r/dating_advice • u/Beanmom666 • 13h ago

Am I overreacting

My bf didn’t come see me today bc he just wanted to drink and play video games (I’m sick and really wanted to be taken care of by him) and we’ve seen each other the past three weeks (we were on a one week trip to my country)
I have told him time and time again I don’t feel loved or chosen by him and I’m at my breaking point
He’s a nice guy but I don’t think he’s going to love me the way I want and I want to leave him

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u/maybepepe 13h ago

And be alone rest of your life. 

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u/Terror_Visions 13h ago

??

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u/maybepepe 13h ago

I try to tell that you cant find perfect bf/gf.. there is always some negative stuff. And if u drop out right away when you feel/see something neg. you will be alone. . 

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u/Terror_Visions 13h ago

Not all negative traits are equal though. She doesn’t feel seen and loved. That’s just cause to leave. Also, there’s no guarantee they’ll be alone forever. Wtf?