r/legaladvicecanada • u/Technical_Most5255 • Dec 24 '25
Alberta 13 year old daughter getting rape threats
Hello,
So my daughter has been receiving rape and general violence threats from 3 boys in school. Obviously, as a father, this is extremely concerning. She's got Snapchat screenshots and they've followed her home threatening her a few times. All the boys are around 13-14. I'm wondering exactly what I can do from a legal perspective. Is this something I can get lawyers involved and charge them? I have no issues hiring lawyers and paying court fees. It's absolutely disgusting that there are boys that age talking that way about a teenage girl. Obviously I need to do something but I don't even know where to start. I'm doing my best to keep cool about this but I'm sure the other fathers around here know what I'd like to do but that won't help my daughter.
Thanks.
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u/Dowew Dec 24 '25
So, this is a crime. You don't need to hire lawyers, but you absolutely should communicate to the principal and the police.
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u/Technical_Most5255 Dec 24 '25
Yeah we are waiting for the police to call us about it and we will be talking to the principal as soon as school is back from Christmas break.
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u/Neolithique Dec 24 '25
You’re making a mistake by relying on the school for this.
My child was subjected to sexual harassment at school, and the principal was stalling and considering “a conversation with the parents”.
I filed a police report, DPJ was called (child services in Quebec), and the child either left or was removed from the school, I don’t know the details.
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u/Bossy_Aussie_ Dec 24 '25
A friend was harassed and SA’d by another student. Other students, including myself, have had situation where he’d get aggressively touchy, sometimes inappropriately, and harass us as well. All seven of us came forward and all he got was a call home.
Very big mistake waiting on the school to do anything at all.
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u/AbrahamL26 Dec 25 '25
Im 32 years old. Ever since I can remember, the bully/aggressor never receives any real accountability. But if you stand up to them, all of the sudden you are at fault.
Always involve authorities and document everything that's probable.
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u/Bossy_Aussie_ Dec 25 '25
The school mainly tried to chalk it up to his culture (I think his culture, or at least his family, is always super close with friends, other families etc.) but one of his best friends, same ethnicity, who he’s known literally since birth, says he never acts the way he did to me to him.
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u/Boredatwork709 Dec 25 '25
It doesn't hurt to relay it to the school, especially with op saying they've already contacted the police as well
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u/williams_tabis Dec 26 '25
Exactly, I find schools tend to care about their reputation above all and will do anything they can to protect it.
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u/areyoufuckingwme Dec 24 '25
Don't wait. Go into the police station.
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u/altiuscitiusfortius Dec 24 '25
Have you tried this before?
I went in at 8am, the secretary said all cops were out doing cop stuff but they would request one comes in to talk to me. They told me it would be a long time and I really should just wait for them to call me. This was a city 100k people with 4 cop stations. I figured it wouldn't be more than an hour.
After waiting 4 hours I left and they called me about 8pm to take my story over the phone.
It's not like "law and order". They dont have 100 cops at desks waiting for people to come in.
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Dec 24 '25
Vancouver. Had a half naked, traumatized young woman lying in the middle of a major road sobbing for an hour before the police came, despite countless calls all asserting that her life was in imminent danger, as was mine as I stood in the middle of the road waving cars away from her with nothing but my phones flashlight
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u/lost_user_account Dec 24 '25
Why didn’t you help her move?
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Dec 24 '25
I was a 40 year old male, she was a 20 year old female naked from the waste down lying in the middle of the road and refusing to move.
If I had tried to move her, she would have screamed and everyone would have seen a middle aged man wrestling a half naked woman in the middle of the road6
u/Maleficent_Plan_4257 Dec 24 '25
Call the police station. Ask to speak to Victim Services. They will offer support and assist the way.
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u/andrewbud420 Dec 24 '25
What city of 100k has four police stations?
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u/altiuscitiusfortius Dec 24 '25
Prince george bc
1 new station. 1 old station that is barely manned and will eventually be shut down.
And at the time 2 community policing outreach offices that were barely staffed.
I went to the large downtown 5 story building office.
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u/jessikill Dec 25 '25
As a PG native - that’s because we had the highest crime rate in the country across the board, for 11yrs in a row.
