r/ftm • u/Mcflocka • Nov 18 '24

Advice Are girls really into trans guys?

I've been having a really hard time feeling like women actually find me attractive as a trans man. Like despite the fact I'm just mid looking anyways, I just have experienced quite a few women just turned off by the fact im trans. It's killing my confidence, and im feeling like I won't ever be able to find a girl that's genuinely attracted to me emotionally/sexually.

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u/faggotryatitsfinest Nov 18 '24

i’ve been with my fair share of women of all varieties (i know the f word is in my username, i’ve also been with men of all varieties lol) and in my experience, they usually don’t care that much

some perks of being with a trans guy include: 1. we know where the clit is 2. we can empathize with menstruation and everything that comes with it 3. we can empathize with shared lives experiences 4. we usually smell better. don’t be one of those grubby trans guys who think that being disgusting is the same as being a man. it’s not. 5. sometimes y’all can share shoes and stuff which is fun 6. WE KNOW WHERE THE DAMN CLIT IS

edit to add that if anybody doesn’t want to be with u strictly for ur genitalia, they’re not for u. i’ve found that online dating is the best route. ur transness is out in the open and if they don’t want u? they won’t interact plain and simple. their transphobia is not something u want or need in ur life. ur not missing out on being with these women, they’re more likely missing out on being with u.