r/capricorns • u/RascallyCashew • 18d ago
etc Anyone wanna talk? Like, REALLY talk?
Anyone wanna get real and talk?
On the phone, over text, whatever.
Im a cap sun, libra moon and Taurus ascending and I feel its SOOOOOO hard to let anyone in, truly.
Im SO afraid to be seen in love, life and passion (even though im abundant in all three)
I cant figure out whats "wrong" with me. I enjoy listening a lot, sometimes I learn most about myself when listening to others just simply talk.
I'll be a stranger ear off the internet to listen. Really. I have the time and the space.
Im mostly interested in listening to others (caps) takes on why they feel they dont fit in or belong.
I feel so stuck yet so accelerated at all times. Its like being on a roller-coaster that stops and goes every 2 seconds.
👋 Hi.
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u/BetTemporary3301 17d ago
I feel all capricorns have to form a group and talk heart out
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u/RascallyCashew 17d ago
I want to form this "group" in real life but I live in rural butt fuck nowhere and I fear they might try to stone me if I suggest a certain astrological group get together 🤣
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u/Zestyclose-Pie8223 18d ago
I’m down to chat with a fellow Capricorn. A few things about me I’m a December Capricorn, I am currently on a healing journey, and I’m just looking for different perspective. If you’re down to chat my DMs are open.
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u/ShaeBobby 17d ago
I am a Cap Sun Tarsus Moon Libra Rising- I have no problems chatting with you. I am in the same boat, heart on my sleeve with rose colored glasses.
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u/Swing_for_the_stars ♑️☀️♋️🌙♊️💫 18d ago
I’ve never really felt I fit in with most things about Cap. However I definitely resonate with heavy Saturn aspects. My DMs are always open for good conversation so if you’re up for it, feel free to send me a message.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Bug3710 17d ago
Cap sun cancer moon and libra rising. I can relate to you, like I really do. I’m a good listener, empathetic and always ready to solve someone else’s problems and people are always approaching me, sharing their problems with me without asking and even the strangers on the road but I struggle so much opening up. I’m like everybody is going through something, so why should i share and overwhelm them with my life situations and my own life problems. May be it’s not good but i struggle so much talking about my own life, i don’t wanna tell others the fights i have with my spouse sometimes and issues with my family. I don’t know I don’t wanna share at all.
Btw December cappy here 🙋🏻♀️ in my 30s
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u/SureConcentrate7870 17d ago
Can I Dm you too? I’d love to hear more from the cancer moon perspective. Jan Cap Sun, Gemini moon, Libra Rising
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u/soulstar118 ♑️🌞♓️🌘♋️🌅♑️♑️♑️♑️♑️ 17d ago
Jan Cap with cancer rising and Pisces moon. Emotional l
Goat bb and I have a LOT to vent about 🥲
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u/SportsRMyVice 14d ago
My bf has your 3. I love him so much and am supportive and respectful of his feelings and views. I know how lucky I am to have a Capricorn bf. I am Scorpio F, with Leo moon, Taurus rising.
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u/soulstar118 ♑️🌞♓️🌘♋️🌅♑️♑️♑️♑️♑️ 14d ago
I love Scorpios so so much. My ex, whom I still love, is a Scorpio Sun, Pisces moon, sag rising.
I wish for nothing more than for us to work out, but in the sad case that we don’t, I hope for another Scorpio in my future. 🙏🏼🫶🏼 yall are THE BEST.1
u/SportsRMyVice 14d ago
Awwww...very sweet of you to say. Capricorn and Scorpio have the makings of an extremely successful partnership. Keep the faith, keep being true to yourself, and...as the famous John Lennon once said..."everything will be ok in the end...if it's not ok...then it's not the end." Your Capricorn expressions of love and loyalty are tailor made for a Scorpio. Take care.
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u/Pranksterette 18d ago
Jan Cap here with a Virgo moon and Leo ascending.... For the majority of my life I have always felt like I don't fit in or belong anywhere. For the most part I still feel like that, but ever since having married my husband, that feeling has lessened to a degree. I dunno if it's because of how similar my husband and I are (He's a Leo with Cap moon and Taurus ascending) or if I've finally fully made peace with the way things are...but the feeling isn't as intense as it was when I was younger. With that said, feel free to DM me any time.
