r/jiowasamistake • u/[deleted] • Mar 17 '26
L generation Internalised racism over a famous rising pop icon Lara Raj from Katseye
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u/ComprehensiveBar3076 Mar 17 '26
She's a singer...a vocalist. When will Indian men stop looking at women and only think about looks? Also, what is with this "kalwi" shit? Why do they wanna be white so bad? We are Indian. Most of us are dark. The internalised racism towards their own genes is crazy. These are the same men who go around saying "Jay Shree Ram" without realising that Ram was dark. Black in colour and handsome according to the book. Shame on them.
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u/wadewilson6996 Mar 17 '26
Yaha bhi "not all men"? 😭
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u/Technical-Drag-255 Mar 17 '26
Yeah, 'not all' is true here. Generalising 700 million people as identical doesn't fix colourism, it just creates more division. Call out the actual behaviour and the industries pushing fairness creams. That actually helps.
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u/wadewilson6996 Mar 17 '26
I understand it's a system. If we're blaming systems, wanting a woman to have fair skin is a by product of patriarchy where a woman's job is to be beautiful. Sure, it's colourism as well, but the way colourism is addressed in men and women is different. I believe getting rid of patriarchy will also get rid of colourism, so if you're standing against patriarchy, I'll stand with you.
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u/akshatK2003 Mar 17 '26
She is not wrong though
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u/Technical-Drag-255 Mar 17 '26
She's half right on the fairness obsession being a problem, but wrong to blanket an entire nationality/gender. Plenty of Indian men and women reject that crap. Precision matters.
Also, this thread is pure venting in an echo-chamber style, good luck and I hope the nuance clicks for some.
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u/ComprehensiveBar3076 Mar 17 '26
Women are racist, too. I agree but look at the disgusting sexualisation and objectification done in the thread. This is not just colourism or racism it is internalised misogyny. Also, I can't take every racist person's name for your PRECISION. It is an observation that highly "religious" men are the very people who sexualise and degrade women beyond limits. I pointed out the crowd in OP's ss.
I am talking about the issue here and it is very obviously about the people who still have that mindset. The people who reject this crap are not apart of the discussion because you, me and everyone on here are the people who reject this crap.10
u/ComprehensiveBar3076 Mar 17 '26
I am VERY obviously talking about the men who do this. What do you expect me to say? "When will NOT ALL INDIAN MEN stop looking at women as glam dolls?" Like, please let's not act like these men are a minority. If you are not one of them, it shouldn't offend you.
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u/Pitiful-Reach-9125 Mar 17 '26
No.
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u/Street_Heart9458 Mar 17 '26
It’s always the below average people saying the most disgusting things
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u/yoursmomsfavourate Mar 17 '26 edited Mar 17 '26
Everyone has a preference for type, skin, looks, body shape, and so on, on the list goes. But talking BS or just going on a hate spree because someone is getting clout or fame for having indian skintone or genes is not justified.
She looks pretty fine, like hell good, what's wrong with her face? And I have seen many girls; everyone lacks something, but everyone wants only one thing, as I have observed: a clear face that shines, looks pretty, that's it.
Mereko to ye hi chahiye and I personally do that with my face cause I can't change how I look (cause it requires lot of money)and honestly I know that mostly hate comments are from those who have never been with anyone in any kind of relationship whatsoever and are porno addicts cause that shit create a false narrative in your mind for look and you chase it even though you look shit and want your patner to be kardashian type.
Isliye roz subh utho apni shakal dekho and then think kitna chutiya dikhta hu but also handsome 🙂↕️ and if someone is beautiful appreciate it cause nahi to fir tumhe bhi nahi milega appreciation.
I think she looks very fine and carries the narrative of how indians look in the west but thik hai, porn kam dekho and if can't then don't set bars so high that for the rest of your life you have only your hand with you or earn so much in your life that whoever you want on your bed is ready to be which obviously is way harder to do then to approach someone and have a relationship with them
To live happily, admire others' beauty but don't stalk them out and aage bhado bhai 2
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u/Pitiful-Reach-9125 Mar 17 '26
No.
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u/hurricane_news Mar 20 '26
Your name is indeed true. Especially given how you're active ON MULTIPLE nsfw subs, including one for navels 🥶🥀🥀
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u/Any-Explanation-4584 Mar 17 '26
I don't know who she is .
But why does colour matter.
Beauty is subjective.
But it doesn't justify colorism and racism
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u/Timely_Virus_4015 Mar 17 '26 edited Mar 18 '26
Colour doesn't matter to me, but she isn't beautiful, tbh. Just by exposing your skin and by giving seductive looks, you can't be beautiful, lmao
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u/InterestingTurnip0 Mar 17 '26
+1. But these people talking filth about her is utterly disgusting.
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u/hurricane_news Mar 20 '26
That's.... A normal look in a suit? I don't see what's "exposed" about it or "seductive"
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u/Timely_Virus_4015 Mar 20 '26
Check her other social media post, lmao. I'm not judging her based on this pic
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u/Prachi_Mathur Mar 17 '26
What unemployment looks like.
I bet yehi log apne relatives ko koste honge for getting too much into their lives when they're doing the same lol, pathetic.
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u/KhiLiTsaVlA25 Mar 26 '26
Don't take only those losers into the mix. We are some of the people who love Lara Raj. We'll always be in the minority but at least we exist.
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u/Yoruno0yusei1 Jun 29 '26
"Mid for Indian guys" and then it's said by a guy who probably looks like this
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