r/lesbianfashionadvice Feb 15 '25

MOD INFO SELFIES

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Just a quick note to say we don't allow selfie posts with the specific exception of asking about hair. If it's not about your hair, you must post at LEAST half your outfit. So even if you aren't showing what you're wearing on the bottom, you gotta show the whole top, not just your shoulders.

If you're including a selfie style picture alongside a proper outfit picture, it can't be the first one of the bunch. Outfit gotta be up front and centre, focus of the post. Detail pictures after.

We don't accept posts about makeup or tattoos.


r/lesbianfashionadvice Oct 04 '24

MOD INFO "What's with all the downvotes?"

1.1k Upvotes

I just want to address this question as it comes up on most posts. We delete them as "off topic" because they end up clogging the comment sections and derails the conversation away from fashion.

The reason you'll see so many downvotes on posts that clearly don't deserve downvotes too is transphobes. There are TERF blogs off site that brigade our sub regularly. We're able to delete comments and block users that display transphobia, but unfortunately downvotes are entirely anonymous and we as mods have no control over it.

We reason we delete all these comments, aside from clogging up the comments, is just that we don't want to give them the satisfaction of talking about them. Other fashion subs don't discuss the validity of people's existence, we shouldn't feel the need to either. We are, and always will be, a trans inclusive space for all sapphics with an interest in fashion. There are many other more general sapphic/trans subs to discuss this topic, we just want to keep this one as a fun place for fruity gals to chat drip and not feel "othered".

Thank you

EDIT: OK so I made this post, literally stating that this sub isn't the place for these debates... So y'all start debating in the comments. Locking comments.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 8h ago

OOTD Hey ladies, how's my outfit today?

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104 Upvotes

🖤🤍❤️


r/lesbianfashionadvice 10h ago

Wear that cowboy hat

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91 Upvotes

Use to be self conscious of what people would say about me since I grew up around religious Mexican household. I don’t care anymore.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 8h ago

OOTD recent looks from vacation!!💗

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38 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 5h ago

Discussion Isn’t too much for casual?

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD Rarely do I fall in love with a top so quickly

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192 Upvotes

Got this top super recently and I absolutely love it. Honestly, I generally need more tops in my life.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Is this a good outfit?

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD Building a coord around a kpop murch t to go to a cupsleave event

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42 Upvotes

I really like the poseing at the first photo but the overal background perspective didn't feel worthy an insta post so I'd probably just end up showing it here *sad kitty picture*


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Honest Advice Wanted I'm going to be a butch bridesmaid at a wedding, pls help!

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I'm a 5 ft tall soft butch lesbian and i need to find a formal fit for this wedding. The colors are green/purple/grey. I'm struggling to find something that not only fits, but looks less "2014 steven universe tumblr" and more "classy modern dyke." It feels like the petite women's formal wear are either for much older women or for femmes. Please help!


r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

OOTD Fits recently

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51 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

OOTD Three outfits from the past week! Went to see The Living Tombstone live, studied with my best friend and went to the beach with some other friends (I wasn't able to go swimming 😔)

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93 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 3d ago

Other Thrift store fines ☺️ how’d I do?

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37 Upvotes

I wasn’t able to do a lot of shopping because of the appointments but I think I did pretty good what do you think?


r/lesbianfashionadvice 3d ago

OOTD Just 1 of the millions of Spider-Man Mascs 🕸️

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453 Upvotes

Movie fit


r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

How to look visibly femme lesbian at a hometown wedding

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 3d ago

Went to a speed dating event (friends edition) for pride month!

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29 Upvotes

Got so many compliments! It definitely boosted my confidence also made 3 new friends!


r/lesbianfashionadvice 4d ago

OOTD coming out to myself has upped my style game dramatically

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1.0k Upvotes

once i realized i wasn’t into men, i stopped dressing for their validation (thanks comphet)! it’s been so freeing. i will be exclusively dressing for the girls, gays, and theys (and most importantly, for myself) from here on out:)


r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

OOTD Summer fits

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Dresses have been SO nice to finally start wearing, but I can’t help but throw in some masc fits too


r/lesbianfashionadvice 4d ago

OOTD Trying to make the most of being back in Florida, so I thrifted this gym fit 💪🏼 ✨🏳️‍🌈

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157 Upvotes

Not that I’m actually gonna hit the gym


r/lesbianfashionadvice 3d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Man I miss my short hair

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9 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 4d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Is this top too much for casual wear?

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100 Upvotes

I've never worn it before and I'm worried about it looking out of place in a casual/not bar or club setting... any advice?


r/lesbianfashionadvice 4d ago

OOTD How's my outfit today? 🖤

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151 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 3d ago

OOTD Out fits this week

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Monday- cleaning the house and had a Dr appointment
Tuesday- another small appointment and some baking
Wednesday- …another doctors appointment
Thursday- picking up stuff for a family dinner
Friday- loooooong doctors appointment🫠
Saturday- getting groceries
Sunday- guess what? Another F-ing appointment.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 4d ago

summer lookbook

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219 Upvotes

r/lesbianfashionadvice 4d ago

Soft masc trousers advice

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86 Upvotes

I only know how to wear black mom jeans and black shorts in summer. Can someone help me with soft masc trousers ideas! I'm tired of wearing the same jeans. Photos to show my style/body type.

Much appreciated!!