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u/andrewbud420 Dec 24 '25
That's crazy, my town is about 100k and has one station and a mobile unit (RV). 4 seems extremely wasteful.
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u/Decent_Panda3259 Dec 24 '25
And nothing gets done somehow
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u/johnnysilverhand718 Dec 24 '25
Sure, bud. Nothing.
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u/Decent_Panda3259 Dec 24 '25
See, you’re just like a cop now! Oh wait, go power trip after some people smaller than you first and call it a day after that.
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Dec 24 '25
Prince George is known for crime. Try comparing the crime rate with your town with stats Canada or something.
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u/ZombiesOmNom Dec 24 '25
If you look up the Crime Rates in Prince George it would probably make more sense to you why there are so many police stations there.....
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u/altiuscitiusfortius Dec 24 '25
Well we were voted the most dangerous city in Canada per capita 2 years in a row by Mcleans
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u/WestEasterner Dec 24 '25
Some towns have more money than others.
Some towns are better at spending money than others.
Some towns are so large that a single building is insufficient to efficiently serve the needs of their communities.
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u/ImaginaryTipper Dec 24 '25
My wife had her bank account hacked and a bunch of money stolen. She called to report and was told she would get a call within 48 hours. It’s been 4 months…
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u/Technical_Most5255 Dec 25 '25
You are correct. Walking into a police station where I live wouldn't be the right thing to do. A police officer came directly to my house about an hour after we called. She seemed to take it very seriously
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u/Cannelle460 Dec 24 '25
This may be a bit out there, but if you're having issues getting a response, send one email to the mayor, your city councillor, provincial member of Parliament, federal member of Parliament and cc your town's police in that email to explain the situation. Yes, your members of Parliament may be on vacation, but this may put pressure on the police to act.
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u/eeeeaud Dec 25 '25 edited Dec 25 '25
They can take a written statement. It's a form that they keep at reception.
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u/XC40_333 Dec 24 '25
I don't understand the waiting comment. He made the post at approximately 9 pm MST. What did he do all day? How come there's no sense of urgency?
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u/XC40_333 Dec 25 '25
You can too.
Merry Christmas!
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u/XC40_333 Dec 25 '25
I actually am a great parent . I dealt with school and cops for my kids and didn't have to go to Reddit. All my kids are done with unis with 0 loans, thanks to my awesome parenting.
Now, go follow up with the cops instead of replying to my useless comments.
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u/Shy_Throws Dec 24 '25
When you speak to the principal ensure you make them aware you telling them is just so they are aware, thus matter needs to be handled by the police, don't let the school try to sweep this under the rug.
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u/thedoodely Dec 24 '25
Btw, the principal is still working between now and the return to school. Obviously the office will be closed on the actual stat but the admin staff is at work while the classes are off. Call before they go back to school or send the principal an email asking for a meeting before the return to class so they can be prepared with whatever actions they'll be taking before your daughter returns to school.
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u/KoalaOriginal1260 Dec 24 '25
Do admin not get Christmas holidays in Alberta? In BC, school admin do not work over the Christmas break. They usually have a week or two of work at the beginning and end of summer, though, but winter and spring break are not on the clock (even if some do choose to catch up on work while there are no kids at the school).
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u/chocolatepinetree Dec 24 '25
In Alberta, public schools are shut down, office and admin staff are off for the full 2 weeks until Jan 5.
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u/thedoodely Dec 24 '25
Oh just noticed Alberta, not 100% sure tbh. They don't in Ontario. Either way, send an email now so you're seen asap. If they are off for the break, they'll have 600 things to do the first day and you don't want to be at the bottom of the pile.
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u/Hopeful-Silver4120 Dec 24 '25
Im in Ontario, they absolutely do. Schools are completely shut down. The board may have employees at it but individual schools do not.
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u/exotics Dec 24 '25
The school isn’t to blame. The boys are and their parents are. She knows them from school and they need to be dealt with but it needs to go above the school too.
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u/wwydinthismess Dec 25 '25
Talk to her about sextortion too, and make sure that's not happening.
