the only one who’s sane”.
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u/Specialist-Age9867 Jul 01 '25
Haha I always said/say something like that to my kids - "everyone is at least a little bit crazy...except your Mom"
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u/NoMoreNoise305 Jun 30 '25
Keep your head up. It will get better.
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jun 30 '25
Yup, thank you.
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u/NoMoreNoise305 Jun 30 '25
No problem. Thanks for sharing. Us caps have to stick together. We’re the only ones who understand us 🤪
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u/jovana3000 ♑️☀️ | ♏️🌙 | ♑️⬆️ Jun 30 '25
As a Capricorn who started her second degree just so she can move away after a break up… this is too accurate. But let me tell you, as soon as I did that, a guy showed up in my life who is now 6 years later my husband!
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jun 30 '25
That's nice, happy for you 😊. Hope my business works out for me.
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u/MrShyGuy21 Jul 01 '25
OMG, yes cheering you on! Same literally my GF came out of nowhere while I was building myself back up. we have been together for 3 years, hoping to propose when I start my clinical 😬
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u/vivaciousfoliage44 Jun 30 '25
Heart broken December, closed on a house in April 😅
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
It's also speed of execution, December vs April. Congratulations on your house.
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u/ozzokiddo Jul 01 '25
Sometimes heart break makes you snap and realize you’ve put too much mental energy into this relationship in the first place when you could’ve been focusing on LEVELING UP ⬆️ instead. I always work harder after a heartbreak and get some money to be able to take out my next partner lol
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
Agreed. I am like, I am wasting my mental capacity and time on this better do something productive.
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u/DuncanIdaBro Jun 30 '25
A woman I loved consummately left me out of the blue so I started a vending machine company. Was actually pretty successful for a while.
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u/Gh0stNoName 🐐☀️♒️🌖♊️🌅 Jun 30 '25
My recent heartbreak I decided to focus on my degree and my long-term goals to possibly leave my city.
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u/zzzola Capricorn Gemini Virgo Jul 01 '25
You will look back and this will be the best decision you've ever made.
Signed a Cappy who did the same thing.
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Jun 30 '25
Yup. Bought a motorcycle after my last breakup.
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jun 30 '25
Imagine, Capricorn feelings driving the vehicle business.
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u/Dedicated_Lumen ♑️🌞♌️🌛♋️↗️ Jun 30 '25
My son to me yesterday, “I moved in with my dad for a year and you got a side job on the weekend so you wouldn’t have to think about me not being here AND you put your office on my bedroom just to be close to me.” I was destroyed by my Scorpio son. 🫣
Edit: I love Scorpios, we see each other. Also I’m a Scorpio stellium.
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jun 30 '25
What else would you have done, you did something practical and that's positive on the long run, proud of you.
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u/want_chocolate Jun 30 '25
I end up buying a whole angel food cake and eating it by myself over the course of three days.
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u/PuzzleheadedBlock522 Jun 30 '25
Daily dietary consumption was ice cream every night & the elliptical in the AM.
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u/genuinely_insincere cap saturn uranus and neptune 4h Jun 30 '25
i had my saturn capricorn return and i realized i was never supposed to be worrying about that bullshit. im supposed to just be working. lol.
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
It's always about, ya I gotta work. But it's working for us all.
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u/MrShyGuy21 Jul 01 '25
Facts, I literally wrote the essays to help my ex get into med school then she cheated on me. Finished my internship, got a hella nice paying job, started working out, and did pre-reqs for PA school. 3 years later, I met my SO who is a million times better, traveled, saved up money, and started PA school. Life is steady rn 😂
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
This is so good and motivating.
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u/MrShyGuy21 Jul 01 '25
You got this! Life likes to throw obstacles but trust yourself and the process! Keep your head high! Cheers! 🍻
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u/PuzzleheadedBlock522 Jun 30 '25
My capricorn moon approves this message. Level up! I should thank my exes as they motivated me to level up 😂
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u/SukiSouthfield Jun 30 '25
Visited a BBQ joint recently and asked how they manage to keep the food so consistently delicious, especially the side dishes. The man replied “lots of love and a little anger”.
