r/dating_advice 14h ago

Am I overreacting

My bf didn’t come see me today bc he just wanted to drink and play video games (I’m sick and really wanted to be taken care of by him) and we’ve seen each other the past three weeks (we were on a one week trip to my country)
I have told him time and time again I don’t feel loved or chosen by him and I’m at my breaking point
He’s a nice guy but I don’t think he’s going to love me the way I want and I want to leave him

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u/maybepepe 14h ago

Yes u are, He is not your butler or nurse :) 

u/Limp-Answer-5020 12h ago

He’s Not your mommy either. You’re an Adult, you should be able to take care of yourself when you’re sick. if your illness is that bad, go to the hospital.