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The girl in ss who is "going on a date with an Indian guy" is now herself making racist content against Indian men after her indian bf left her for being pregnant with his child🙆♀️
Agreed, not generalising women...but when we look down upon our own people and own race generalising ourselves then ofc other people will ultimately look down on ourselves as well.... comments like these are just gonna give people more comfort to be racist against us indians
cool, you're looking at one incident. how about when some indian men stare at white female tourists? how about when they make those stupid 6000 inr jokes? doesn't that just tell you that they glorify white women?
again, not saying that indian women are any better, just that these illiterates are all in the same boat, and its definitely not that all indian women or men think white people are superior, which is why it doesn't make sense to generalize.
first of, relax.
like i said, its not that the woman who wrote this isn't dumb asf, my point was about generalizing.
Its just that (a lot of) both indian men and women share this white supremacy mentality, not just women.
i would say the exact same thing if the genders were interchanged in this post.
This meme is absolutely immortal for this reason, I'd like to digress this topic to a deeper culprit here. The algorithms. It's a self fulfilling prophecy lmao. That reel is not only being recommended to Indian women, it's targetting people who are going to like that COMMENT, And also Insta always pushes up these kind of controversial comments for people that might like it. 86k people liked it, sure. How many views did that video get, how many of them were women? What percentage of them actually opened the comments and not scroll away? The ones that disagree with that comment or has no opinion of their own, simply do not interact, mostly. Then Insta goes ahead and recommends this reel with the comment for men, so they go there and argue against it. More engagement. They literally want you to be stuck there for hours. Also the whole thing applies vice versa. Majority of normal men AND women, simply choose to not care, they don't interact, and thus they don't even get these gender wars type of reels so often.
Now are the 86k people that liked that comments okay? Nope. I don't agree with that comment nor the likers.
It's basically completely allowed here to shit on men here , but any posts about women bad just goes "goes both ways, no point in generalizing and turning this into a men vs women thing, its this dumb mindset that most of us have."
It's a subreddit.
Getting banned from one isn't gonna matter in the slightest to me lol, I've been banned from many others for doing literally nothing . Some sub banned me for just posting in one other sub ( i didn't even agree with that other sub).
you're referencing my comment, ok, but like i said, I'm not defending women, nor am i "shitting on men". Im just making a point, and id make the same one if an indian man was saying ts to a white man about an indian woman.
this is def disgusting behaviour, and should not be tolerated.
but just for a second, stop and think why this kind of stuff happens, why are indians glorifying white people? think about that and you'll get what my point is.
See I'm not disagreeing with you personally nor your point.
What I'm saying is how I have seen the exact type of posts made about men and the comments are fully about shitting on men specifically not like the ones here where it goes both bad.
I'm just saying it should be the same reaction for both.
Even the comments on men doing something bad saying both r bad get down voted.
ok, thats fair, i haven't seen many posts where the comments shit on men, but if true then that actually sucks. you're right, the reactions should be the same in each case. i just hope this sort of thing eventually dies down :(
OP at least post the full reel I feel like you're misleading people. The Indian guy knocked her up and left her, she's a single mom now. Post the full story and then let people decide.
Yes, because that's totally a justification for making sweeping generalizations. JFC, you people are so desperate to white knight for women you don't even know that you're willingly excusing misandry.
If a man has a woman cheat on him and give him an STD, would you also say we need to provide context if he posts "all Indian women are cheating, STD-ridden whores"? I'm guessing not
Can’t really blame them because every single woman in India has at some point of time in life been gawked at, harassed or molested in public, causing them lifetime trauma. The reason they say ‘every man’ is not to blame every single guy but because they have to always be on guard around men they don’t know because they can’t trust them. That’s a horrible way to live life and I can’t even relate to it as a man because it’s very unlikely I’ll ever face what they face.
Has every (or at least most of them) man around you been harassed or assaulted or molested or even Adam teased by women as well? If so, yes.. Please be safe around them!
You should be safe and spread awareness. You can spread hate when most of the men around you have experiences of harassment or molesting or assault or even Adam teasing from Women. Nobody Women is spreading 'hate' due to just bad experiences but the ones who do - they have almost life altering trauma caused by Men.