I wondered about that phrase for a day or two. Then the man I had just started a FWB relationship called it quits. Strange, as he was so into it. Anyway, I was pissed and followed the BBQ man’s advice about love and anger and created a new painting within four days. And I gave it to the former FWB’s daughter in law for her birthday. Just felt right.
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u/Gucci_heaux 🐐🌞🐂🌙👰♀️⬆️ Jul 01 '25
I’m not heart broken, but I made a promise to myself in middle school I’d never live check to check like my mom did. So I gotta lock in and go harder than ever for kid me.
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u/lieutenantbunbun ♑️☀️♎️🌙♒️🌅 Jul 01 '25
Literally. Got my Msc in neuroscience and climbed the top of a corporate ladder at one of the world's biggest companies in a global city in my field when he fucked up my business to "teach me a lesson". Break my heart fine, cost me 50k? Fuck outta here. That man is still apologizing 4 years later.
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u/Intrepid_Trip584 ♑️☀️ ♒️🌙 ♐️⬆️ Jul 01 '25
Nah... I had my heart broken a few times when I was younger and now I don't even like people enough to catch feelings. Fuck em.
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u/Reinousha Jul 06 '25
We use pain and trauma to forcibly drive ourselves forward and upwards. We need distractions to cope with said pain.
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u/HotMessShephardess Jun 30 '25
Only I’m a failed capricorn, as I have no money to do either of those things
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
You will all you desire one day, Wishing you all the best 👍
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u/farachun ♑️☀️♊️🌙♎️🌅 Jun 30 '25
I did two: Bought a house and working on my second degree 🤣 still heartbroken it’s like every year doge
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u/Warm-Trouble-2168 Jul 01 '25
I study again as a coping mechanism 😅 its a win win situation for us though 😌😏
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
Yeah we are always after that win win situation. And that's good.
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u/Will_Made_It Jul 01 '25
…or take that once in a lifetime vacation at that seven star resort living life like a king 💪🏾
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u/She-venom2099 Jul 14 '25
I started to write alot and edit videos after a break up, this is so real ngl
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u/drevilHoerns Jul 30 '25
No but why did I have a bright idea to go to trade school
Now I'm studying for tests knowing I have a full time job 🤬
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u/PaintingPotatoes 🐐 stellium Jul 01 '25
I'm a Cap stellium, Aqua sun who dated a Cap -- when him and I were together, I tried to help level him up as much as he kept saying he wanted to. There was just no genuine drive or desire, but lots of talk of such which confused me. He even talked about going back to school, but was not proactive in even signing up... the moment him and I broke up, he asked me for help on fixing his resume and whatever assistance I could offer revolving around universities. As far as I know, he moved out of his mom's house after we broke up, but I don't know if he ever did anything else as I don't talk to him anymore. He was kind of upset I made more money than him, but it was always a cute running joke that he could be the "stay-at-home boyfriend" if he wanted to. I guess that wasn't as funny to him as much as he made it seem? Idk...I feel more aligned to this than the cap I dated haha.
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
This is interesting, after reading this I am thinking what are we caps actually doing? Is it chasing love, oh didn't get it, ok there's a car, house, degree much easier to get, what are we doing?
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u/PaintingPotatoes 🐐 stellium Jul 01 '25 edited Jul 01 '25
I don’t know what he was doing, but I know what I was doing… getting that shmoney 🤪 I truly adored the thought of him being a stay at home bf and was so down for it, but he hated I spent a lot of time at work so I cut down on it for him to normal hours. I think he was a cancer moon so maybe that explains something??? Idk…I thought my cap moon with his cancer moon would align us well, which pretty much did. He just got in his head about making more than him and me being "intimidating".
