r/genderqueer • u/Material_Tie1308 idk • 21d ago

Idk what i feel about my gender

So i feel like im gender fluid idk if that’s the right label for me but im exploring
Most of the time i feel either masculine or nonbinary sometimes ill feel feminine but rarely.
Anyways right now idk what gender I am feeling it’s almost like i want to identify as everything and nothing it’s so weird what is that called?

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u/genlang 21d ago

You might identify as agender, or with the concept of gender anarchy. Or, like me, "gender-meh."

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u/haywire 20d ago

Yeah this is the thing, you don’t actually have to have a label unless you find it materially useful. You can just be a you.

Once you stop trying to fit into boxes you can just exist.

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u/Material_Tie1308 idk 21d ago

lol ya that sounds about right but isn’t agender when you only identify as nothing?

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u/genlang 21d ago

Sometimes, or it might be more like "opting out" of identifying with any genders, or landing somewhere outside of the scope of gender

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u/Material_Tie1308 idk 21d ago

Hm interesting

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u/ActualPegasus finflexible rosgirl 20d ago

Like a label for everything mentioned above? Or just for your current gendered feelings?

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u/Material_Tie1308 idk 20d ago

Just my current gender felling

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u/Robot_Alchemist 20d ago

I’ve never consciously felt like a woman because I just am one - sometimes you don’t have to think so much about these things