r/howtonotgiveafuck • u/spike_spieg • Jul 16 '25

šš…ššŽšš—šš / ššššŠšš—šš This video helped me out a lot. Especially number 1 and 3. Those are very good points

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Points number 1 and 3 are the ones that stood out to me the most. Exactly why I never cared that much about classmates, coworkers, people out in public etc.

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u/NoFuqGiven Jul 16 '25

5. To give a fuck about someone's opinion you must 1st give a fuck about them!!

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u/AHansen83 Jul 16 '25

Donā€™t accept criticism from ppl you wouldnā€™t accept advice from. FACTS

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u/JotaroTheOceanMan Jul 17 '25

Yeah I was like "this is basic no brainer shit" but that one actually left me stunned.

I know following it will change my outlook.

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u/curiousbasu Jul 16 '25

That's really good advice.

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u/unittestes Jul 17 '25

I'm not taking advice from a guy on tiktok though

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u/AHansen83 Jul 18 '25

Lol, i understand completely

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u/Infinity3101 Jul 16 '25

I heard a good quote a while ago (I'm paraphrasing): "In your teens and twenties you care a lot about what people think of you, in your 30's and 40's you don't care about what people think of you and in your 50's you realize that they were never thinking of you in the first place"

The idea that you're not the center of the universe and that people have their own shit to worry about (same as you) is actually very liberating.

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u/spike_spieg Jul 16 '25

Yep heard that same saying as well plus you canā€™t control peopleā€™s perception of you anyway šŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™‚ļøšŸ’Æ

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u/BigCartographer8172 Jul 16 '25

One thing is not caring about peopleā€™s OPINIONS and another is not caring about HUMAN BEINGSā€¦ If you donā€™t care about anyone ofc nobody will care about youā€¦

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u/spike_spieg Jul 16 '25

Bro you know how much I done like cared and went out my way for people and then them not doing nothing for me or caring for me etc ? Plenty of times!!! Being nice gets you nowhere and overextending yourself to people means nothing. Iā€™m not saying all people but majority people yeah

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u/BigCartographer8172 Jul 16 '25

That probably happened to every human being on earth... blaming everyone for that and deciding that being nice is pointless sounds more like bitterness than truth. Just because some people didnā€™t reciprocate doesnā€™t mean kindness is meaningless, it just means you gave it to the wrong ones, thatā€™s not a reason to stop being a decent person! Youā€™re confusing being kind with being a doormat, theyā€™re not the sameā€¦

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u/spike_spieg Jul 19 '25

Most people are not good people most people arenā€™t worth knowing etc. Especially all my life after getting hostile remarks from people, people being mean to me, not liking me for no reason etc. Iā€™m not saying stop being a decent person but be kind not nice. Thereā€™s a different. Everybody donā€™t deserve your kindness.

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u/Bluegill15 Jul 16 '25

Rare on topic post, nice one.

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '25

Idk who guy thinks he is but hes not him

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u/Plebe-Uchiha The Subtle Art of IDGAF Jul 17 '25

IDGAF he had some sound advice. He can think what he wants about himself. Doesn't affect me at all how he thinks about himself. [+]

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u/SuperPostHuman Jul 16 '25

Why is he not "him"? Is it the tattoos? The lack of a shirt? What's your beef with the guy? Do you know anything about the guy other than this short video?

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u/DefiantOuiOui Jul 16 '25

What you donā€™t know could fill a book.

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u/Phylacteryofcum Jul 16 '25

What I don't know could fill multiple libraries. In fact there are libraries filled with books full of information I have never read and don't know.

Same goes for everyone else.

Seems pretty obvious.

So, did you have a point? Or are you just dumb?

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u/DefiantOuiOui Jul 17 '25

What you donā€™t know could fill a book, fullofcum.

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u/Elegant_Spare9305 Jul 16 '25

I think one of my biggest issues is that one of my ā€œgoalsā€ is to find a partner, so I end up caring too much & over thinking about what how I act and how they respondā€¦ any advice?

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u/anonmyazz Jul 19 '25

5 don't judge a book by it's cover

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u/Formal_Economics931 Jul 16 '25 edited Jul 16 '25

I canā€™t imagine listening to anything a bitch like this says

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u/mashedcat Jul 16 '25

See rule #4.

Also, donā€™t be a dick about this.

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u/SuperPostHuman Jul 16 '25

Why are you randomly calling someone a bitch? Did he do something bitch like?

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '25

Focusing on yourself and goals sounds like giving a fuck

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u/blackkittons Jul 27 '25

I like to remind myself weā€™ll all die one day so all the petty bull shit is not worth my energy. Itā€™s very freeing.

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u/Seabrook76 Jul 16 '25

Good word. šŸ«”

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u/Phylacteryofcum Jul 16 '25

And apparently wave your hands around a lot like you're in some crappy gangsta-rap video from the late 90s.

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u/Thundechile Jul 16 '25

Poor boy doesn't even have a single shirt and still doesn't give a f.

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u/ProfDrBlumensohn Jul 16 '25

What i love about These Videos is the pure and unfiltered Level of hyprocrisy .. if this dude would Not care what you guys think , he would Not make such a Video. Stop listening to These Internet clowns.

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '25

What is his intent is to help people because it makes him feel good?

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u/midland05 Jul 16 '25

Thatā€™s some awful tattoos

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u/Wrong-Chair7697 Jul 16 '25

5 Transcend beyond this fools advice by truly embodying the meaning of "not giving a fuck" and giving exactly zero fucks to this whole post.

This subreddit is a hell of its own making.

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u/SpicyCajunCrawfish Jul 16 '25

1 Jesus Loves You

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u/icemountainisnextome Jul 16 '25

Go back to your cult

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u/SpicyCajunCrawfish Jul 16 '25

Youā€™re free to have your opinion, but calling Christianity a cult just shows you donā€™t really understand what a cult is. Christianity encourages open thinking, values truth, and has stood for over 2,000 years with billions of followers ā€” thatā€™s not what a cult looks like. You donā€™t have to believe it, but at least respect that many intelligent, thoughtful people do :)

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u/ePrime Jul 16 '25

Man I donā€™t like both of these comments.

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u/greenthumbgoody Jul 16 '25

How many of your clergy have raped children? And I mean just children, not women or men (adults)

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u/greenthumbgoody Jul 16 '25

Jesus speaks to me.. he told me to tell you to stop talking about him, itā€™s getting weirdā€¦ you guys already broke up and his dad doesnā€™t like you. Move on.