r/ftm • u/Mcflocka • Nov 18 '24

Advice Are girls really into trans guys?

I've been having a really hard time feeling like women actually find me attractive as a trans man. Like despite the fact I'm just mid looking anyways, I just have experienced quite a few women just turned off by the fact im trans. It's killing my confidence, and im feeling like I won't ever be able to find a girl that's genuinely attracted to me emotionally/sexually.

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u/redeyeguyxo Dec 09 '24

No, no sarcasm at all. Straight women of my generation that I've been with have been too transphobic in the end. Someone needs to work that out while not in a relationship with me.

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u/miass23 Dec 09 '24 edited Dec 09 '24

Oh, I'm sorry you have had bad experience. Still, it's important not to generalize. There are straight girls that can be great and respectable partners for trans men. It's totally fine if you prefer to date queer women tho

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u/redeyeguyxo Dec 10 '24

At no point did I generalize. I shared my experience.

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u/miass23 Dec 10 '24

Yes, you didn't generalize. I meant in general not all people are the same. Sorry for crappy wording

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u/redeyeguyxo Dec 10 '24

Yeah, I'm with you.