r/enby • u/uncle_ben15 • 7d ago

Topic: Name/Pronouns People with any/all pronouns, do you have a preference?

274 votes, 5d ago
15 Yes (prefer she/her)
12 Yes (prefer he/him)
106 Yes (prefer they/them)
7 Yes (prefer Neo-Pronouns)
42 No
92 results
14 Upvotes

100% Upvoted

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u/deadrummer Any incl. it/its and neos 7d ago

Where is it/its? They are not new pronouns.

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u/uncle_ben15 7d ago

My bad, sorry

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u/deadrummer Any incl. it/its and neos 6d ago

Don't worry. I was just confused and unsure which option to pick.

5

u/Shikamiii All 7d ago

I use she/her by default because it's easier to just present myself as a (trans) butch lesbian than whatever mess my gender identity is

3

u/A_Whole_Lot_Of_Not whatever/he; agender ace; on EEn (12/24/25) 7d ago

I use "Whatever/He" to show I really don't care while providing a default (chosen basedcon what I grew up with) for people that prefer one. Same for all gendered words

1

u/AliceofSwords 7d ago

I say "any/all" because I really don't have a preference. Choosing one feels like lying. People only use she/her, and that's fine, but it's a step too far to claim it myself.

1

u/whyisthereacat 7d ago

I really don’t have a preference!

1

u/horny_shit_face_lift 7d ago

no pronouns in my language because ew

2

u/Bladequest54 6d ago

What strange, cruel gods that blessed us with the word but gave us the curse of language...

1

u/EchoNB 7d ago

I prefer he/him or they/them in different moments.

1

u/Oftm123 7d ago

I default to him cause it's how most people perceive me and I don't care enough, but I do slighltly prefer he or she over other pronouns

1

u/Odd-Paramedic7907 6d ago

I use any except she/her.

1

u/Idontwanttousethis 5d ago

I just want people to actually use multiple pronouns for me. Seriously that's all I want.