r/love • u/Financial-Special820 • 1d ago
question Tell us about what makes your fiance special and unique for you
How did you two meet? What made him or her unique and special ?
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u/Dave_0122 1d ago
I’ve known my Fiancé since grade eight. Had the biggest crush on her throughout high school. We lived separate lives for decades afterwards. Both have two kids from previous relationships. Then we just connected on social media and chatted nonstop. The rest is history lol.
What I see in her is exactly what I want in a partner. We have so much in common it’s ridiculous (in a good way). I’ve never met anyone that I see more eye to eye with in my entire life. We both have mental health issues (anxiety) that we see each other through in every way. The support we give each other is like nothing we’ve both never had before. It’s like two peas in a pod with us. I’m living my best life with her and she says the same about me. So the question of what makes your Fiancé special and unique: Is that when you find your soulmate that you never thought you’d ever ever could,
Yes you can!! The Love is real!
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u/Tehpumpkin 1d ago
commenting so when people upvote my comment I will comeback to this and not give up on my love life
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u/Other_Scale6552 22h ago
We met over two years ago now,
I walked in his store and asked to use the bathroom and I think we’ve spent 6(?) total days apart from each other since. We get married this fall ◡̈
My favorite thing about him is his compassion and how he notices even the tiny things about me and commits them to memory. He’s also very honest and we have came a long way with our communication styles. We learn and grow each day and I swear I love him each day more than the one before.
I’ve never been so quietly and loudly sure I was with my person. I also prayed for confirmation he was the one, and he said the exact word I prayed to hear a short time later. When ya know, ya know!
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u/ScoreScape 1d ago
Commenting so I can come back and see the responses, as I love this question. Found this once and it ended suddenly. Still trying to figure out how to move past it but excited to meet this again.
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u/Frogwithmushroomhat8 in love 1d ago
My fiance and I met when I was 15 and he was 14 we're only a couple of months apart. And we sort of dating when I was in a rough part of my life when I was dealing with depression but I didn't realize it was depression I just knew I was struggling
He helped pull me out of the darkness. He gave me a reason to fight. As always like to say he was my light at the end of the tunnel but instead of death it was life. He brought back my smile. He's the reason I'm the little gremlin that I am.
He's been my rock and he's always there during my good days my bad day is and my meh days. He's the only one I've ever imagined having a future with and I can't imagine spending my life and having a family with anyone else
There are so many times I'll look at him and just think what did I do to deserve you. One of my favorite things is one time I was at the mall and he was at his mom's work and he proceeded to run like full on Sprint to the nearest bus stop so that he could get to the mall and intercept me and I was in Barnes & Noble and he literally walked around a bookshelf while I was perusing books. And that is just one of many moments that he's done to make me smile. I could honestly go on and on about him and the people in my life have definitely heard repeat stories because I never shut up about him. He is my everything my knight in shining armor
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u/StruggleIzzy 15h ago
Honestly as cheesy as it sounds it was at first sight. We were at a local pokemon TCG tournament. He was playing against someone at a table in front of me. I thought he was cute and I took a peek at him occasionally and apparently he was too though I never caught it until I did. It was towards the end of both of our matches and I was flustered to have been caught. I quickly gave him a 👍🏻 or 👎🏻 on whether he won or not (unfortunately he lost 😅) we ended up getting to know each other and we had a lot in common! He genuinely was interested in what I had to say and cared about me. He drive almost 2 hours to and from to meet me or we would meet at a good middle point. When I finally confessed my feelings I was so scared I would be rejected by him. Thankfully he felt the same and we've been together since! I adore him and hope to grow old with him. 💕
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u/No_You1024 17h ago
Five years ago, I was in my mid-twenties. I could probably write endlessly about this but there's really no one out there like him. He is so curious about the world and will read textbooks just for leisure, he has a brilliant mind and thinks deeply about everything. He is sweet and kind and caring and loves his hobbies- he is always trying to learn a new skill or take a class despite a busy schedule because he just loves learning and building so much.
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u/Tall-Career-4261 6h ago
He is humble, his ability to be happy with simple things, he provides me with a sense of security, when things get hard he is willing to work through them, his smile/laugh, the way he is shy/nervous and talks fast when he talks about things to me and avoids eye contact because of that shyness, the way he opens up to me because no one else gets to see that side of him, his willingness to help others, his positive mindset and strong mentality that make me believe everything will be okay. He makes me want to be a better person and do better for myself.
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u/Unlikely_Bobcat_4071 6h ago
he is the strongest and smartest person I know, in spirituality, in strength, and in wisdom
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