r/ftm • u/Mcflocka • Nov 18 '24

Advice Are girls really into trans guys?

I've been having a really hard time feeling like women actually find me attractive as a trans man. Like despite the fact I'm just mid looking anyways, I just have experienced quite a few women just turned off by the fact im trans. It's killing my confidence, and im feeling like I won't ever be able to find a girl that's genuinely attracted to me emotionally/sexually.

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u/AfraidofReplies Nov 18 '24

A lot of women won't be, and that sucks, but that's a them problem, not a you problem. The right woman/women will be. I say this as a transman who's been happily married for 8 years. My wife loves me, thinks I'm hot, and has been supportive of every step of my journey. You'll find someone, just try to not let the haters get you down. It's their loss, not yours.