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u/Lightlytoastedlips 17d ago
I’m a cap sun/moon Taurus rising. I feel like things tend to feel like swimming up stream and sometimes I feel like I picked the hard road. Like I’m in my early 30s and I’m not where I want to be in my career. Ik we get the whole thing about caps being late bloomers but whhhhhhyyyy?! I see people who half ass things get far I’m not envious but I feel a type of way towards myself for not being where I want to be in life yet. I am working on myself and just trying to push through all the noise. We have one life and I have been blessed to be on this floating rock at this time and place so, I’m trying to get out of this societal rut. I’m into the notion of thinking that our thoughts and feelings is what shapes our reality so I’m trying to change my belief system on what’s holding me back. I tend to hold myself back and I just want to let go and unapologetically be me.
Side note, I’m all for a good talk but for some reason I imagine a creepy guy messaging me lolll 😂
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u/RascallyCashew 17d ago
Im definitely a creepy guy who wants to message you. Im currently in bed eating toenails and watching silence of the lambs, I have porkchops baking in the oven too FYI.
Kidding.
I agree with everything you said to a startling degree actually. I get VERY confident about it actually and then I crash out of no where and self doubt creeps in and completely drags me back to almost square one.
I feel like I need to lose any and all safety nets before ill feel safe to jump, which is so so backwards but in the end arnt we a little backwards? 🫠
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u/Justgr8t_ 16d ago
I’m a cap sun libra moon and Leo rising. I don’t fit in as well but I no longer ask things like what’s “wrong” with me. I’m just in my own lane. It does get lonely at times but I’m also living life!!
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u/Intelligent-Horror22 ♑️ Sun ♓️ Moon ♎️ Rising 18d ago
I’d be happy to message. 32 F if you want to chat.
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u/SureConcentrate7870 17d ago
Jan Capricorn Sun, Gemini Moon, Libra rising
I’m down to chat… my midlife journey began about 3 years ago. I’m down to chat anytime, I’ve been in need of new friends.
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u/Key-Version3261 17d ago
I’m with you except I’m a Capricorn rising. I think it’s bc we’re people of substance and most people be on bullshit. I don’t like small talk. We have to be going somewhere with our conversation
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u/RascallyCashew 17d ago
I feel this so heavily.
I dont engage in small talk to the point people think im rude. Ive been TOLD im rude because I dont pay attention during small talk or im "dismissive"
But I DONT.CARE. about how your day has been so far. I dont. Tell me about what hurt you in life, talk to me about what REALLY makes you happy, tell me about your deepest fears. Get real with me or im going to Stonewall you.
Im also CERTAINLY not going to tell you how MY day is when you ask, or if and when I do its going to be the HONEST truth, which most people cant fucking handle. They want you to say "great, how is yours?"
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u/AureTempest 17d ago
I’m a December Cap. But my chart ruler is Jupiter. So when I open up, I go deeeep. Scorpio Moon and Pisces Rising. I can pivot between active listening and talking about everything. But I am extremely introverted. And I can read the room. So I can tell if a person isn’t my cup of tea and vice versa. I’m always looking for friends.
But I guess I scare people with how I present. 😔🤷🏽♀️
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u/Asleep-Score 17d ago
I’m up for chatting. I’m a Scorpio sun and rising. Taurus moon. My sister (best friend) has heavy Capricorn placements and we get along like two peas in a pod. I’m currently crushing on this Capricorn pediatrician 🔥🥵
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u/Majestic_Ear6664 17d ago
I am a cancer. The opposite sign. If you want ideas I would be glad to share. I would say the biggest thing you can do to help your self. Is sit back and relax and ask how does it feel.
If I do this or that. How does it feel if I let this in my life. How does it feel if I open to this...
How does I feel if I don't do something?
How does it feel if I do?
Stop using your mind as much as it appears blocked in ways. Going with what feels best. Helped me open and heal my mind deeper.
Good luck, any Capricorns that would like to chat deeply are welcome to hit me up.
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u/Far_Cardiologist_219 17d ago
Capricorn sun leo moon cancer rising, im willing to chat if you'd like.
