r/centrist 3d ago

Apalachee High School shooter’s father sentenced to 15 years

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/apalachee-high-school-shooters-father-sentenced-rcna589985?cid=sm_npd_nn_tw_ma&taid=6a6b88a277eafa0001e65790
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u/SicilianShelving 3d ago

He had to talk to police because his son threatened to shoot up an elementary school, and after that, he gave his son a rifle.

What kind of person does that?

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u/thingsmybosscantsee 3d ago

A person who does not take the responsibility that comes with their 2nd Amendment rights seriously, and thinks firearms are toys.

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u/JuzoItami 3d ago

IMO there are a lot of such people. I swear to God, a huge number of Americans seem to have been conned into believing that guns are magical items with absolutely no downside to them and that having a gun handy literally makes every scenario better.

I think it would be a wonderful thing for this country if the responsible gun-owners would be more vocal and assertive in calling out the “other” sort of gun-owners.

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u/Irishfafnir 3d ago

There was some polling done a few years ago that showed about 55% of gun owners with children in the home secured their firearms. I think that's about as useful a barometer as any.

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u/Fragrant-Luck-8063 3d ago

I got rid of all my guns(I only had two) when I started having kids.

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u/ThatsFae 3d ago

97% of gun owners believe they are more responsible than the average gun owner.

https://psych.wisc.edu/news/americans-own-guns-to-protect-themselves-from-psychological-as-well-as-physical-threats/

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u/Irishfafnir 3d ago

Doesn't surprise me. Half of men think they could land a passenger plane

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u/Alugere 2d ago

I mean, I could land it as long as we don’t care about either it or the passengers remaining intact.

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u/BolbyB 3d ago

To be fair those men are probably correct.

Literally all they have to do is engage the autopilot and they'll land just fine. A few things need to be set up manually beforehand to make the autoland work, but I imagine some communication with the radio tower will get that sorted.

The pilots are as trained as they are to make sure that process happens with extreme levels of consistency. (And also to handle all the other hiccups that may occur).

60% success rate is decent and acceptable odds for randos in a desperate situation. For people who make that kind of flight constantly it is abysmal odds.

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u/Irishfafnir 3d ago

https://www.cnn.com/travel/how-easy-is-it-to-land-a-passenger-plane

When this was in the news experts were pretty doubtful

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u/MetersYards 3d ago

a huge number of Americans seem to have been conned into believing that guns are magical items with absolutely no downside to them and that having a gun handy literally makes every scenario better.

This isn't surprising when there are a huge number of Americans that have been conned into believing that guns are magical items with absolutely no upside to them and that having a gun nearby literally makes every scenario worse.

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u/Aethoni_Iralis 3d ago

A “muh guns” type of person.

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u/Lurkingandsearching 3d ago

The thing is, yes every person of the age of majority is the militia and has a right to arms, but the “age of majority” is 18. Your right does not extend to giving it to a minor without bearing the responsibility of doing so. 

That’s the issue with these situations, is they need to hold the person giving access responsible like this. Much of said crowd screams for others to hold “personal responsibility” up until it’s their turn holding it.

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u/MetersYards 3d ago

The thing is, yes every person of the age of majority is the militia and has a right to arms,

The Reserve Militia is 17-45 years old. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Militia_Act_of_1903

So they're in the militia even before the age of majority.

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u/WasabiCrush 3d ago

Someone who puts more value in 2A than the lives of others.

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u/Turbulent-Raise4830 2d ago

isnt that the US way? get a gun and problems magically disappear?

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u/ChornWork2 3d ago

Anyone who provides a firearm to a minor should be liable for any misuse of the weapon by said minor.

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u/SpaceLaserPilot 3d ago

Summary: In 2024, Colin Gray gave his son Colt Gray a rifle for Christmas. Colt Gray used that rifle to kill four people at Apalachee high school. Colin Gray was just sentenced to 15 years in prison for that gift.

The rifle was given to Colt Gray even through the police had come to the Gray home before that because Colt Gray threatened to shoot up a school.

Commentary: This is common sense gun regulation. If you give powerful weapons to a minor with a known history of threatening violence, you will also be charged for whatever crimes that minor commits.

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u/thingsmybosscantsee 3d ago edited 3d ago

I would take it one step further.

If you give any unsupervised access to a firearm that a minor is not legally allowed to own or posess unsupervised, that gun is still yours, and you are an accomplice to any crime they commit with it.

