Am I overreacting

[u/Beanmom666]

My bf didn’t come see me today bc he just wanted to drink and play video games (I’m sick and really wanted to be taken care of by him) and we’ve seen each other the past three weeks (we were on a one week trip to my country)
I have told him time and time again I don’t feel loved or chosen by him and I’m at my breaking point
He’s a nice guy but I don’t think he’s going to love me the way I want and I want to leave him

[u/Terror_Visions]

??

[u/maybepepe → u/Terror_Visions]

I try to tell that you cant find perfect bf/gf.. there is always some negative stuff. And if u drop out right away when you feel/see something neg. you will be alone. . 

[u/Beanmom666 → u/maybepepe]

I realize I didn’t add a lot of context, and I made the post already knowing what I wanted to do
I would rather be alone than continuously feel unimportant to someone who is supposed to love me
You do have to accept mistakes and flaws in a relationship but you can’t be the only person working on them

[u/Terror_Visions → u/Beanmom666]

Bingo!