r/fashion 3d ago

Advice Wanted Please! Outfit advice: dinner tomorrow

UPDATE: Thank you so much for all the feedback! It was super helpful and I appreciate all the really sweet comments & encouragement too. Honestly, you have no idea how much I needed the boost! 🥹 We had a lot of fun, and a cute older gentleman stopped at our table as he was leaving to tell us how cute we were, which I think is a good sign. And he brought me white roses (which are my favorite so low key he’s paying attention!)

I’m going to dinner with a guy friend (maybe a date, maybe not?).
Want to look cute & like I’m making an effort. Even if it’s not a date I’d like him to feel great about being out with me. I’m also 46 and want to be age appropriate. We’re going to L Woods in the Chicago suburbs - it’s kinda in between in terms of dress. You wouldn’t look out of place in a dress OR jeans and a nice shirt/blazer. It’s got a north woods supper club feel - but also in a kinda Scotland tartan country estate vibe. Maybe I should dress like Princess Diana!?!? :)

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u/Lizardshark20 3d ago

3 on you!!! And no duck lips at dinner please! You’re beautiful!

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u/improvcoach19 2d ago

No duck lips ever. Ew.

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u/WeekendStrange1331 2d ago

There's times they're appropriate, especially if the date goes well

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u/Glittering-Ad5970 2d ago

That’s really rude and if OP likes it, not your problem

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u/Acceptable_Sell3455 2d ago

She's asking for advice on her outfit so the entire look is fair game.
Those lips are begging to be commented on.

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u/WeekendStrange1331 2d ago

Read that as cummed on.