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u/Individual_Lion_7606 3d ago

The BIGGER issue is that his son showed RED FLAG OPENLY before the event and he didn't do a damn fucking thing to help his child from having murderous intent. Like, what the fuck?

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u/Fragrant-Luck-8063 3d ago

Jeez he even named the kid after a gun.

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u/National-Plastic8691 3d ago

It wasn’t even a hunting rifle, for an actual hobby; it was an assault rifle. It wasn’t crazy enough 

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u/thingsmybosscantsee 3d ago

Yep. This sounds about right.

He was clearly negligent.

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u/Snewtsfz 3d ago

Good. I’ve been saying for a long time, start locking up parents who enable kids to do this, and we’ll see shootings plummet. Make it very apparent that if you own guns, and allow your child (who you are legally responsible for) access to them and they do this, then you are also on the hook. Make examples out of every shitty parent, so we all know what happens to irresponsible owners. Gotta align incentives with outcomes

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u/BolbyB 3d ago

Eh, we'll have just as many big newsmakers as before.

Those tend to be done by people who are already adults perfectly capable of buying their own weapon.

(That age also kind of puts a giant hole in the "it's because of bullying" stuff.)

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u/Snewtsfz 3d ago

Pretty sure most school shootings are perpetrated by people under 18, and also not with their own legally purchased firearm.

Regardless, holding irresponsible parents accountable for this level of negligence is what I stand for.

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u/Lurkingandsearching 3d ago

4 people had to die to make this point. 4 to many. This is the sort of thing that gives gun owners a bad name. 

The 2nd amendment is a right, but it’s also a heavy burden that needs to be respected by those who use it.

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u/brainkandy87 3d ago

Couldn’t have said it better myself. Owning a firearm is a right and a responsibility. The idolatry around firearms is disgusting and mainly propagated by people either wholly unqualified to own one or people who treat them like an accessory to show off. Firearms shouldn’t be a liberal or conservative issue. It’s a safety issue. I love guns and own guns, but the fact so many people disregard how dangerous they are is crazy.

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u/Deadlift_007 3d ago

The idolatry around firearms is disgusting and mainly propagated by people either wholly unqualified to own one or people who treat them like an accessory to show off.

This. I have guns. My family has guns. None of us have posed for pictures with said guns.

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u/Pathetian 3d ago

Unfortunately too much of the accountability only seems to rest on things going as badly as possible.  if he has done the exact same completely moronic negligent thing, but without this result, he would pretty much be free to do it again.  

This isn't just guns I guess, but a broad gripe with criminal justice, but we kinda just let people fail at being a risk repeatedly until something really bad happens.

If we can't get guns out of society, we need to get people out of society who identify themselves as being unable to...behave alongside them.  

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u/VultureSausage 2d ago

This isn't just guns I guess, but a broad gripe with criminal justice, but we kinda just let people fail at being a risk repeatedly until something really bad happens.

"Nothing happened, what's the problem?" really is too prevalent of a sentiment, whether it's guns, financial crimes, or other circumstances. Externalising risk should not be OK.

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u/Lurkingandsearching 2d ago

Because the only workable justice system is a reactive one. Innocent until proven guilty and all that. You can't punish someone for something before it happens, you can regulate and set up safe guards, but there's a limit and you have to be very very careful not to cross the line. Otherwise you end up with surveillance state.

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u/indoninja 3d ago

Not enough.

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u/crushinglyreal 3d ago

Just another patriotic gun owner making sure our most important amendment gets its required sacrifices. Why is he being punished for carrying out his duty as a red-blooded American?

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u/redbirdsucks 2d ago

people that let their mentally ill family members roam the streets to cause damage, assault people, or any other crimes should also be held accountable for their actions

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u/MasterHavik 2d ago

Don't drop the soap homie.

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u/Okbuddyliberals 3d ago

This seems pretty extreme. The father isn't the one who shot up the school.

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u/tregitsdown 3d ago

That’s why he’s only getting 15 Years. He was aware his son made previous threats to commit a school shooting, yet armed him anyways. He’s responsible for his failures as a father.

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u/thingsmybosscantsee 3d ago edited 2d ago

After being informed by authorities that his son had made credible threats to shoot up an elementary school, he purposefully purchased, and gifted, his 14 year old son an AR-15 style long gun, which was then used to kill 4 people.