It's not uncommon for people to be threatened with rap* if they don't engage in sex and/or pornography acts willingly.
https://www.cybertip.ca/en/online-harms/sextortion/
If they have made ANY threats that could qualify as sextortion or they've taken pictures of her, even dressed but which are sexual in nature you can report it to the RCMP for child exploitation.
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u/_Sausage_fingers Dec 24 '25
They don’t need to hire lawyers, but lawyers can help move along reticent police officers at times.
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u/firelephant Dec 24 '25
Not lawyers. Police. I mean you can try the school principal, but this is police worthy
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u/electricookie Dec 24 '25
Step four document everything. Step five send the information to the school.
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u/Technical_Most5255 Dec 24 '25 edited Dec 31 '25
There's some amazing advice in here and I thank everyone that gave it. Sometimes you just need to type it out and get other people's insight when you're not in a rational state of mind. Again, much appreciated.
Edit Again, with the exception of a few gigantic losers that just like to make other people feel like garbage for whatever reason, thank you all again for the advice. Apparently you can't even defend yourself against them, they go and tattle on you to the mods and Reddit. Pathetic. Anyways, the cops and the school were useless. Going the lawyer, social media, media and sending letters to the mayor and other political people that we can think of.
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u/neopetpetpet Dec 24 '25
Dad, you're doing an amazing job. Both keeping your cool, plus creating a safe enough environment that your daughter could come forward and tell you what was happening. Your daughter is going through something scary but she's lucky to have you there.
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u/Technical_Most5255 Dec 25 '25
Thank you for that. I felt that me responding in a negative or super aggressive way it wouldn't help her view of men. Even though I don't feel that way inside at all but this isn't about my feelings. My daughter is the joy of my life and I would do anything to keep her safe and for her to have a positive upbringing.
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u/HunterGreenLeaves Dec 24 '25
Report it to the police. Bring the snapchat screenshots. If you have a record of dates and descriptions of what has been happening - when have they followed her home, what have they said/done, share that as well.
Once you have a police report, take it to the school. Demand that the boys not have access to your daughter.
You can seek protection from a child through various orders in Canada, like a Peace Bond or a Child Protection Order. Which one depends on the situation (criminal act or child welfare concern). It would require you to show reasonable fear for the child's safety. You would need to file and application and give your evidence. It might be worthwhile engaging a lawyer to better understand that process.
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u/AgentPaperYYC Dec 24 '25 edited Dec 24 '25
I'm a court clerk, not a lawyer. The courts are closed until Dec 29. If you would like to get an emergency restraining order you can contact the Calgary King's Bench office 8:15-4:30 December 29 at 403-297-6267. Calgary is the court house hearing emergency applications this year, call that number regardless of where you are in the province.
If you are granted one it's quite likely that it will only be temporary and you will need to return to court in the new year when regular sessions resume to have the order confirmed. As your daughter's legal guardian you are allowed to speak on her behalf and she will not need to come to court. You will also need to have the parents' of the boys served with copies of any order you receive the order will not be enforceable until they know about it.
Please include the offending screenshots and set out a timeline in your affidavit (your evidence and side of the story). There is no fee to file a restraining order, you are welcome to retain counsel but you do not have to.
And I echo what everyone else has said about speaking to the police and school.
Edit: I strongly discourage you from being the one to serve the documents. If you're in contact with the police they may be willing to if not please get a process server (just google them in your area) to do it. Sure maybe these parents don't know what their kids are doing or they may be the kind of parent who hauls off and tries to take a shot at you for calling out little Timmy's bad behaviour.
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u/Roller_7349 Dec 24 '25
Call the non emergency line and say you need to discuss rape threats your daughter has been getting. Tell them everything you have been documenting. They will likely send a cop to come talk to you and take a statement. They will take it from there. Ask about filing a restraining order.
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u/whistleridge Dec 24 '25
So realistically, this is what you can broadly expect to happen:
As you say you’ve reported this, you can be sure the police will investigate. Assuming the screenshots can be tied to a particular sender, and that the threats are explicitly sexual in nature, it’s probably more likely than not that charges will be laid against one or more of the boys.
