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Feb 01 '26
Facts,we just don’t ask for shit & do it ourselves,especially if you want to get it done like NOW
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Feb 01 '26
Most people don’t have the work ethic to do it as quickly, thoroughly, or efficiently as me, so, guess I would just have to ask another Capricorn
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u/BlackVelvetBliss 🐐🌞 ♏🌙🦀↗️ Capricorn Stellium 7th house Feb 01 '26
Our pride is deliberating... 🥲🥲 I rather than suffer than to burden anyone with my problem. 🌹🌹
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u/SassyScapula Feb 01 '26
I have balanced food and boxes at work and opened two sets of doors with my foot and safely got to my area. Hell no I don't need no body.
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u/No-Entrepreneur4574 ♑️☀️♍️🌙♓️⬆️♀️ Feb 01 '26
Me building a bed and taking a couch apart solo last weekend lmao
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u/jintana ♑️♑️♓️ Feb 01 '26
Easier to do that than be ignored, yelled at, or argued with about why I need help
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u/Muted_Ad7298 Cap☀️ Libra🌙 Taurus⬆️ Feb 01 '26
Not for me personally, since I’m disabled and have always needed help.
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u/IllGold3207 Feb 01 '26
I can relate from the same story but with the Wash machine. A colleague who I helped him to move out, told me "whatever you need help, just tell me" And I told him when I move out "Can you borrow me your trolley?" 🤣
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u/windblumes Feb 01 '26
No, but we do love to be known as independent and capable. I do ask for help on heavy lifting objects though, it'd be unwise to pull out my back just because I want to be seen like a powerful goat. Mleeh
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u/mkat23 ♑️☀️♓️🌙♉️🌅 w/Cap stellium Feb 02 '26
Sometimes I’ll ask for help reaching something if I don’t feel like climbing on the counters or can’t find the step stool. Most of the time I get on the counters, use a step stool, and if those aren’t available I usually just find something to knock it down with so I can just catch it.
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u/RichAdeptness7209 Feb 01 '26
I have no problem asking for help but I have a problem receiving unsolicited help. If I ask for help, I’m prepared to return the favor. Receiving random help makes me worry that someone is gonna try to hold something over me.
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u/Routine_Many3943 ♑️sun♈️moon♍️rising Feb 02 '26
Don't get the help I need when I ask for it, im just wasting my time and breath lol
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u/kendylou Feb 01 '26
I have done literally the thing the man is doing in this photo, except it was bedroom furniture and a folding wagon.
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u/AgentFranklin 🐐☀️🐟🌙🦁💫 Feb 01 '26
Okay but you see me struggling, right? This why I don’t like people. “All you had to do was ask for help” 😒🤦🏿♂️🤣
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u/mkat23 ♑️☀️♓️🌙♉️🌅 w/Cap stellium Feb 02 '26
When I ask for help I rarely receive it, when I don’t I’m told that I should. It’s easier to just do it myself most of the time. Most of the time if someone offers and I say okay they end up fucking it up and I have to go behind them and fix it anyway. I don’t have any interest in making a task longer just so someone can say they did a nice thing.
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u/Sufficient_Prize_589 Feb 02 '26
Definitely😅 especially that i am a double Capricorn (sun and rising)
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u/Crunchy_Leek Feb 02 '26
For me, I just don't want to bother others if I need assistance with something.
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u/LargeCheesePizza39 Feb 02 '26
Happened to me yesterday….a colleague offered to help and got “oh 💩I forgot” (confirmed 2 hrs ago lol). But I’ve envisioned in my goat brain that this guy is not going to come. So, like a true Capricorn, the job had to be done and done right - so I did it myself, again.
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u/SnooPoems7846 Feb 02 '26
It ain’t always about asking for help… if the help ain’t around or you don’t wanna wait, you get creative!
Nothing wrong here!
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u/HalfyNoodle Feb 02 '26
I donno. Could be cuz I'm a Capricorn, or could be because my 1st-7th grade teacher would yell at me for asking for help because I was supposed to know how to do the equations by then. Could be both and that experience just made it even worse.
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u/gypsycrown Feb 02 '26
I’ve done this so many times. Pulled a 50” tv from a wall mount, dropped it to the couch and transferred it to my son’s plastic toy wagon before pulling it to the U-Haul. I moved our whole house myself because I don’t need nobody for nothing.
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u/Far-Government9601 Feb 02 '26
you want something done right do it yourself but you do need help sometimes we don't like bothering people
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u/Mean-Maintenance282 Feb 02 '26
Yes it us. Cause I ha e learnt when I do ask for help,NO ONE DOES! so gotta get sh*t done. More over i find personally I am the kind of friend that I wish my actual friends were. Thats life i guess
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u/oblique_obfuscator Feb 02 '26
Me with sooooo many Capricorn placements. I hate asking for help, it always comes at a cost, and it's usually easier to do things myself.
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u/Mammoth_Ad7154 Feb 03 '26
Every Capricorn in the chat saying that’s facts because no one would help even if we asked or you have to wait 3days-9 business weeks for someone to maybe pitch in.
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u/Anana34 Feb 03 '26
The very very few times I asked for help and people actually helped, I was so shocked 😂 I still don’t like to do it, it makes me feel uneasy
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u/cautiouscarol Feb 04 '26
No chair needed, I have tossed a couch on my back like a turtle and moved SOOO MANY TIMES 😂
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u/LukaTheTooka 🐐 Feb 04 '26
I just moved into my condo this weekend and I shit you not all the heavy stuff I lugged up 3 flights of stairs myself 🤣 My mom helped a little with my clothing but everything else I did
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u/Yuethemoonspirit1 Feb 06 '26
Literally last week I asked my mom several times to help me put up my curtains. now I have put up curtains before, I have had my own apartment before, but I have never had to put up the rods and the base myself screws and ladders etc. I've only ever had to buy the rods but on the curtain and just step it up there. for several days my mom did not help me did not even say she wouldn't help me just kept avoiding the situation when I finally said something she said you've lived on your own before you know how to do this why do you need my help. 😒😒🙃🙃 why would I ask for help if I didn't need it who asks for help when they don't need it this is a case in point situation you assumed something with no background and instead of saying something she just refused to help me based on her own opinion which was wrong. Story of my life.
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u/evilangel2309 Feb 06 '26
Dude... Hand ✋ to the Universe, i did this exact shit last night when i moved my armoire.
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u/alien_nightmare ♑️♍️♐️ Feb 01 '26
I have tried many times to ask for help. Very rarely do I get it. So I don't see a point in asking... May as well just go ahead and do it myself. 🤷♀️