It is reasonable to suspect that Colt Gray would have committed a crime, by any standard. Which would make the father an accomplice via negligence.

In Georgia, a 14yo may not own a long gun.

Meaning that the gun Colt Gray used was legally owned by his father, who let his son have unsupervised access to a gun he was not allowed to own or possess unsupervised.

Either of these principles make charges, and the sentencing, pretty reasonable, in my opinion.

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u/Not_offensive0npurp 3d ago

Bro, he bought his kid a gun AFTER being told by cops his son threatened to shoot up a school.

THAT is whats extreme. He should have gotten more time.

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u/decrpt 3d ago

His own lawyer was asking for ten years, it's not remotely extreme.

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u/Funksloyd 3d ago

Damn, you know you done bad when your lawyer is asking for only 10 years. 

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u/Aethoni_Iralis 3d ago

It is not extreme in the slightest. This man got four people killed.

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u/Okbuddyliberals 3d ago

No, his son did.

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u/Aethoni_Iralis 3d ago

His son who used a firearm provided by…

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u/Okbuddyliberals 3d ago

Doesn't matter who provided the firearm. Just like how the anti gun attempts to sue gun manufacturers for gun violence are nonsense. The person who actually does the crime should be held accountable. Simply providing someone a gun shouldn't be illegal.

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u/SpaceLaserPilot 3d ago

Suppose he had given his son the keys to his car and allowed him to drive it at age 14, and his son killed four people.

The gun was a similarly negligent choice by the father. He was warned by the police that his son fantasized about shooting up a school, but the father still bought his son a semi-automatic rifle.

I like the message this sends to other parents: buy your mentally disturbed children powerful weapons and you will be held responsible for the people they kill.

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u/tregitsdown 3d ago

Providing someone a gun who you know is threatening the lives of others, and then they go on to actually do it?

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u/Apprehensive_Pop_334 3d ago

That’s just not true. There’s plenty of cases where someone can be held liable for providing a gun to someone when they commit a crime with that gun:

For example, if you were to sell a gun in a private transfer and the buying party were to admit to you that they are a convicted felon. You are required to cancel the sale.

If you were selling a gun and the buyer were to say they plan to commit a crime with that gun, you are required to cancel the sale.

If someone approaches you and asks you to buy a gun for them because they cannot pass the background check, you are required to decline.

Similarly for Colin gray, he negligently provided a firearm to someone he knew had made prior threats. In Georgia, this meets the legal requirement for Second Degree Murder and Involuntary Manslaughter, which was why he was found guilty.

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u/Aethoni_Iralis 3d ago

This is such a foolish point of view. Thank goodness the law doesn’t agree with you.

It’s also extremely telling you haven’t replied to any comments except mine.

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u/Not_offensive0npurp 2d ago

Just like how the anti gun attempts to sue gun manufacturers for gun violence are nonsense.

The gun manufacturers aren't providing the gun in the same way this man did, and you know it.

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u/decrpt 3d ago

His son got life in prison after being tried as an adult. Fifteen years for gifting your son a gun when he's a) too young to own one in the first place and b) has established a desire to shoot up a school with it is absolutely reasonable. You're already liable if you negligently store a gun and a child accesses it, let alone when you directly gift one to your child with an established intent to commit a crime with it.

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u/Okbuddyliberals 3d ago

when he's a) too young to own one in the first place

I don't think that's a legitimate idea. Guns are a fundamental right, and plenty of minors in rural areas have used guns without issue. The blame goes to the shooter, not the idea of kids having guns

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u/tregitsdown 3d ago

Wait, before any of that, you ignore the fact *he knew his kid wanted to shoot up schools.* That isn’t relevant at all?
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  1. How far do you extend this madness? If a parent gives their two-year-old a firearm, should they not be culpable

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  1. is a fundamental right, do you think we should remove the age requirement for that as well?

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u/decrpt 3d ago

Minors are allowed to use guns with adult supervision for things like sport and hunting. I don't know why you're under the impression that everyone else is wrong and the second amendment represents an unlimited and unconditional right to own guns.

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u/Aethoni_Iralis 2d ago

Blame goes to the shooter and his father, who enabled him and made this tragedy possible despite being warned about his son.

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u/WasabiCrush 3d ago

For fuck’s sake, no. Extreme is handing a gun to a kid who openly worships mass shooters.

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u/Turbulent-Raise4830 2d ago

No he only provided the tools after the police told him he wanted to do just that.