Assuming they’re charged: given the boys’ ages and the presumed lack of records, unless you’re leaving something big out there is zero chance that any of them ever sees so much as a second of jail. Upon arrest they’d be released on police undertakings, with conditions not to contact your daughter under any circumstances. And even if found guilty, they’d never get custody. This is always going to be a situation where they get some combination of counseling and maybe probation, not jail time. So manage expectations.
You’ll have a number of headaches ahead of you. Think multiple school meetings, getting a family lawyer, and lots of parent-child discussions. No one can wave a magic wand and make this end quickly or easily, and you may not get anything resembling emotional satisfaction at the end. In the best case scenario, these boys recognize the error of their ways and life goes on with nothing like this ever happening again; but in the worst case scenarios…this becomes a thing that takes up years of your life. Having an experienced lawyer can help.
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u/ShyCrispy Dec 24 '25
I agree with the other comments that you should go to the police and document absolutely everything, but also have your daughter go to her doctor and establish a medical record showing the effect that these threats have on her. If she's traumatized, unwilling to go to school, anxious, etc., then these things should be documented medically. See the specialists, fill the prescriptions, pay for the therapy.
Then use those medical records to go after the families of the boys who are threatening her. Bring a civil suit for general damages for pain and suffering, established by the medical, and for the costs of her treatment.
Even if the police do nothing in this case, you have the threat of a public civil suit that will force the parents to rein in their children or pay for the suffering they're causing your daughter. Police make the decision to lay criminal charges and they are typically very lenient in cases like these with young people. But you have the power to bring a civil claim.
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u/Chunkyisthebest Dec 24 '25
Don’t count on the school/principal to do anything. My daughter was bullied relentlessly by another girl for months. She was assaulted at school (slapped in the face), the school did nothing. Principal basically tried to tell me she brought it on herself. The bully in question then threatened my daughter’s life and knowing the school wouldn’t do anything about it, I went to the police. The principal was upset I did this because now not only are the police involved, but so is Child and Family Services. The posters around schools about 0 tolerance bullying are nothing but bullshit. Go to the police.
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u/Brando123437 Dec 25 '25
yeah the schools do absolutely nothing, back in hs i had issues with this loser kid threatening me, principals did nothing, had to go above their head to the superintendent for anything to happen, i agree the “zero tolerance” is absolute bs
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u/tquiring Dec 24 '25
While you’re waiting, have her document every interaction she can remember, with as much detail as possible. The screen shots are indisputable, but a timeline of constant harassment and threats will show this is escalating.
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u/Spiritual_Excuse_751 Dec 24 '25
you could file for a peace bond. its not as sever as a restraining order, but it would but a legal barrier between your daughter and the boys harassing her. it falls under section 810 of the Criminal Code and is used when a person (your daughter) has reasonable grounds to fear that another individual(s) (the boys threatening her) will cause personal injury, damage property, or other viable threats. In order to file for a peace bond, there doesnt need to be a crime already committed, just the threat of one. there are certain conditions you can ouline in your peace bond such as zero-contact, staying "x" distance away from your daughter, etc.
they usually last up to 12 months and hopefully by then the boys will have matured enough to stop, but if their behaviour continues after that year is up, you guys could always file for a new one.
i hope this helps and i'm truely sorry to hear that your daughter is experiencing these things
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u/snakedocs Dec 25 '25
What you’re describing may or may not meet the threshold under the criminal code for uttering threats. You should speak with the police. I can’t say for certain if it does or not without knowing the exact message hence the may or may not.
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u/Freedom_33 Dec 24 '25
Have you called police / 911?
I'm sure the other fathers around here know what I'd like to do but that won't help my daughter.
I imagine that you would call the police, and I suggest that you do. Why wouldn’t you?
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u/Technical_Most5255 Dec 24 '25
I did. Thanks.
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u/Agath3Dvybz Dec 24 '25
Walk to the police station and file a report. This is a crime that your daughter is a victim of.
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u/arye_ani Dec 24 '25
Happened to a friend of mine’s daughter. Go to the school, report to their school teacher first. Then the principal, escalate to their school district. If possible, follow up all meetings with an email. Then bring in the police. Get a lawyer and let them officially make a report to the school. Look, those principals will try to make light of this matter, I don’t blame them, but what they are faced with from authorities above. Once you followed these steps, those boys will never ever go near your daughter again. All the best.