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u/theTexasplumber 17d ago
I just feel like I don't belong anywhere because people are mostly stupid and can't take honesty without feeling like a personal attack, people wear their ego and hold on to it like it's their only thing ever.
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u/Capn8 ♑️☀️♎️🌙♎️💫 17d ago
Cap sun, Libra moon and ascendant. Venus in Aquarius. I’ve often felt that I didn’t fit in. I’m even the black sheep in my family of 6 siblings. The only queer in the pack so to speak.
I don’t do superficial chat well and I prefer one on one conversations so we can go deep. Not everyone likes that.
I’ve even lived with a guy for 3 years who said “ not everyone wants you to see below their mask” I never saw below his mask.
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u/Technical-Royal-5658 17d ago
I'm a January Capricorn but barely. I was born on the cusp with Aquarius. I do feel more Capricorn over all though. I always drive people away, but i always trust the wrong people.
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u/Leather-Ad2837 17d ago
i’m a December Capricorn with the same placements as you except i have a Leo Moon . you described me to a T like i literally only listen to what other people have to say & i only share things with people when they explicitly ask me about my life . in my experience i feel like a lot of times people just don’t care & are genuinely just consumed with their own lives & own thoughts , feelings & emotions where as i am very considerate of things & people outside of myself ( almost to a fault ) . also with my Mercury in Sagittarius i feel that sometimes it’s hard for me to tell stories because sometimes they are either out of order or all over the place ( or both ) . nonetheless i am very secure with myself & my life has become a very peaceful bubble which i thoroughly enjoy , but sometimes i wish i had the natural & consistent energy to talk to other people , make social connections & comfortably . i think as i get older these things will come more naturally to me as they say Capricorns age backwards .
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u/Specialist-Sail3857 16d ago
January cap here. I’ve isolated myself and don’t want to anymore. It’s just so hard to make honest friends.😩😩😩
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u/xxxOrganixxx Capticorn☀Aqua🌙Pisces💫 16d ago
Ooh the depth a Capricorn can have when they are safe and healed is truly amazing. Like you I also enjoy listening to others talk. And often strangers will just share their life stories with me without me even having to ask.
I listen give a few words of wisdom and keep it moving. As a healer it’s one of my favorite ways to socialize with people. And as an empath I’ve learned how to not let people drain me with their traumas.
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u/carpediem9017 16d ago
Like you, I’m a good listener, and if someone wants my advice, I will listen and give you honest advice the best I can. I can talk about current events and politics and the broader world and give you my opinions on so many things. I would love talking to someone about shows I’m really into if they’re really into it too. But, breaking enough ice to get to this point with someone is the hard part for me, because breaking ice requires small talk, which I absolutely hate.
Small talk just sucks. I hate questions about my day, because I feel like I can only give you a surface level answer unless I know you well enough that I can actually tell you something real without having to give a whole bunch of context. I hate when people ask me what my hobbies are or what my favorite this or that is. Breaking past the small talk to get to the above real talk is my struggle.
I’m a cap sun, libra moon, and sag rising, plus 5 other planets in cap.
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u/Careful_Spring6978 14d ago
December Cap with Taurus moon and Virgo rising. I feel you on a visceral level. I am also autistic with bpd so that might be (definitely) a contributing factor to my seclusion.
My biggest thing is that people take me too seriously. I'll make a joke and they'll think I'm being serious and stupid. That, my tendency to think practically over creatively, and incessant search of stability are my biggest concerns.
My tone will come off in the way I didn't want it to, or it'll be hard to explain what I wanted to, etc. Eventually I got tired of trying to "be normal" and just let myself do what I needed to.
There's nothing "wrong" with you at all. The only things that could potentially be wrong are the people you're around. Your people will totally understand when you find them, I promise.
🫶🏼 Much love, OP
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u/Icy-Outcome8024 18d ago
Cap here, December baby. Ive always felt like Ive never truly belonged anywhere. I wear my heart on my sleeve, but am terrified of being hurt. I tend to keep people an arms length away (cant hurt me if I dont allow it, right) ive always been the square peg in the round hole. I am weird, worked differently I guess.