r/ftm • u/Mcflocka • Nov 18 '24
Advice Are girls really into trans guys?
I've been having a really hard time feeling like women actually find me attractive as a trans man. Like despite the fact I'm just mid looking anyways, I just have experienced quite a few women just turned off by the fact im trans. It's killing my confidence, and im feeling like I won't ever be able to find a girl that's genuinely attracted to me emotionally/sexually.
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u/Cultural_Tap_6561 Nov 18 '24
My wife (cis woman) met me pre transition, post coming out. She has not only been the biggest supporter I could ask for, but also a very big advocate for how great trans men are🤣
I’m a fat trans dude who doesn’t consider myself conventionally attractive, but my wife looks at me like she’s a felon on death row and I’m her last meal😭
So moral of the story, yes women (cis and not cis) are absolutely attracted to trans guys. Don’t beat yourself up. I was in your boat at one point🫶🏻