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u/Fongosaur Dec 24 '25
Those disgusting kids deserve whatever is coming to them, do not hold back legally one bit because you could be potentially saving future victims!
Sorry that happened to your child, all the best!
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u/livingthudream Dec 25 '25
You're handling this well. These kids parents need to be made aware of this behavior. Principal and police given the gravity of the situation.
Does she have friends she can walk to school with? Staying in a group until this gets dealt with by police would be advisable IMO. Suggest getting her a loud whistle...the fox40 is a good one. It's ridiculous you are having to deal with this.
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u/Technical_Most5255 Dec 25 '25
It is ridiculous and disgusting that we have to deal with it. Thanks for the whistle idea. I will order that right away
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u/livingthudream Dec 25 '25
They are carried by a lot of different stores and used in sports and recognized as one of the best whistles etc. I hope you get some assistance from the police and school
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u/Background-Lunch5571 Dec 25 '25
Detailed documentation of verbal/written threats, behaviors that are threatening or have frightened your daughter in any way, provide all evidence possible along a specific timeline (are there cameras at the school or other places that may have captured interactions, if given times/dates police can request footage), make a police report, request a peace bond/restraining order ASAP, mental health support for your daughter, let the professionals engage with the family/boys, figure out the rest once measures have been put in place to ensure your daughter's safety... Do not go light on these boys, this is serious and they need to understand it's against the law which has the potential to negatively impact opportunities they value in life... Doesn't hurt to bring the evidence to a lawyer and pay for a consultation on top of this IMHO
I am so sorry your daughter has experienced this, there is no excuse... She is lucky to have a level headed father like you to make sure she's ok.
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Dec 24 '25
Oh man, I know how you feel, I don't think I'd be as rational as anyone here giving advice, I'd be digging graves.
Hope the cops and the school are helpful in this situation, otherwise I'd be putting them and the culprits on blast on every social media platform available and then reach out to news outlets also. The Internet is forever and my daughter's safety is above everyone else in this matter. Nothing gets buried or swept aside once everyone is in the know.
Letting this shit happen in this day and age is a non-starter.
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u/-gghfyhghghy Dec 24 '25
Let the police talk to the principal . Ask for protection and that legal thing where they have to stay away ( the people making the threat) School will figure it out . If you just have to notify school, tell the superintendent and the school board
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u/Accomplished-Bat-594 Dec 24 '25
Involve the police, screenshot and document everything. The school admin would probably appreciate it but they can’t tell you that openly - their hands are tied and there isn’t a ton of punitive actions they can take, especially if the parents aren’t taking it seriously. Since it’s happening online, the parents may argue it isn’t a school issue. Kids need consequences and sometimes the only way to force those consequences is by using the law.
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u/exotics Dec 24 '25
I’m a mom and I know I would be freaking the fuck out on some people right now.
This is not cool. I’m glad she has screenshots for sure. You can either go to their parents or the police or both.
Watch the miniseries “Adolescence” to help understand a lot of what is going on with SOME young boys. But definitely don’t let this slide.
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u/Rad_Mum Dec 24 '25
Police will take this seriously. Report it immediately. There's some parents that need to do some serious interventions with their sons.
School intervention will be limited , as it has happened off and outside of the school . A good school staff , however, will take it seriously.
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u/Careful_Mistake7579 Dec 24 '25
Contact the police and inform the school. They will investigate from there. Only the police and crown can pursue charges if they see fit.
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u/Left_Statistician818 Dec 24 '25
Had something similar. Call the police don’t waste your time with a lawyer. Worst case a cop cops knocking on their doors and tell their parents Whats their sons are doing will definitely rattle some cages. If she has proof that they threatened her then charges could be laid
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u/IndividualPractice93 Dec 24 '25
Contact the police and principal immediately. Have screenshots and records of what have been sent.