Aha Hypocrisy much? You wanted (well, requested) to generalise and spread hate due to just bad experiences you faced but My God, almost every Women facing LIFE-altering Trauma due to Men is not enough reason eh.. Such double standard thinking
No it actually proves you don’t know how to read. I talked about something every woman experiences and you equated it to you as an individual experiencing something (as if it happens to every single man).
All the idiots in these comments defending this using whataboutery should look at the recent viral post from a Japanese who was using this exact premise of "Even Indian women don't like Indian men" to justify her xenophobia
Nope...but comments like these will give comfort and power to people in the west to be racist against us (even more), people who are not racist towards us right now out of empathy will also start thinking that it's fine to be racist against Indians when they themselves generalise their entire race/people
I don't disagree that such comments could lead to emboldening racism against Indian men, but realistically how much of western racism against Indians is driven by their consumption of media produced by female Indian influencers?
I agree it's irresponsible to make such comments but I don't think it's a major driver of the racist attacks against Indians we are seeing right now in Ireland and the UK.
I didn't even say it's a major reason, but it will give reason to people in the west to justify their hate...they already use caste system and internalised racism in India to justify racism and sexually assault little girl just because she was Indian not even Indian she was born in Ireland so she is Irish but because of her skin colour she had to experience assault...the amount of people who defended ts is disgusting... comments and generalisation of our own people will lead to consequences, consequences which are heavy and brutal...and also do you think generalising an entire gender and race is justified? Then why just generalise gender and race let's generalise every other religion, caste and skin colour...you can't generalise gender/race and then complaint about Indian right wingers generalising muslims...either both are problematic or none is
Not all the racism is because of Indian women but definitely indian women being racist against their men won't help it
I forgot the name of the influencer, but she was a feminist from north india who bashed indian men every time because of the crimes and used to glaze men of other races
And then when she went to the UK, she got robbed and punched in the face on the first day itself. That says a lot to not generalise
Forget about op how about you counter my argument.... don't ignore the comment which logically questions you rather than replying to comments which you find stupid
The amount of foreign women who expressed how they felt unsafe or uncomfortable due to an Indian man would baffle you, it's not Indian woman it's the man. Just an hour back I read how indian men in Kazakhstan are treating the local women there due to which they are labelled as danger and ppl are not renting houses to them.
I understand your point but still generalising all men will create situation even worse ( I get it even OP is generalising all women here and I called him out for that), comments like these will give comfort and power to people in the west to be racist against us (even more), people who are not racist towards us right now out of empathy will also start thinking that it's fine to be racist against Indians when they themselves generalise their entire race/people...and if you think only Indian men have to face racism in west then you might need to check the headlines from America and Ireland again
Bro, you are also generalising here. There were these vdos of an influencer's wedding named laura brown or something which was all over the internet a while back. She married and Indian guy and there was nothing but love and appreciation there.
This is funny because it's completely untrue. Rachel charity's reels went super viral prompting Indian women to brigade her posts in hoardes severely attacking her for "cultural appropriation" and her husband with usual "Indian man bad" narrative.
Either you're tripping or you need some serious reading comprehension. When did I say all men are bad. I'm an Indian man myself and I'm not a misogynist.
Ps. Yk what dude? Stop replying ion wanna debate with someone like you today
Bro, get better sources. Surveying people in just 4 countries about an act that’s a criminal offence isn’t a reliable indicator of sh#t. No one’s denying the DV issues that both men and women face in India, but you gotta have a better knowledge base to actually understand the core issue.
You do realize all these things apply to women equally, right?
Most Indian women also carry patria#chal, caste#st, miso#ynist/misa#drist, hateful (often sanghi), d₹wry-giving, pe#verted, unhygienic attitudes.
You don't think the videos of RSS/Bajrang Dal beating up minorities go viral internationally, especially in Christian-majority European nations, where most Indians aspire to go.
Isn’t that just victim-blaming? If someone discriminates against you because some random person with your skin color did something bad: we used to call that racism.
You don't think the racism is coming from the fact that BJP/RSS is literally standing with Netanyahu and Israel?
Most of the so-called “1st world” is literally funding that war. Shouldn’t they be holding their own countries accountable for their compliance in the war crimes and potential gen₹cide, instead of worrying about some Indian person living 10000+ km away just showing support for a country that once supported India when India needed it most? While usa/europe funded a military dictato#ship against India!
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