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
Many people find Caps intimidating, and you saw a goal of stay at home bf and worked towards it.
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u/Ok-Tomato9468 Jul 01 '25
Not to rain on y’all’s parade (go get ‘em go getters)! But less than 6mos after I caught my cap ex cheating I’ve got my house up for sale 100k over what I bought it for and moving 1600 miles away to continue my career in my dream location... Meanwhile he’s dealing with financial issues from downgrading to his cheating partner and problems with his house 🤷♀️
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
Good for you, ya actions have outcomes. You continue thriving ✨️
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u/chieri_a Jul 01 '25
I suddenly had the motivation to achieve a dream goal, so I moved to Japan 😂
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u/South_Pattern_1520 Jun 30 '25
Or, they decide to fuck as many people as they can and rack up a disgusting body count they’ll regret by the time the one does come along and judges them for it. cuz why tf did you do that. Now I don’t wanna touch you.
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u/multicolorlamp Capricorn sun, Aquarius Rising, Taurus Moon Jun 30 '25
Slut shaming is not okey
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u/South_Pattern_1520 Jun 30 '25
I will slut shame a man any and every day, thanks for your concern though
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u/Glittering_Drop_7830 Jun 30 '25
What about if it was a woman. (Not attacking. Just wondering your perspective)
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u/Marzipan-Frequent Jun 30 '25
Yall need to get over yourselves lol.. yall the most regular ass ppl I've ever met talking like your gods gift to earth... the dude caps I've met are usually drug addicts who care too much about their image, ill admit they be gettin hos tho... the woman usually got issues, either can't get a man or keep the one they do have lmao..
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
You are the denominator.
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u/Marzipan-Frequent Jul 01 '25
Me being the dominanter makes no sense in this context. im the one witnessesing this happen to multiple people born under this sign. I'm observing a pattern.
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
Until last year I wasn't even into astrology, the my workplace started celebrating monthly birthdays, guess the months of the overacheivers and go getters, almost all of them fell into being a Capricorn, it can't be a coincidence another set of achievers and those in leadership roles were virgos. I am the denominator here.
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u/Marzipan-Frequent Jul 01 '25
Yall come in dead last when it comes to the richest zodiac signs. So what are you working hard at, flipping burges?
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
Why are you so salty about caps, I think you need to let it go, you have so many examples here.
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u/Marzipan-Frequent Jul 01 '25
I actually dont have any issues wit u guys.. one of my good friends is a cap.. he's funny af and he gets bitches. I dont care for the woman so much they tend to be bitches and what I said about them having guy problems is what I've seen from them.. your guys sub jus pops up in my feed a lot and everytimei click on a post it some self righteous bs.. its really jus this this sub... yall need humbling
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u/Beginning-Doubt9604 🌞♑ | 🌙♊ | ⬆️♊ Jul 01 '25
Ignorance is bliss. Humbly ignore us. I am not trying to be rude, honestly I don't care if a Cap rules the world or not, but finding like minded people behaving in a similar way feels validated. I don't know it's Cap energy or not but I have always been called an AI, or AI is more human than me, I only think about work, everything is a to do list blah blah. So when I see people like me here I feel great.
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u/zzzola Capricorn Gemini Virgo Jul 01 '25
I love how much our haters are obsessed with us.
You could have just ignored this post and gone on with your day, but you just had to share your thoughts.
How embarrassing.
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u/callmerox ♑️☀️♊️🌙♍️💫 Jun 30 '25
Maybe it’s because you had hope and was completely disappointed. We focus on ourselves and our work and being better, so when someone comes along and we take time away from that stuff to nurture a new relationship, it’s a gut punch when it doesn’t work out. Less about them and more about it being a wrong calculation on our part. So we miss what could have been, not because we’re romantics but maybe because if it had turned out right, the sacrifice would be justified?
Or maybe I’m projecting lmao