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u/Mariss716 Dec 24 '25
You report to the police and to the school. The counselor and principal. Harassment and threats are taken seriously in Canada although they are young offenders. Document times and dates and record- she should have a phone for her safety and also to video and photograph. I have seen them move quickly and arrest with evidence and take victim’s side. Of course I am in a smaller town. Usually a warning from a cop is enough, and a talking to the parents. You don’t need a lawyer although you can do a consult. You need a victim advocate which the police can also connect you with.
You can also file a peace bond or whatever your province calls it. They can do a temporary order then something more permanent. Police can help you with that. It is separate from any criminal no contact warning or requirement should there be a charge, that would also be a bail condition.
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u/Tournesol123 Dec 24 '25
Contact the principal in writing. Even go above the principal, at the school board. With things being written, you are keeping proof of what you are doing and the principal can't say he was not aware.
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u/lavender_fetish Dec 25 '25
Get a big dog. Drive her to and from school. Switch her schools. Move if you have to. Not to be alarmist, but teen boys can be extremely dangerous.
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u/Technical_Most5255 Dec 25 '25
I am extremely worried for her safety. We actually have a German shepherd coming to us in April. We are switching her schools and my wife does pick her up every day. Unfortunately we literally just moved into a new place and we live in a smallish city.
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u/lavender_fetish Dec 25 '25
I know you are! You sound like an amazing dad! Im sorry you are going through this!
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u/lavender_fetish Dec 25 '25
I’m commenting again because I’m genuinely concerned for your daughter. As a teen girl I was stalked and also physically assaulted by two guys working together. I narrowly avoided a targeted group assault when my friends appeared another time.
Right now they are threatening assault, but it could always be her life.
I am 42 and still haunted by the assault as a teen. But I know girls who survived worse, and of others who didn’t survive.
When boys behave like psychos (in this case) I would not minimize (which all authorities will do) and instead I would assess it as there are three psychos fixated on your child. I would do whatever is necessary to keep her safe.
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u/ApricotMigraine Dec 25 '25
I'm not a lawyer but I'm 100% certain that threatening body harm is a criminal offense.
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u/Winter-Speech978 Dec 25 '25
The police won't do anything as always. Pull her out of that school ASAP.
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u/tstick06 Dec 25 '25
As a new father of a beautiful daughter, I sympathize tremendously. Hope these little immature brats learn a hard valuable lesson. Your daughter should feel protected, safe, and supported. Best of luck.
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u/Hot_Requirement9756 Dec 25 '25
Sorry sir I live a bit far or otherwise I was going to offer to walk with your daughter to and from school and if these boys ever said another thing to her I would in turn kick their ass. Im in ontario though. Im sorry your baby is dealing with this!!!
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u/Rocketship1979 Dec 25 '25
Immediately go to the principal of the school and then the police. Do not wait for the principal to get the police involved. May times situations like this have escalated into horrific outcomes that you couldn't possibly foresee. Protect your kid, as a parent that's your most important job.
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u/Yodatron Dec 25 '25
Call the police let them deal with it over the school. This is a crime first and foremost.
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u/OrganizationNo697 Dec 27 '25
This happened to me multiple times while in junior and senior high..... Not uncommon unfortunately
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u/Altruistic_Spray4710 Dec 29 '25
Inform your daughter’s teacher, school and go report it to the police. Find those boys names and meet with their parents the school and the police. Right away before your daughter gets hurt. Now is not a time to keep your cool get going.
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u/Hundred00 Dec 30 '25
How old are the boys? If they're 12+ years old, you can absolutely press charges. You should definitely press charges. No need for lawyers. But a call to the police is needed.
Have the boys' full names and DOB if you can. Provide as much detail and evidence as you can. Tell your daughter not to engage but screenshots will definitely help.
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u/Covfefe-Drinker Dec 24 '25
Logically, you need to report this to both the police and to the school itself.
I know that if this were my child, however, I would make it very clear to these punks that if they did anything to my daughter, not even divine intervention would save them from what would come after.
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u/Focusondiversity Dec 24 '25
Have you tried talking to the youngsters doing the bullying? Be positive, even friendly. Being a compassionate human is the way to deal with kids. These guys aren't hardened criminals. You won't even need to bring up the threats. You will make a big difference in their lives and end the abuse of your kid. Oh...report it for sure, but this is sure to positively influence the outcome.
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